I’ve seen pasha for years. I actually think he’s gay. But he’s a bit shy and definitely reserved. Just because he’s not campy doesn’t mean he’s not gay. He and I once discussed at length my colognes and his fondness for different colognes—not a typical “straight guy” convo. (But of course let’s not stereotype). He also got hard once (and only once) as we got to the HE part of the massage. Regardless I like him and his massage a lot even with the drawbacks of shy and reserved.