JamesB

MT is allowed but limited and manual HE provided. Feel free to PM me if you need more details.

In my experience about 20% are 10 or more minutes late. I have only had 1 no show so I´ll take it as a 1%. Full disclosure: I´m a little obsessive with punctuality.

I have had only one no show so far. He was supposed to come to my hotel. I texted him 15 minutes after the agreed time and no answer. After over an hour, he texted me saying that he could be at my hotel in 10 minutes, no explanation, no excuse, no nothing. I just said: no thank you.

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I finally got around to meet Nelson. His pics are accurate and recent. His place is well located, easy to find, plenty of parking and very clean. He is a very sweet guy from Venezuela. His massage skills are a solid B+. He is naked during the massage, MT is allowed and HE included. Rates quoted for incall were 60 min $160 / 90 min $210. Well worth the money in my opinion. He has a RM profile: https://rentmasseur.com/LeafarZed

This post reminds me the one time I went to see a provider for the first time and within 5 minutes of arriving, he was showing me a picture of his husband. All I could think was: WTH is wrong with this guy. Do I know how to pick them or what LOL!!!

Agree 100%

I have had this request only a couple of times but for me is a red flag and a deal breaker. I just said: I guess we are not a good match, thank you for your time and have a great day.

I have a trip coming up to this island and the search didn't show anything.

First of all, I’m sorry this happened to you. While I do check references in this forum before I hire, we all know this is not a guarantee of a great encounter. Remember that YMMV. Also, even with great recommendations here I always follow my own set of rules when hiring. The moment a provider asks for my “Stats” that is a red flag and reason enough for me to move on. I do have to say that I always voluntarily disclose my age when I hire. As far as what to do now, since his profile is gone from RM, you can't leave a review but you can and should post your experience on here on the most recent thread about the provider to give a heads up to the other members.

We could all try saying that deposits are the best idea ever and maybe, just maybe this post will die. LOL!!

https://rent.men/SANTIAGO_latino

If a provider makes you feel that he is out of your league, you are hiring the wrong provider.

To be honest I don't trust reviews on either site. Only once in all the years that I have been hiring I have left a bad review and it was because it was a scam. I always check forums like this one to get info on a particular provider. Also I have had providers offer me a discount in exchange for a good review, so that could explain why I have had a below average experiences with a providers with many 5 star reviews.

I don't even remember ever doing a massage with underwear. Always nude.

I guess I don't have a choice. I need to fly to London.

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I agree 100%. Communication is key when hiring. I always like to confirm that the provider is willing to do all that is important to me. I think most providers are happy to answer these types of questions and if one is not, then he may not be the right one to hire.

If not listed I assume you are not willing to do it. If it is listed and it is important to me, I will confirm that you are willing to do it before booking.

I seems on the low side to me.

Anyone have any experience with him? Kez on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I've been asked for a deposit once. I politely reply, as I walked into a conference, that I was not willing to do that and to have a nice day. A couple of hours later when I was able to check my messages I found two messages, one where he was willing to go ahead with the booking without a deposit and another one lowering the rate he quoted just a few hours before. Needless to say that I did not book with this provider.

IMHO if the masseur advertises as "Erotic", I would expect some kind of HE. Also the rate charged should give you an idea.

Some places are more challenging to find than others. My building for example has several entrances but only one will go to the elevator. When I host a provider, I send them an aerial view of the building with the right entrance clearly marked and a picture of said entrance. They still manage to get lost.

Sorry that happened to you but thank you for sharing your experience.