thomas

I love George.

I have never actually hired but I do enjoy the company of older men when I can get it. 

He’s right. I guess I’m one of the ‘older’ guys in the business - in the daddy category. There’s no shortage of younger guys wanting a daddy experience, and prepared to hire for it. There’s also plenty of older guys looking for things that older providers can provide that younger guys can’t or won’t do, such as intimacy, being empathetic and actually turning up on time not being hung over or high and treating their client as a person rather than just another punter (apologies to those younger guys in the business who are professional- I don’t mean to stereotype, younger reliable guys do exist but are not easy to find in the crowd!)
That’s the other thing. There’s loads of younger guys doing sex work, with a wide range of quality. There’s far fewer older guys, and those who are doing it have stuck around at it because they’re good. People hire for all sorts of reasons and age is not necessarily a factor that matters for many of those reasons. 
 

THIS! And one cannot be averse to or even just not attracted to someone their own age without some degree of self-hatred. That said, I don’t think this is a personal flaw. We are besieged by endless messages that only men who are super fit,  under 30, and mostly white or white adjacent are attractive. This shows up in most if not all of us. We can try to be more open, rather than naturalize it.
I’m middle aged and I generally find men around 35 to 65-70 attractive. Of course, it depends on the man and a lot of other variables but I’d generally prefer a 60 year old to a 25 year old. 

I always date in my own age group. I need someone who recognizes the same cultural references.
I only buy boys to play around.

Had two bed-massages with different providers. 
It’s neither pleasant at the time, nor effective as therapeutic work for my body.
No table, no thanks. 

When I was young I was amazed that some men hired me once a week, and sometimes I'd also see them additionally for lunch or coffee or this or that.  Then, in 2012 I found a non-sexual masseur who trained at the same school I did a decade earlier, but is light years ahead of me in skill (though I would say our intuition is about level), and I found myself hiring him nearly weekly until lockdown 8 years later.  And I don't have money, at all.  But, I kinda needed him.  So, what surprised the young me, made complete sense at 40.

Yes. I did 4 hand with him and his partner. Pics are accurate. Safe comfortable space and professional table. I don't remember the massage, but I do remember we had plenty of fun.

I have always enjoyed my time with this duo.  The massage goes on for about 15 minutes.  Then the fun begins.  It’s obvious that they like playing together and they put me right there in the middle of it all.
How much can I share here?

Host in Park Slope.  By RMasseur email says:  "Rate 220 per hour. S. E. X. Ual massage 300 per hour".
 

Baby Reindeer is incredible...but very dark 
For a lighter bit of entertainment I recommend Dead Boy Detectives. 
Great art direction and direction in general. Good casting and scripts. 
A dead gay Victorian gentleman ghost meets a dead straight(ish) ghost from the 1980s and form a detective agency. Cute series with spooky stories and campy humor. It's very well put together. I enjoyed every episode and binged a few at a time. 
The story of a struggle by a Victorian gay man (ghost) to "come-out" in modern times is well written and well performed by a cute young British/American actor (with a non-specific personal sexual identity ... according to the Internet). 
Best new series of the year for me.
The well done coming-out story and some other cute gay characters may interest some of the gentlemen here.

BROOKLYN, 1998. PHOTOGRAPH BY VINCENT CIANNI

For some reason, reminds me of Larry, his brother Daryl, and his other brother Daryl.
[Newhart reference]

Vintage Showers at Camp John Dick in Dallas, 1918