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I only hire for overnights, and I’m finding that’s too much effort for not enough time. I’m starting to plan more 4-5 day trips, or having them stay at my place if I’ve known them for a while. I like time to just relax with wine, music, food etc.

Quite literally.

I gave up on this and am very honest with my doctor, it’s freeing. I was in the e.r last year with some sort of creeping crud, they start asking sex questions. The poor young male nurse. I was like yes, yes, yes - he sticks his head back in the door. Yes. And honestly came back again. Yes.

I didn’t realize spanking was a fetish. It just doesn’t come standard? 🤪

I have a guy I see on occasion, he’s always late so I plan accordingly. Last time was 2 and a half hours late, and I can’t find my expensive cologne that he complimented me on. I won’t be seeing him again.

Our schedules didn’t line up but I had a nice conversation with him. Hoping to connect in the future.

Hah - I’ve bought my fair share of those items.

Not sure I agree, to me it’s part of the package. If the provider has to eat anyways, they need clothing anyways. The client enjoys providing these things as part of the experience. Seems reasonable. I’ve certainly had more than a few providers drag me to the shoe store. Shoes aren’t cheap…

Been there. Helped them shoot the content - and then enjoyed the provider and his friend. Gotta be helpful lol.

It has been my experience that humans don't always make the best decisions

If you were the provider, given the time, the place, what is going on that weekend, would you show up? Good Luck.

I’d be terrified to fall asleep next to that.

Usually I a negotiate a better snow day rate. I kid, I kid! I did miss a date last weekend because of poor road conditions.

Exactly - I’ve got a place rented in Palm Springs. Now my provider is bringing his boyfriend with, why not? Fun for me, free stay for him. Not every decision is financial in the end.

True - but realistically most providers aren’t having multiple dates 7 days a week. And why have 2-3 short dates with perhaps a no show, or a jerk, when I’m a repeat customer and easy to deal with? 1000 bucks is 1/2 the months rent or more if they have roommates. Seems like good money. This site is littered with threads of people complaining about how difficult the process can be. I booked a room and he didn’t show up. I went to a city and got stood up x amount of times. Provider got lost. Client was with family. Someone insisted on face pics. Provider was in seedy hotel. Dog ate my homework. So they can take a for sure thing. Or spend the night sorting through all of the messages they complain about. Maybe they can have lunch with someone for a predate interview.

When someone sends me money via PayPal, and asks me to return it, what are they doing? I’ve had a regular for years that does this on occasion, they pay the fees. Where is this money coming from? They aren’t scamming me. Are they scamming someone?

I think it has to do with just being decent, I don’t demand, always offer to buy dinner, stay in nice places etc.

I was going to make a FB post announcing that no, I’m not on the list

Arg. The worst hangover after a concert, and I all I had was the damn omelette.

Have you tried the hotel tonight ap? Not sure it fixes your check out issue. But I know some providers who use it to find good deals.

I gave a card to one of my long term providers for “emergencies”. Amazing how his definition of an emergency is different than mine lol. He always pays it off on his own, but not great for my credit score. I like to keep it up at 850, which he doesn’t understand.

It typically just morphs into that after a few visits. Unless they are actually booked up for something late at night, why not stay for breakfast?

I’ve never hired for an hour or two, so perhaps my experience is different? I routinely hire an overnight for 1000. They refer to it as a break from the BS. Nice hotel, food, decent company etc. I’ve got 4 full days coming up for 3000. Nice Airbnb, pool, hot tub, dinners etc.

Neigh.

I always say I have a dad body, even though I’ve been working on it and have a pretty decent build. It’s a pleasant surprise when we meet.