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Hi @ThrowawayAccount  sorry you experienced this. I must have missed the link to this dude’s ad?  Can you post it so others can benefit?  Thanks so much. 

I stopped reading after this. 
Never pay in advance.  That stops most problems.

Anyone w/ experience w/ this pocket gay full of flare?  nice and compact..https://rent.men/Eric_James

After I blocked the second strange number, he reached out from a third.
I told him that I thought it was strange that he didn't identify himself before writing me from a different number and to his creeit he apologized.
Then he asked if I was going to send a deposit and I said I usually don't put deposits down, especially when I haven't booked. And he said it was a fee to show I was serious. "But what if I can't find a time that works?" "I will send the money back."
🤔

Met him about a couple of weeks back when he was visiting Austin. He’s handsome and personable, and he’s lots of fun. I enjoyed meeting with him and would repeat.  His profile name changed recently; he was formally Indie_twinkXL.  

I'm experiencing the same thing......when posting a profile link, there is an option to "display as a link instead" at bottom right, though it's somewhat obscure.......I believe the moderators have also requested we use this option to avoid x-rated pictures (in the profile) from automatically appearing in the thread

I met with him two years ago and he was using the same name then.  I reviewed him on rent Men in November 2023, and I recently exchanged messages with him when I saw that he was back in San Francisco..  I’m not there currently otherwise I would happily see him again.

https://rent.men/Valerio_Twink
Anyone know this twinkie?
No reviews.  here but he looks familiar. New name?? 

https://rent.men/Valerio_Twink
Anyone know this twinkie?
No reviews.  here but he looks familiar. New name?? 

I’m always suspicious when they change their names . Welcome to the forum John!

I’ve never lost $100 at a casino. 

$400 full service.  Was upfront about everything.  

Dang, he's hot but $300 for 90m, therapeutic only? That's aggressive. Lots of other great therapists out there with more reasonable rates. 

i wouldn't bother. it's all solo teasing and not one money shot.

Really high rates…if it was a little cheaper I’m sure someone would be willing to take one for the team.

Sebastion_p is a lovely guy: He's gentle, soft-spoken, and polite. I know he travels in Utah and Nevada, so he's accommodating with his travels. His pictures are recent.

I’ve never lost $100 at a casino. 

I’ve never lost $100 at a casino. 

Another upside of the .eu site is that it works with the hide.me proxy website whereas .men does not.

I think you’re on to something.  I’ve noticed the absence of a couple of very frequent posters as well.

Ive had every person return the deposit when they couldn't meet. If I end up not being able to meet that deposit is forfeited. 

Girl, I don't know who you think you're talking to, but this response reads as a TROLL. You come in swinging on someone who is among the first to advocate for providers and - as said above - am happy to pay a reasonable deposit. 
You have totally gotten the wrong person. There may be people like that on here but I'm not one of them. Rather, I'm an excellent client with several regulars. 
This part, I believe. I'm an above-average-looking, fit, and fun guy of a similar age. So our experiences are bound to be different. 
"The top of the food chain..." is exactly the kind of toxic thinking that leads clients to treat providers poorly. 

The relevance of how long someone has been a member is simply that others here have little idea who you are.  For example, you could be someone who's been active on the site for a long time but decided to create a new profile simply to promote a specific point of view or specific provider while not having your posts tied to your well known identity.  
At the end of the day, this deposit or no deposit issue will never be resolved to everyone's satisfaction.  It's clearly in the provider's benefit as long as he has sufficient business to make up for the loss of some clients who never pay a deposit.  For a variety of reasons (privacy and concerns about being scammed being the top two) some clients will never pay a deposit.  It isn't like either side is incorrect, even if some of the arguments for requiring a deposit are far off the mark.  But I think even the "no deposits ever" clients here will acknowledge that a provider can run his business how he wants to (charge a higher than market rate, require a deposit, require a face photograph, etc), and they can simply book a different provider if they don't like those policies.

This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or  keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether.
it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing.
If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.