You do know this is porn? Fantasy? and that they are acting? I mean admittedly not Oscar winning performances from the method school, but part of the Sean Cody/CF shtick is to portray these guys as if they are really straight and are forced to do this for cash, as that fulfills a lot of guys porn fantasies. I am well aware that some of them may indeed by Gay for pay, but the assumption that they are in real life exactly as you see on video is exactly that, an assumption.