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Second this. Better for client to tell provider in detail what they are looking for and ask provider to confirm that they are able to provide. From my personal exp, asking provider's 'do and donts' rarely go far, they likely wont provide much details simply bcs they more often than not do a lot of variety of services. So easier to tell then what you want instead.

Let me say my piece one last time. Level me here, make me understand. To my understanding, you and them are stranger to each other. Have no prior relationship. You have tried to establish multiple communications but ignored by them. Being ignored, you then dig out their home address with aim to mail them. Others voice their opinion that mailing private residence is one step too far, its a no go. Keep emailing, calling or texting them, after being plainly ignored, are also a no go. So what sort of resolution or alternative you looking for that fit your desire? Being stranger, they have no obligations whatsoever towards you. They dont owe you closure or anything at all. You owe it to yourself to find peace with the circumstances you are in.

I am not and will not critise your 'hiring' practice (as I am doing it myself) but i will call out your 'stalking' tendency. Its not the same, and if you cannot see it. I give up. No matter what other say, you will obv find reasons to justify your action.

Oh yes thats why celeb or pop stars hire private securities.....my friend let me be very blunt you need therapy. This isnt some teen rom com movie/ novel. Wouldnt be funny if you end up with restraining order.

This is a reasonable and practical take. Many providers told me they would more often than not take this approach as they have sufficient existing loyal customers basis and do not mind the posibbility of losing new businesses due to lack of engagement on their end. On that note, i found that they are actually not arrogant and are nice guys irl, their reason to not engage simply driven by business reasonings - they do not care for new clients, whilst they treat their existing clients well.

Its not unreasonable from customer's perspective but also cant fault those providers. If their standard of customer service does not match your expectation, then move on.

On the other side of the coin, they charge premium in SG (in comparison to Europe/ US/ Ausie) 😅

Super curious how in the world you come to have knowledge of a stranger's (yes that provider is a stranger to you (and vice versa you to him) in this instance) resident or mailing address? Surely this info is not something one normally advertise on RM, OF or any other social media. Just based on this alone, your obsession is borderline illegal its called 'stalking'.....not a good look buddy. I can understand the need to try to connect to a provider multiple times in case of whatever reasons but surely there is limit to that, norm would suggest 2 or 3 times via published means of communication. If no response, its just not meant to be, move on. I had just got ignored few hours ago by a provider in midst of setting up a session, i guess he got better offer....sent him 2 follow up/reminder texts, still got no response whilst his RM and his WA status show he is online....for me, that was clear response and signal that he is not interested with my business. Life go on, there are literally plethora other providers out there, one hotter than the other.

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Intersting hahaha can go both way....my first instinc would be the regular wants to play with the 3rd but dont want to do it on his own time or dont want to make the approach by himself for whatsoever reasons (or was rejected by 3rd hence the proposal).

I should indeed....at some point lol

Nothing that major, just french kiss, and intimate sex eg fuck and kiss. No rimming would be a deal breaker LOL. Didnt want to ask him in the moment as to avoid awkwardness - also deep down i know the answer, it is likely that he is attracted to the 3rd guy. Actions he did with me are chores, with the 3rd guy is a subsconscious preference. Maybe i should have the talk for future sessions (if any that is).

99% would prefer to host at home - just more comfortable for me. Only events that wpuld warrant a hotel booking is if i am hosting an orgy. But i am just that careless so not a good example to follow LOL

Your alternative is a sound possibility, and a positive attitude towards the situation. I agree (and i wont) mandate providers to do stuff they dont want to do - would be a really awkward conversation. To provide more context, what happen was during my last 3s (with a regular and a travelling provider), the regular did stuff that he said he has reservations to do (yes i asked whether he would be open to do those stuff before) with/ to the 3rd guy in front of me. And when initiate the same actions with the regular in the moment, he does receptive and reciprocate but after the 3rd guy left, he is back to being reserved and not so into it. It was an overnight session and the 3rd guy only booked for couple hours. So yeah i guess i am just annoyed (or perhaps jealous) and not to say all that on my dime. Guess its all boil down to combination of unprofessionalism and the regular being attracted to the 3rd guy (noting he was suggested by the regular). Its a pity, bcs the regular is otherwise the best i have had hired so far.

I dont usually set hard rules for 3s or orgy. Everyone can play with each other so long as i am not ignored - and i have never been ignored (to date at least) save for if i were resting, in that period i let them do whatever they want be it play amongst themselves or taking rest also, i will just watch on the side and jump back to the play when i ready. So thats a non issue (except for one 3s encounter with a provider and his partner, where the provider came fcking the other provider whilst i was resting leaving me dry....lol) My post/ rant is not bout that really. Its more on providers not affording same level of intimacy they did to each other - in my last 3s encounter (with a regular and a travelling provider), the regular did stuff to the other provider in front of me which he indicates he has reservation to do with me. I am not going to force him to do stuffs he dont want to do, but i would expect him to not do it with other provider in front of me and on my dime.

Very well said and sadly on point. Had 3s with porn stars who also happen to be a couple, work out fantastic.

Agree in my experiences porns starts are the best in 3s.