Exactly @fm0322. There are so many variables that affect your experience with someone--yours/his mood, weather, location, etc.--and without a doubt, continued visits develops a relationship which you can't get with a one off. Over time I recognize forum members who have similar tastes to mine but I never bank on reviews as what I should expect to experience. Specifically with new visits, I read to make sure the basics are covered well and everything beyond that is icing. My regular is out of town right now so I just tried two new guys and didn't dig either. I just report my experience without too much judgement--they might be a good fit for someone else. Truly the essence of YMMV.