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I have the same confusion as OP, but your reply makes sense. However, I'm so confused by the focus on "massage" on that site, when it seems like the option for "Erotic Massage" suggests much more than that. Is it considered acceptable to ask guys on RentMasseur if they're willing to fuck?

I have the same confusion as OP, but your reply makes sense. However, I'm so confused by the focus on "massage" on that site, when it seems like the option for "Erotic Massage" suggests much more than that. Is it considered acceptable to ask guys on RentMasseur if they're willing to fuck?

I have the same confusion as OP, but your reply makes sense. However, I'm so confused by the focus on "massage" on that site, when it seems like the option for "Erotic Massage" suggests much more than that. Is it considered acceptable to ask guys on RentMasseur if they're willing to fuck?

Oh dear this one comes up with regularity!
If he mentions erotic or sensual massage then you can be comfortable asking him what he’s prepared to include in that. It’s best to be clear about what you want. Masseur’s advertising erotic or sensual will be open to most questions but if you want full sex then I think many would decline that because they’re not generally charging escort type rates.
I prefer clients to ask me about what they’re looking for because the term ‘sensual’ is very open to different interpretations. 

Ah, that's a great idea! 
I ended up doing a 90 minute session with Daniel yesterday. He's definitely what I was looking for, physically, but he wasn't as adventurous as Sergey. Still worth the time, though!

ten people = ten opinions 😉
among both both clients and providers, there is no established definition for what "erotic massage" includes ....yes, it can be difficult to navigate all this without appearing demanding or insulting, but respect, hygiene, patience, and professionalism can help......mention "erotic massage requested" in pre-meet planning......what you want may or may not happen.....subtle body language during the massage may help, but be patient until toward the end of the session.......
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/139352-do-you-usually-tell-masseurs-where-to-touch-during-a-session/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/125408-sensual-vs-erotic-massage/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/137503-sensual-massage-vs-erotic/
 

Has anyone met with https://app.rent.men/Bradley_Blue
Profile and pictures are absolutely bonkers, but curious to know what the vibe is like.

I’d be curious to hear how this goes. Dolf is typically known for being a dom. I’ve seen him twice. Had a great experience both times. He’s a surprisingly friendly, chatty guy. 

The ones I’m aware of:

Saturday Night
- Spunk at the Monster - Gogo dancers, a pole dance stage, and lap dances in the back. Pretty fun crowd even if you’re not there for the dancers actually.
- Adonis party (once a month I think)- Sign up for the Adonis mailing list and they send out info on the adonis fully nude party- this location sometimes changes, it’s a private event and 100 dollar cover, fully nude models walking around- it’s incredibly hot and there have been some shenanigans going on which are exciting but it’s quite expensive.

Sunday Night
- Spunk at Pieces - same deal as Spunk at the Monster pretty much, although I don’t know if they have a poledance I can’t remember. For this one, the lapdance area is a little less well divided, if I recall, I think it was a little strange but maybe they’ve fixed it since then. It’s not as fun of a crowd there- and I think because it’s Sunday night it’s a little lower key.
- Phoenix - Adonis is now doing parties at Phoenix, it’s pretty new I think they’ve only done it the past few weeks, but so far they’ve had some pretty good models, including some of the Spunk dancers. Their private room is a shared lapdance space but it’s isolated enough that you don’t feel crowded by the other dances going on. I thought this was a pretty fun event.
- The Cock has resurrected their event on Sunday nights- I haven’t been since they restarted it so I don’t know what the format is. In the past they have had fully nude stage dancers, and it’s also a big hookup scene if that’s what you’re looking for. The dancers don’t officially give lapdances I believe, but it is a very “anything goes” atmosphere

Good luck! It’s a pretty fun time right now in NYC! And if anyone knows more events going on on weekends than these let me know!