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LookingAround

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  1. I don’t mention it. They offer it.
  2. Young hot guys seeking a gen older guy are plentiful in nyc. It’s not hard to believe at all.
  3. Canceled on me 10 mins before our appt saying he had worked all day and was tired.
  4. So the sugar grandad is 90?
  5. For someone who claims he doesn’t want to haggle, you haggled then complained when it didn’t go well.
  6. Is it true Manta (whatever it was called in its new iteration?) has closed?
  7. Who else thinks the OP really did want to haggle? I don’t believe the “I don’t want to haggle” line as you immediately negotiated and then are upset when he dumped you at your low ball price. Just sayin’ If you want first class service don’t fly Spirit.
  8. In decades of hiring I’ve not followed a single one of these suggestions and I’ve had wonderful times with never a problem.
  9. It’s kind of a stretch to call him a minor aristocrat unless you mean in his mind and no one else’s.
  10. Exactly! Impact is the best.
  11. My identical experience.
  12. That would explain the somewhat—my words—puritanical and judgmental approach. Didn’t sound like modern day Belgium or Holland.
  13. Let me get this straight. You went to dinner with him. He sat st a different table and did not speak to you at all and you think that’s ok?
  14. Let it go. Lots of more important things to worry about.
  15. Not sure what’s idiotic about encouraging a sexually active gay man to be on prep.
  16. “I left my computer st the airport. Could you go pick it up for me from TSA?”
  17. Ask him out for a date.
  18. Confirming is critical for independent masseurs. This week I had an appointment I had made 2 or 3 days in advance. He said he would text me when he was leaving. He didn’t text so I texted him. “I just woke up. I knew I was forgetting something.” Dealing with a private individual isn’t like dealing with a spa. You do need a confirmation.
  19. He’s Flemish and I’m Dutch. I used to call him a “dominee” (minister) because he could be puritanical about some things. He had a stereotype that if you enjoyed a bathhouse you by definition—and no discussion about it had—a drug addiction. I enjoy bathhouses and I don’t do any drugs and never have. He never believed me and whenever the topic would come up he always cast me as a drug abuser.
  20. He got increasingly erratic and at times puritanical here. Some mentioned he was aging and I suspect his “sell by” date came and went.
  21. Let them search my phone. Nothing to hide.
  22. Yes, really. The discussion was safe. Prep is the safest form of hiv prevention.
  23. He is right in that being on prep is the safest form of sex outside of abstinence. Condoms are less safe actually.
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