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Couldn't agree more. The non-genuine types are gone before most of us even notice (but there's always a crop to take their place). One of the best lures for me to try someone new is when they indicate they're open to seeing anyone 18+, regardless of what you look like. THESE are the genuine ones - and the most successful.

I can see why this would be frowned upon. Nothing screams mood kill more than dialing up a toll free number to verify if the funds are actually there. 😆 Also, this would not at all be something I would accept, as I learned from giving a cash gift card as a gratuity. The company I bought the gift card from had me register the number to activate it, and after I gave it as a gift, sent me a replacement card to my address! I'm presuming the masseur either threw it in a drawer or in the trash, since when I called to do a balance check many months after that massage, it was still full. The point is, you may have a balance today, but the gift giver may have that card's # information, and wipe it out before you get a chance.

How on Earth is this guy still 30 years old? Even if his birthday is February 29th, the math still doesn't add up. In the past, he used to show his face. Back when he really was 30, is quite a handsome guy.

Yes, and that's a nice profile pic of him I hadn't seen before. Thank you.

This is always an enjoyable post to read every year. My favorite (although I just booked someone for the end of the year) is Karlo in Atlanta. He's an extremely busy guy, so I felt fortunate to squeeze in my visit with his hectic schedule. His technique is what set him apart from the others. He mentioned he'd like to start up a line of men's underwear for men with generous-sized [censored] like himself. While that wouldn't fit me, I'd love to see him model his prototype!

To further add to the confusion, he (Latinomusclebull) changed his adult film name to Nickoles Alexander, who you can tell was Scotty Marx based on the oblique tattoos. His profile photos from two months ago look outstanding, and it's possible he's relocated from the U.K. to Texas. From communication I've had, he appears to be a nice guy.

It does if you're visiting the Grand Canyon for a while. That's not a bad place to spend a few days.

He also mentions a minor Ziggy Marley hit from the 80s, by not wanting to see "Tomorrow People". That alone both shows his age, and my unwillingness to ever hire him.

I'm sure I'm not alone in the opinion that when I see someone who has other-worldly salad tossing skills, I ALWAYS see that person again. The thing about listing anyone specifically is that YMMV (your mileage may vary), so while someone my get the over-the-moon rear end experience, someone else may not have that happen at all with the same guy. Less and less guys over time are willing to perform this fetish (health risks, perhaps?), however this same high percentage of men who either stopped doing it or never did to begin with rather frequently are willing to receive from me. My personal favorite is in Atlanta, and sadly his 2024 travel itinerary doesn't include my state. My second favorite doesn't do that (at least with me) anymore, and I'm no less clean or perky.

Somehow his profile, and nobody else's from what I can see, has no listing of the types of massage available on RM. That is weird. As far as his build, he genuinely has gone into beast mode with his fitness routine this year, so his larger, more muscular size is authentic.

The best knowledge to avoid seeing a guy is to discover on this forum that "he changed his name yet again". My favorites are the ones that stick to the 1st name I become familiar with - and stay that way. As for wanting to know someone's actual name, that's PM material, not for the public at large to be privy of.

This handsome guy traveled to Las Vegas earlier this year, but my schedule wasn't able to match his. Anyone taken the plunge? I'm aware this isn't a city bursting with providers, but has a large population.

He's visiting Palm Springs now - the detective work of the forum members is much appreciated!

Glad to read that the area is still doing well. I went to Hillcrest to see the movie "Hedwig", the only theater in all of San Diego showing it. Me and msclelovr showing our age! Frankly, the Hillcrest cinema was well ahead of their time, as they also were the only theater to show "Blair Witch Project" before it became a phenomenon.

Very rarely, when someone pulls their ad, it's due to having a decent enough regular client base that is isn't necessary to advertise any longer. I believe I saw him at the tail end of his advertising days, pre-COVID. He was a major germaphobe, which I actually appreciated. Wanting a do-over if I could go back in time, I wish I just let him accidentally do a salt scrub like he planned, which was less expensive than a massage. My mistake was not realizing that he was THAT Kurt when he opened the door, and my starstruckness took the appointment into an awkward but unforgettable direction.

Things like this happening are just so bad all the way around on so many levels. It's as if some kind of reverse psychology is going on. Was this some kind of ploy to get people to talk about the opera when otherwise they wouldn't. Hmmm. After all, I am right now. Not a protester. 😑

Jobs that pay a low wage with the expectation of tips are the worst kind of jobs to have. I had one, and went two seven week stretches, including one from late November to early January without making a penny. I quit because I was tired of being blamed for adversely effecting everyone else's salaries. The last straw was working a Super Bowl, busting my ass, and making 2 dollars. Everyone else made around three hundred, at a minimum. Tips were divided up and shared.

Are opera performers known for their anti-planet ways to justify this? I hope every attendee takes every person involved with disrupting the program for everything they got in court. Just outrageous.

I wouldn't at all doubt that he discovered the level of business he could get from "conversion curious" gay men (from them to him) enabled the volume of people to see shoot through the roof - especially since you mention how increased his handsomeness got over time. It's disappointing though that he reduced his sensuality with you - and likely it wasn't personal, but because he's "acting straight". It blows me away how many people advertise on mint boys and state in their ad "women only". Not only do I find that flustering, but stupid on their part, too.

What was the difference in time from the last time you saw him to the previous, pleasant time?

Bottom line is it really is none of the client's business what your own relationship status is. Just like there's no need for you to know theirs, although if they bring up their personal life to you, that's their prerogative (true story - I had to type up the Bobby Brown song to see how that is spelled, ha ha). Since you're in a committed relationship, that may put some people off, believing the level of sensuality will have it's limits. This is a natural assumption to make, even if it may not be true. I personally find it really hot when I see two men who are a couple offer erotic massage together, although I've never taken the plunge due to the high rates they tend to command.

It's not uncommon for me to read on here of people who had second experiences that weren't anything like the first. What is it that could be attributed to? I ask because I had that happen to me for the first time ever recently, and I am still stunned by it. I suppose my expectations were too high, perhaps? I look to myself and am really reaching for the reasons why. I look much different than the last time I had seen him, as did he.

It's just like a gas station. Their rate likely varies depending on their location and other factors. Always look to reviews to find concrete rates. If there's none, coupled with an "ask me", don't bother. They're wasting your time and their own money.

"I am not a prostitute", but escorting is listed in what he's available for. Is that like a librarian saying "I don't put books away, just reading material."?

Perhaps trying to set something up too far ahead of time is what creates the disappointment. There's a provider in Vegas (who I saw once and will never repeat) who told me he didn't appreciate that I scheduled a day ahead of time, and it would have been in my best interest to contact him same day. I personally thought that was crazy. Same day appointments to me are disrespectful of the provider's time. It screams "I'm horny, and I want you right now."