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Intersting hahaha can go both way....my first instinc would be the regular wants to play with the 3rd but dont want to do it on his own time or dont want to make the approach by himself for whatsoever reasons (or was rejected by 3rd hence the proposal).

I should indeed....at some point lol

Nothing that major, just french kiss, and intimate sex eg fuck and kiss. No rimming would be a deal breaker LOL. Didnt want to ask him in the moment as to avoid awkwardness - also deep down i know the answer, it is likely that he is attracted to the 3rd guy. Actions he did with me are chores, with the 3rd guy is a subsconscious preference. Maybe i should have the talk for future sessions (if any that is).

99% would prefer to host at home - just more comfortable for me. Only events that wpuld warrant a hotel booking is if i am hosting an orgy. But i am just that careless so not a good example to follow LOL

Your alternative is a sound possibility, and a positive attitude towards the situation. I agree (and i wont) mandate providers to do stuff they dont want to do - would be a really awkward conversation. To provide more context, what happen was during my last 3s (with a regular and a travelling provider), the regular did stuff that he said he has reservations to do (yes i asked whether he would be open to do those stuff before) with/ to the 3rd guy in front of me. And when initiate the same actions with the regular in the moment, he does receptive and reciprocate but after the 3rd guy left, he is back to being reserved and not so into it. It was an overnight session and the 3rd guy only booked for couple hours. So yeah i guess i am just annoyed (or perhaps jealous) and not to say all that on my dime. Guess its all boil down to combination of unprofessionalism and the regular being attracted to the 3rd guy (noting he was suggested by the regular). Its a pity, bcs the regular is otherwise the best i have had hired so far.

I dont usually set hard rules for 3s or orgy. Everyone can play with each other so long as i am not ignored - and i have never been ignored (to date at least) save for if i were resting, in that period i let them do whatever they want be it play amongst themselves or taking rest also, i will just watch on the side and jump back to the play when i ready. So thats a non issue (except for one 3s encounter with a provider and his partner, where the provider came fcking the other provider whilst i was resting leaving me dry....lol) My post/ rant is not bout that really. Its more on providers not affording same level of intimacy they did to each other - in my last 3s encounter (with a regular and a travelling provider), the regular did stuff to the other provider in front of me which he indicates he has reservation to do with me. I am not going to force him to do stuffs he dont want to do, but i would expect him to not do it with other provider in front of me and on my dime.

Very well said and sadly on point. Had 3s with porn stars who also happen to be a couple, work out fantastic.

Agree in my experiences porns starts are the best in 3s.

Yeah its time for me to take a look deep inside my own head (or heart), is it annoyance or jealousy, or a bit of both......

Thanks for such useful insight!

IMO, rather pay premium and got automatic access to premium (nude) pics than having to ask to be granted access to private album....which in my experience often got ignored, even when request is accompanied with short private messg explaining the request. For me only ads showing goods will be considered....its always awkward to ask providers to share frontal pics privately on WA (especially if its turn out that am not interested with the goods after viewing).

Words to remember. Sad that this happen with my favorite regular, might need to take a break from him for a bit.

Sad reality....but golden statement. I think to date the only 3s experience where i didnt notice those subtle attractiveness (between the providers) was with porn stars. Perhaps they are just better with hiding their feeling and putting on a mask in front of the client.

Lets start with i am not hot, just a average looking joe. I have grown to like 3some (with 2 providers) and watching them play with each other (in between playing with me). But as them providers i hired are hot guys (in comparison to me) i have started to notice (more) majority of them put more efforts (or rather more intimate) with each other than with me. Whilst they did not ignore me/ still play with me, its the micro gesture that i noticed....eg a more intimate/ soft kiss or the grunt (when they touch each other) etc. Whilst i do enjoy the live porn, its starting to annoy and offend me as to the different in treatment provided to me. Just a rant. Thanks for listening (reading lol)

Bump any recent exp pls, thanks

From a client perspective: i personally completely fine with providers reaching out on the back me viewing their profile. Think of it like any other marketing strategy.

Different business model. Consequently attracting different market and value.

To majority untrained straight ppl, way way easier to spot MF provider/client than MM ones. And even that, 99% hotel staff wont care apart of some gossips. To be frank, hotel staffs gain nothing from calling the police....the hotel management would rather not be put in that kind of publication. They hence will turn blind eyes - unless of course you start a gang bang party and making hella noise 🤣 even in that event police escalation is last resort.

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SG going rates for visitor is $350 - $500. Some would even quote $600. Ofc should take FX rate into consideration.

Very well put, couldnt agree more

Hm honestly not sure of 'thoughts' you are inviting here.... PNP is either you are into it or you are not, no middle ground. And reading your original post + comments here, safe to say you are a hardliner 'NO'. So any different view would not in any aspect change your view. You would not, in any event regardless of other's opinion, prioritise $$$ over your principle - thus fear of 'missing out of $$$' is really not your thing in so far relating to PNP. Even if i were to say client in PNP scene would typically IMO spent more on provider than he plan to (for obvious reasons lol) - you would, i believe, stand by your stance. So yeah i am not sure what the purpose of this post, perhaps just to start a convo lol 🤣

Thanks for intel! Think will pass tho....stinky breath is a hard no go...