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IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues. Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal.

I personally avoid giving less than 5stars review. If experience was less than, i wont post review. So yeah there is that.

Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner. Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies. This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby. That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy.

Late 30 is not even old.....

Met them both for a 3s ~1y ago. Would book Raffa again - Erik's good for the eye, Raffa's good for my hole LOL

Personally, wont repeat.

I have conciously avoided this line of question. The provider is there to work, period. The professionals will say and do whatever to make you feel special, notwithstanding how you look. They are there to make monies. Asking them to appraise your physical appearance is just looking to get your ego stroke, and they will stroke it (directly or indirectly) but its all business by the end of the day. Might as well not create an illusion that you are their type and creating unreasonable scenario in your mind. Its imperative to differentiate their 'business persona' and 'casual friend persona'.

I have picture on my whatsapp app, so rarely been asked to provide more. Nevertheless, would provide so if asked.

Wonder how or why would the race of the client is somewhat important to the provider.....i just cant fathom it. I can see arguement for weight, physical appearance, age or hygine. Just not for race, religion or political belief.

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At least he ads as 'top'. Seen ads listing out 'straight' and 'vers' on the same page. Sent an enquiry, got ignored to no surprise.

Conscious one would quote different rate out of their home country. I would always ask for their quote in local currency. - easier less hassle. If i were to pay in foreign currency, i would confirm arrangement beforehand to avoid debate on fx rate.

Big fan of long weekend hiring esp for couple days trip out of city or state. Good for the soul, not so much for bank account lol

Its a business by the end of the day. One wouldnt stop sending work email on holidays - well receipient might not respond but email sent anw.

Agree that photo-reverse search is amazing tool. Plus ask for reference from my regular escort (granted i trust he always gv honest opinion, albeit might be with some agenda - competition and whatnot but he has never lead me astray). Cross checking his other socials (OF in particular) is also recc'd - might give you insight on his skills and (actual) sex preference. Trust your gut!

I sincerely hope this is some sort of social experiment qs or purely for research purposes.

Met in months ago. Not as ripped as his RM picts but still in shape nonetheless. Play wise, not my cup of tea, wont repeat.

1. Bold to assume all clients left a review 2. Safest approach would be stop bareback with escorts or strangers altogether 3. Hiring is a risky game; bareback and hiring is a conscious choice

Only 2 out of 10 Brazilians i had met that actually perform well.

Yeah agree lesson learnt. Me not liking confrontation also plays part in that. Told the first guy what i felt next morning, he apologises and wish that i had said something then so he can fix the situation. It was awkward conversation. But hey he did well in the 3s that occur week after and i am seeing him again in 2 weeks time for a 3days trip.

Actually met the first guy several times before for 1on1 and 3s. Sessions always went well. Second guy was recommended by the first guy. Had several 3s with the first guy (just not with this particular second guy) that went well; and so i know well his operation and what to expect in terms of attention. In all those other 3s, i hv never felt like the odd man out. This particular 3s (with this particular guy) is just different. Had another 3s with him and other guy (this time random) a week after, to no surprise all went well.

Left feeling like the third guy throughout a 3s with 2 escorts who were so into each other. I book the first guy for an overnight and the second guy for 2h; so there was a lot of fucking and resting in between. They did their job well in so far the actual fucking goes. But i cant help feel like a random meat bag/ hole that was there to just be fucked - its not a good feeling. They would: > pull each other for french kiss throughout the session; and only give me lips peck now and then and only if I initiate first. There was a moment where they are deep eating each other face with hands on each other whilst i was standing next to them doing nothing, i just stand there like some statue. None of them even put their hands on me. They only stop after i move to sit on the bed. > pull each other for a cuddle and caressing each other during resting on bed; whilst i would be left aside. Was so awkward for me I often just go stand beside the bed or sit on sofa or went to toilet or sit on bed facing them cuddling > suggest to take a rest or smoke; then whenever i did they would then make out in front of me. They would fuck me like a machine (no passion) but they would make love with passion so hot that i feel wrong just by being in the room - so i went to toilet often lol Whilst I am aware that I cant demand attraction from them, i would prefer them to not do it in front of me and on my dime. To top it off, the first guy finish earlier than agreed time (finish at the same time as the second guy). Perhaps to move to somewhere more private.

I feel you on this one, happened to me recently. Voice my complaint to him and he offers to go out for lunch free of charge day after lol