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Maybe my experience is too different but maybe in the end we are all the same.
Both my wife and I are bisexual. We married as friends, not "lovers".  We decided to share a life together and raise children, but that didn't mean we don't still have strong physical urges to be with other people, especially indulging in a same sex partner.  I think all relationships whether they be hetero or homosexual, are based primarily on TRUST. That means whatever your boundaries might be in an open relationship, they need to be AGREED upon and respected honestly.
For US....a physical relationship with a professional, is one that doesn't include any romantic interludes. So, an erotic massage that's paid-for is viewed as a no-risk encounter. My wife on the other-hand has her Lesbian friends who she spends time, and occasionally that time becomes intimate. So in the end, I am the one who worries more about infidelity than my wife. It is very much that intimacy of an ongoing outside-relationship that leaves one wondering at what point the boredom of your day to day might draw your partner to the excitement of a new lover. 
My advice is to avoid the gray-area of romantic intimacy with more than one person. It always feels threatening to your partner and risks confusing your own heart.
 

There are a few important changes that are in the works that I wanted to let the community know about so that there are no surprises and that you can properly plan for them.  
Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), there is going to be an update to the Invision Power Board (IPB) software which will require users to login with their email address instead of their display name.  This means if you have to login to the site, you would type in your email address to access the site once that update is applied.  Once logged in, your email address will not be shown anywhere.  You current username will continue to be used once logged into the site to view and post.    
  With the October release of IPB, it will introduce a new feature that allows admins to prune older private messages that have not had any replies within a certain amount of time.  We currently have over 1M private messages exchanged by users going back for 20 years.  This takes up over 1000MB of space within the site's database.  I plan to use the new feature to prune messages that have not been replied to within 5 years.  If you have older private messages that are important for you (for sentimental purposes or contain helpful information), please be sure to save an offline copy for yourself.  You could also simply just reply to the message again so that it has recent activity.  That would automatically exclude it from being pruned.
  As part of my resiliency planning, I've been trying to figure out how the site would continue to operate if something happened to me.  We've seen what happened when Daddy died...  if we don't have someone who understands how to run a website and how to maintain the IPB software, we could find ourselves in a bad place.  Finding people that understand all of this is difficult if not impossible.  As a result, I've been focused on how to remove this dependancy.  My plan is to have the site moved to being hosted by Invision itself.  They would take care of all of the underlying server technology and ensure the platform is compatible with the software.  Any updates could be applied from the Admin area of the site without needing to understand about the rest of the stuff under the hood.  Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), I will need to schedule a day or two to take the site offline for the migration to ensure we don't lose any data from the time I start the export until the time it's migrated and restored.  Having Invision host the site is somewhat more expensive than what we're doing today, but I think it's a critical step to ensure the site's continued operations should I get hit by a bus or something similar.   I don't have specific dates yet for the above changes.  The first two changes are dependent on the IPB software being released and me being able to test them successfully before applying.  The last change will need to be coordinated with the Invision hosting team to make sure they have someone available on their side to handle the import after I finish exporting our data.  
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask below.  

First 10 year LTR 100% monogamous, even 'mentally' monogamous meaning I wouldn't even 'look' at another man. And I didn't. Unless you count porn, I was entirely faithful. I would shut down any "temptation" right away. Totally ruined that relationship. With my current partner, completely open from the moment we started dating.
You make the rules (and they can change over time) and there's right or wrong unless it damages your relationship (meaning what you both have AGREED to abide by). 
I'm so happy I don't have to live by the incredibly restrictive and completely bogus "straight script" that so many m/f couples have to.

First 10 year LTR 100% monogamous, even 'mentally' monogamous meaning I wouldn't even 'look' at another man. And I didn't. Unless you count porn, I was entirely faithful. I would shut down any "temptation" right away. Totally ruined that relationship. With my current partner, completely open from the moment we started dating.
You make the rules (and they can change over time) and there's right or wrong unless it damages your relationship (meaning what you both have AGREED to abide by). 
I'm so happy I don't have to live by the incredibly restrictive and completely bogus "straight script" that so many m/f couples have to.

