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And sorry I missed THIS performance... http://www.newnownext.com/matt-bomer-naked-boys-in-the-band/05/2018/

No buzz on filming this one...yet.

If it was the only redflag, I would probably proceed. But that's in the context of this new reality with no posted rates. I don't haggle, and hate having to broach the subject. (It was so much easier to say "going off your terms as posted today on RM"...) I will say "that's a bit more than I was anticipating -- sorry" and then wait to see what the gent says but I won't make a counteroffer...

Not seeing any Marks in NJ -- at least not on RentMen. What's his RM handle?

https://rent.men/ZiggyBanks https://rent.men/Mister_Mister https://rent.men/MachoSardo https://rent.men/StasLandon https://rent.men/Jonah_fontana

I'm quite fond (in a strange way) of this play, so I'm very glad I got to see this production. Disappointed by the limits of Parsons' performance, but really impressed by Matt Bomer, Michael Benjamin Washington, and Tuc Watkins in the trickier, less showy roles. And whatta set!

I'm assuming this is the guy you're talking about? https://rent.men/Russelll Never met him, but have spied him (several times) on the streets of NYC, typically on his way somewhere after a workout...WOOF. His posted pics definitely seem accurate, but IMHO he looks much better/hotter in person.

yesss, PLEASE... may there be a deluge of recommendations inspired by this excellent query. To start things going: RomanLA.

Not sure if this correct traveling gent: https://rent.men/JohnTitor

NYC's got a wealth of resources so it might help if you shared a bit more about what you're looking for. Any gents catch your eye? And do you have any particular preferences (type, role, activities)?

The Recharge app can be pretty great. Nice hotels (though not 4hours for $90) but still quite reasonable.

You two have me contemplating a trip to London...

He is on Chaturbate. https://chaturbate.com/colbymoney/ But I'm pretty sure he doesn't escort.

Sean Costin's appeared at Adonis events (on both coasts, I believe). Dunno whether he's open to making appointments.

We enjoyed a good text exchange and I was getting excited to meet, but found his hourly a bit steep.

Anybody?

better link: https://rent.men/DustyWilliams/

I found him insufferable. But then there'd be another shot of him in his blue trunks... Or he'd look at the camera with those incredible chestnut brown eyes and... SWOON. But then he'd be utterly insufferable again. <and repeat>

I love to rim. Don't much enjoy being rimmed. I just figure it's another version of the "hot-wired" nipple thing. Every body is different.

Yes to this. I too find myself more reluctant to contact someone without a face-pic. But if you are willing to share something -- locked pics, a pic with blurred features, even a description ("my friends say I look like a beefier James Franco") -- that would suggest to me that you're genuinely concerned about privacy/discretion and not running a scam.

I would recommend rummaging through the folks selling these kind of books on AbeBooks. https://www.abebooks.com/collections/sc/vintage-paperbacks-gay-male/6Nw6vyjt9FXtsQoVDbgKYK Many are private dealers/collectors, some of whom will set up viewing appointments. Hang Fire Books -- which set up the gallery linked above -- is based in Brooklyn and does arrange such appointments.

http://www.townhouseny.com/ The door staff definitely attends to the dress code and, yes, I would say that prep/business is right. "Casual Fridays" or "Garden Party" would probably work very well. On the one or two occasions I've been, I've been a bit too shy to chat anyone up, so I have no idea about the etiquette/protocol.

Perhaps the OP, like me, doesn't like letting too much hang out in the general forum. Some of us are shy, delicate flowers.

https://justfor.fans/

Speaking as a client, I'd say that certain pros would be veryvery good at making this a great experience, while other pros could be disastrous. So I'd encourage screening potential pros by experience and reputation first, and rather than using "type" as first criteria. And though it's not the same thing, when I've fielded invites (non-professional, mind you) to join as a third, I've always tried to be clear that both partners were into the scene. (Not, as happened in one unfortunate encounter, with one was "just going along" because the other clearly wanted to do this.) And, yes, your partner gets to set the boundaries and you get to have fun within them.