Letmeworshipit

I look for providers who advertise "mutual touch encouraged" as I think they tend to offer what I am looking for during and at the end of a good massage. I loved to be teased, taunted and titillated by the bulge and cock during the session, with the ability to service them to completion at the end.

Frankly, that's been my "fetish" for years and I;ve been luck to have meet partners, blow buddies and providers who get the scene and understand the hunger and drive. But it's not an easy thing to bring up to providers and sometimes I feel I'm being salacious by talking about my preferences (being taunted, teased and titillated by brief bulge and cock). Yet come accounts encourage an open discussions and requests so I tend to gravitate toward those accounts even though they may not always be the best match. Anyway, my point is that I know what makes for a perfect session and would like to be able to express it upfront.

I really enjoy hiring a masseur who is a good match for my tastes and preferences. But that's the problem, I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable by asking questions. If I am on certain sites that I have a client profile, I will ask them to read through it and let me know if they feel we would be a good provider/client match. And there seems to be an issue with integrity and honesty among a certain section of providers that gives the impression they welcome dialogue and requests just to get the gig. Honesty is such an underutilized best practice in client/provider discussions, but can go a long way to mitigate frustration and disappoint at the session.

I've been obsessed with multicummers for ever. My first partner was a multicummer but over a longer period than a couple hours. There were weekends when he was hypersexual and I sucked 8-10 loads out of him between Friday and Sunday nights. True story. I met a guy years ago in Palm Springs who loved getting sucked off and would give me 3 loads in 30 minutes when I was super hungry. Love guys who love sharing seed loads!

Hate to be a one trick pony here, but oral tops are all I look for in providers and wondering if there are providers, masseurs especially, who would self-identify as an oral top. Those of us who are sides are often left out of the discussion, which seems to most often empathize a top, bottom or versatile rile in penetrative activities.

Been trying to understand for a long time whether this is just a fun phallic fantasy or something far more intense that combines sexual need, emotional intensity and a psychological drive. But I have discovered that when a worshiper meets up with a guy who considers his cock a source of power and spiritual energy, it’s f**king amazing. It long ago stopped just being a fun fantasy. It’s a true fetish.

I understand. I am not a demanding customer, believe me, and have never pressured any provider to do anything. But I have been hooked by those who tease and infer everything is on the table (so to speak) then find that it was all said just to to get the gig. Like any transaction, it's all about a two-way, honest dialogue. I was simply asking the question about how best to broach the subject.

It's not entirely clear what his interests are in a session. From the initial profile, he seems to offer what I'm into, but as with so many of these guys, you're left to wonder. And making a commitment without knowing what you're getting is a red flag to me.

I was in a gay bar in Guadalajara a couple years ago and they had a great live show up on a platform that was pretty graphic. I also saw one in Bangkok a few years ago. I loved the theatres/clubs in the old days that featured full acts leading to completion and wondered if there were any venues in North America that still had them. I mean, the real deal, not some faked tease.

One of the wildest nights in the last 25 years started at Numbers. I was staying in Hollywood and went there for dinner. Afterwards, I sat at the bar and foolishly left my drink there while I went to the bathroom. Of course, I was slipped something and didn't know it yet how fucked up I'd get. Picked up not one, but two guys and drove them (!!) back to the hotel. By this time I was really getting messed up. I actually left them in my room while I stumbled to the ATM. To their credit, they were still there when I returned. We had some semblance of fun and they both had a happy ending, were paid and left. I vomited my guts out but it helped and I was able to get a decent night's sleep before work-related meetings the next day. I SO learned my lesson that night and only made the same mistake once more at The Eagle in Palm Springs. But I figured it out quickly and got back to my room and vomited before it kicked in fully. I was so naive.

Are the Phoenix and Eagle still there? Not in the quarter but not far away. Leather bar on 1st floor and sexy fun bar on 2nd floor. I'll be sad if it has closed.

I never missed a chance to stop by for a visit in my 20's and 30's. Had some seriously sensuous, sordid, sleazy and salacious times there. LOADS of guys who valued by skills. Miss those venues SO much.

I've sucked a guy at the NY venue but he didn't erupt, as it were. But for my scene, Touche in Chicago is a fave, as are the Slammer clubs in L.A., P.S. and FLL.

I lived in Chiang Mai, Thailand and traveled to Bangkok and other cities. It is still cheap to hire, relative to most other countries. But you don't always get what you want or need there for a variety of reasons. A good massage is everywhere, with a happy ending for you pretty easy to come by. But for my particular passion, the options are limited. I did much better for my interests in Malaysia, Indonesia and the Philippines. LOTS of guys were my type, but are pricier than Thailand.

The whole issue of mutual touch is confusing to me. To be honest, I love to be teased by the package during the session and do what I do best at the end as a happy ending for the provider. And often it works out that way, but I sure would love to know the best way to make my desires clear from the get-go.