Same here on blocking. First time I've ever experienced it. Yes, I had been looking at this masseurs photos for a while. Given I have a couple of solid regulars, it's a very short list of masseurs I would consider outside my regulars. Actually, I was at the point to making a reservation but then the blocking is very off-putting. I'm not sure how me looking at a providers photos is an issue. Assuming that's the issue. 

First 10 year LTR 100% monogamous, even 'mentally' monogamous meaning I wouldn't even 'look' at another man. And I didn't. Unless you count porn, I was entirely faithful. I would shut down any "temptation" right away. Totally ruined that relationship. With my current partner, completely open from the moment we started dating.
You make the rules (and they can change over time) and there's right or wrong unless it damages your relationship (meaning what you both have AGREED to abide by). 
I'm so happy I don't have to live by the incredibly restrictive and completely bogus "straight script" that so many m/f couples have to.

First 10 year LTR 100% monogamous, even 'mentally' monogamous meaning I wouldn't even 'look' at another man. And I didn't. Unless you count porn, I was entirely faithful. I would shut down any "temptation" right away. Totally ruined that relationship. With my current partner, completely open from the moment we started dating.
You make the rules (and they can change over time) and there's right or wrong unless it damages your relationship (meaning what you both have AGREED to abide by). 
I'm so happy I don't have to live by the incredibly restrictive and completely bogus "straight script" that so many m/f couples have to.

Guy, I agree with your assessment.  No such thing was offered with the 4AM message.  As stated, he was a traveller so I am pretty sure that he's out of my area now.  So, I wasted an hour of time and probably a gallon of gasoline. 

First 10 year LTR 100% monogamous, even 'mentally' monogamous meaning I wouldn't even 'look' at another man. And I didn't. Unless you count porn, I was entirely faithful. I would shut down any "temptation" right away. Totally ruined that relationship. With my current partner, completely open from the moment we started dating.
You make the rules (and they can change over time) and there's right or wrong unless it damages your relationship (meaning what you both have AGREED to abide by). 
I'm so happy I don't have to live by the incredibly restrictive and completely bogus "straight script" that so many m/f couples have to.

After seeing his private pics I understand better the meaning of "Rates may vary based on ... actual services performed"

Ditto on the last two posts. Just tried him (based on those two posts thx!) and was a great experience. He has STRONG hands so if you like deep tissue then he's your guy. Rocking body just like his pics. Super sexy and upbeat personality. Recommend. 

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Long time member but first booking, with Summer. Will report back 😁

With seven pages on StrongStrokes I keep receiving PM asking for details, frequently from guys that have few posts here.  I will no longer respond to anybody about SS, seven pages speak oceans.

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Yesterday had a massage from new provider. Hadnt cum in a couple days so I was super horny. He gives me a decent back massage. I turn over, eyes blinking in the light, and see he's changed in a leather jock just as he begins to kiss me furiously. All at once he gobbles my cock to the root coaxing my cock head with his throat muscles. In hindsight, he was wetting the shaft because he them jumps on the table, positions his hole over my cock and impales himself in one stroke. 
I'm pretty thick with an even thicker mushroom so he rides me for 45 seconds before shooting all over my stomach, hands free. 
Yeah all of this was pretty unexpected but the real surprise was how red he turned and apologized for cuming so quickly. Suddenly he was the blushing maiden who obviously needed the D asap!!

Does anyone else feel like his pics look like a 2-year progression from his 20s into his 30s? 😁

I'm in Ptown and was thinking of trying him out. Rate listed at $160hr. He has an active JFF account. He promotes his Twitter on RM profile so makes it feel like the session will be very sexual. Based on previous comments, though, I wonder if that's a (expensive) therapeutic price and JFF is his main focus/income. 
Anyone have new Intel?