Jason Dutch

Strike now or strike later, I am very serious about starting a hustlers union. There are a many SW-led advocacy projects and even some self-styled unions that are mostly women. We should definitely be organizing to build collective power ( issues of labour, criminalization, violence/exploitation, stigma and health, and I believe part of that could mean building worker run platforms/collaboratives that serve us rather than the profit driven sites we are stick with. In the amateur porn sphere for example we have Justfor.fans which is owned and staffed my models/SWers. We could all be better off bu pooling our resources / labour power to secure much needed rights, standards, and more dignified ways of working. Alas, Right now, male SW solidarity remains uncommon and decentralized. The scarcity mentality driven by RM and similar sites (compounded by state criminalization, widespread societal scorn, neoliberal capitalism in general and most recently, our global payment processing overlords) pits us against each other as competitors, fracturing our ability to push for changes and generally driving standards down. Imagine what happens when we can meaningfully harness our collective influence so far but I feel like we are on the precipice of changing that. Taking control of our working conditions doesn’t stop at the platforms either, in my eyes. We would all be better off if a critical mass of providers can establish (or at least push toward) some shared minimum rates/service for example. Lets expand on and safety systems like bad date books, screening tools (much more common for women/femme SWers I have observed) and safety check in systems. We could develop regional networks for mutual aid and travel support/exchange, create infrastructure kn our terms…there’s so much we could do! We are talking and planning about this sometimes in a private forum I run for/with other guys. Providers (and I mean providers only please) DM me if interested.

I can't imagine doing this to a regular without plenty of lead time. Before you changed flights/arrived for sure, or otherwise within 24 hours is a must. I wish I could say clients had the same grace but they often drop off the face of the earth. It sounds like you were communicating clearly however, and that must especially sting coming from a provider you've built some level of a relationship with.

I hired another provider once, when I was getting back in the game after 7 years away and everything had changed. We spent most of the time talking and he provided so many useful insights. We did fuck but that just happened kind of naturally after the clock had run it’s course, and we remain very good friends now. I personally provide a 50% discount to other escorts and have done the same for older gentlemen who disclose that they were hustlers back in the day. These connections almost always occur outside of the traditional hiring sites. One utterly annoying phenomenon is guys who make RM pages or ads, or create a half assed fans page so they can demand free or discounted sex from genuine sex professionals. There’s one guy who is bordering on stalker territory who reached out saying he was “getting back into escorting” and wanted to build out his contacts list of other escorts who would be game for duo appointments. It became obvious that he wasn’t actually working, or had done it once or twice ages ago… so I declined. Then he has harassed me trying to meet up for free sex for years, and also made numerous catfish client accounts trying to direct me into having a “three way” with him.

Never done this. My rates only vary based on the city I’m in and the length of the booking (eg my first hour is 300 and each subsequent is 200, or if more than 4 or 5hrs we can negotiate an overnight visit case by case)

I ask for compensation to drive anything more than 30 minutes, though not at my booking rate. Usually ask for realistic gas costs plus $30/hr or so for the travel. If it’s more than 75 mins each way it is likely cutting into my availability too much to be worth it.

I love making porn and I mention it in my ads sometimes so people can look up my videos. Clients often tell me my photos don’t capture my personality or attractiveness and so my hope is that videos can help bridge the gap. I also have a number of one or two time clients who become long term subscribers/fans and on several occasions has kept me visible/ on someone’s radar that they remember me first when visiting my city and considering their options for who to book.

My hosting ability is constantly changing, especially with location. Nothing sucks worse than booking three nights in a hotel in a city and not getting any genuine inquiries or dates until you’re about to check out and down $500. Over time I have learned which cities are generally worth my while/investment of time and costs and make bookings accordingly. I do wish there were more hourly hotels around anymore, scuzzy though they can be. in any case, I almost always ask “can you entertain or would you like to come to me?” Within the first few messages if they seem serious. Most of the time guys are not able to host no matter where you are.

In some ways, wild to think of Rittenhouse as the kind of park that can provide space to deviance for long enough that pleasure sparks… but I’ve also totally picked up there in a random street cruising kind of way

As a provider I find the upgrade so frustrating and have been using the .eu version to continue using the tools from the previous version such as visitors sorting and filters that have been eliminated