when you go to MTL, just go to each of the clubs that interest you, sit with a drink for a bit, and spend time just getting a feel for the place.....dancers may come by to drum up business...if so, be polite, chat a very short while, and, if they don't appeal to you, politely say you're going to relax with your drink for a while.....
the best way to find dudes who you like is to be there in person, watch the entertainers rotate thru for a while, then zero in on the ones who appeal......catch their eye and/or walk up to them, smile and say something like "you look great tonight" and let the negotiations commence!......
by the way, stay in control in the privates area: ask how many songs have gone by, tell them when you want to stop, be respectful and polite, have fun and smile.......
if you haven't already, check out the numerous other threads with hints and protocol for Montreal!