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And to your point @EVdude I would expect this more from private vs spa.

This is useful. Just to be clear I didn't have a bad experience. I've been going there for some time and generally good. It's a subtle lack of focus over time. As most of us do, we sink a lot of money into this passion. Being in a customer service industry myself I know folks can take their business elsewhere so I tend to be very respectful and not react to an experience unless it's truly poor. That said, at some point if my experience I kinda flat when do I cut the cord and move on.

Apologies if this has been discussed before but have you experienced, and how have you reacted to, "customer service fatigue" from masseurs. I'm a very solid tipper, very respectful, and a regular with someone from 27 spa, yet little by little customer service has degraded as he's become more familiar and less focused on the service, eg, asking to delayed appts for scheduling then cut time short, conversations and interactions getting more by rote, etc.

Regular at Hush. Recommended.

Same. Hot three-way. And they're much better than other series at coming up with new scenarios each time.

I can confirm that as well.

Yeah wow. Still feeling the disappointment. Man I could've seen a show or something instead.

Nope. Won't make that mistake again. I feel a little bad because I follow this forum closely but rarely chime in. And now I do so out of disappointment. Still, what I experienced with Charlie wasn't Thai massage. I've had Thai massages. This was inexperienced, poor technique, massage by rote. I'm a regular at TS and had sessions with everyone, many times. All in all the team are quite good. Charlie is the odd one out. First time I've regretted a massage in a very long time.

Wilmer has really good reviews on massageM4M however I didn't like him at all. The good: He's probably late 30s/40 but has a rockin', super hard and ripped body and seems nice enough. The bad: Location is not near public transport. Not a swedish massage at all, more like pinching flowers off a vine. Pinches all over. Obviously not trained. Very rough technique. I found his force close to uncomfortable several times and I'm in good shape. It's not the "hurts so good" of deep tissue or rolfing, it just hurts. Also, not 2 minutes into the massage he was vigorously wiping my ass with a "Wet One" type moist tissue. I can promise I am always clean inside and out so I would have preferred one to take a look before wiping my ass... Plus it was too abrupt and too clinical. Listen, I get straight therapeutic massage, sensual (with and without release) and erotic massage, all types, but I didn't know what to expect at this point. He speaks little english so communication is difficult but more importantly he cannot read body signals at all or else he would have sensed that I was tensing from his technique. Imagine having a ripped, rock hard body rubbed all over you, both back and front. Feeling the hard chest against the back of your head or in front, beautiful six pack abs slowly trailed over your nose and mouth... Sounds hot, right? Well, imaging that again done roughly with a body totally covered in oil. I think I got oil up my nose! I think he was trying to make this a sensual/erotic massage with release but it was not erotic at all. Anyway, I gave a lot of detail (though I cringe a bit since doing so reveals a lot about me!) but I see Wilmer's ads on CL a lot and M4M gives him really high marks. My opinion: There are better masseurs.