Just keep getting guy inside. Having lube and no lube makes a difference for both top and bottom. If starting try lube. If want to try no lube than go for it but get ready. I enjoy using spit as both a top and bottom
I love a big one. depending on prep and how I feel will take water lube of spit. There is excellent grip when cock enters ass than saliva dries. Saliva usually tries fast making the friction between the ass and cock pleasure. Top's cock is not exactly locked in place but has firm grip inside the bottom's hole. I do need poppers to start with getting pounded only with saliva as lube. Need to practice more taking a dick without poppers.
Water based lube is great also accomplishing similar thing as saliva.
when I first started bottoming would only use silicone based lube. When I top I use my saliva or water based lube. Silicone lube is only good for very kinky
I had the same experience, the guy had me walking around a hotel. After that I no longer take clients without a photo and username sent in text. I once FaceTimed one of the scammers and he was some guy in India