Wilmer has really good reviews on massageM4M however I didn't like him at all.
The good: He's probably late 30s/40 but has a rockin', super hard and ripped body and seems nice enough.
The bad: Location is not near public transport. Not a swedish massage at all, more like pinching flowers off a vine. Pinches all over. Obviously not trained. Very rough technique. I found his force close to uncomfortable several times and I'm in good shape. It's not the "hurts so good" of deep tissue or rolfing, it just hurts.
Also, not 2 minutes into the massage he was vigorously wiping my ass with a "Wet One" type moist tissue. I can promise I am always clean inside and out so I would have preferred one to take a look before wiping my ass... Plus it was too abrupt and too clinical. Listen, I get straight therapeutic massage, sensual (with and without release) and erotic massage, all types, but I didn't know what to expect at this point.
He speaks little english so communication is difficult but more importantly he cannot read body signals at all or else he would have sensed that I was tensing from his technique. Imagine having a ripped, rock hard body rubbed all over you, both back and front. Feeling the hard chest against the back of your head or in front, beautiful six pack abs slowly trailed over your nose and mouth... Sounds hot, right? Well, imaging that again done roughly with a body totally covered in oil. I think I got oil up my nose! I think he was trying to make this a sensual/erotic massage with release but it was not erotic at all.
Anyway, I gave a lot of detail (though I cringe a bit since doing so reveals a lot about me!) but I see Wilmer's ads on CL a lot and M4M gives him really high marks. My opinion: There are better masseurs.