I have so so many queries. Firstly though, there are ~1k provider ads in NYC, bout ~300 identified as top. So not one of them interest you?
If yoy cant find anyone interest you in NYC....this gonna take bit more effort. NYC is literally melting pot in the US. Well other than Vegas and LA i guess.
As far as means of communication, not sure what went wrong. Being polite and direct works wonder for me, bout 90%. Got ignored 10%, i think because those providers are just using RM to promote their OF. And also, read said provider' ads before text them on their mobile.