Thank you for meeting up with me, I'm not exactly sure who you are but if you would like to we can discuss this matter further. In response to your post -
I do not have any issues with getting hard provided the person I am with is hygienic, respectful, and makes me feel safe, turned on, and comfortable with my surroundings and situation.
I consider myself a neutral person who tries to find something attractive in everyone that I meet. However some people I just cannot get along with. My information is public and rarely I meet up with the wrong type of people. Some of them are ignorant, racist, arrogant, criminals, liars, drug addicts, etc. They ask me to do things I am not willing to do and as a professional I ignore them and continue to make the time we spend together the best that it can be. I have met people who have lived in disgusting houses filled with roaches, I've been thrown up on by a drunk man, I've had people overdose in front of me, tried to scam me, steal from me, drug me and rape me, verbally and physically abuse me, so once a person makes me feel uncomfortable i follow my intuition and I am on high alert.
I am not a flakey person. I am on time and if I am running late I always inform beforehand. I am flexible with my scheduling and even drive long distances to meet people. I respond to messages when I can, but realize I have my own life with its own obligations. I own an art gallery, spend times with friends and family, and enjoy my own peace and quiet to unwind from life.
As for being focused on getting pleasure. Yes I do like that. It feels good to be licked, touched, and sucked and I get aroused from having someone worshiping me. I focus on them too 😁. Always make it a hot time.