Are any of you in a similar bucket as me?
I don't have any real gay friends. Of course, there are gay men and lesbian women that I'm friendly with... But I've never been one of those guys that hung out in the gay pack of guys at the club, sauna, beach, and so on.
Yes, I'm out. I founded my gay student group at college in the early 90's. So, it is not that I'm in the closet.
I've lived in big cities nearly my entire life. I am from a very closed and culturally conservative area of Pennsylvania with draconian German ideas, but I left there in 1990.
If there were gay bug spray, I'd be the number-one-selling brand.
But seriously, does anyone else identify with me?