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Let it go. Lots of more important things to worry about.

Not sure what’s idiotic about encouraging a sexually active gay man to be on prep.

“I left my computer st the airport. Could you go pick it up for me from TSA?”

Ask him out for a date.

Confirming is critical for independent masseurs. This week I had an appointment I had made 2 or 3 days in advance. He said he would text me when he was leaving. He didn’t text so I texted him. “I just woke up. I knew I was forgetting something.” Dealing with a private individual isn’t like dealing with a spa. You do need a confirmation.

He’s Flemish and I’m Dutch. I used to call him a “dominee” (minister) because he could be puritanical about some things. He had a stereotype that if you enjoyed a bathhouse you by definition—and no discussion about it had—a drug addiction. I enjoy bathhouses and I don’t do any drugs and never have. He never believed me and whenever the topic would come up he always cast me as a drug abuser.

He got increasingly erratic and at times puritanical here. Some mentioned he was aging and I suspect his “sell by” date came and went.

Let them search my phone. Nothing to hide.

Yes, really. The discussion was safe. Prep is the safest form of hiv prevention.

He is right in that being on prep is the safest form of sex outside of abstinence. Condoms are less safe actually.

Reading these comments makes me imagine a dog with his favorite fire hydrant.

I’m not here for sympathy. Your comment implies you are.

Never heard of a guy jerking onto paper towels.

That’s a lot of assumptions sniper to reach such a certain conclusion. If you’re correct wouldn’t all car insurance companies be around 97%?

I don’t suddenly stop nor do I swerve so i would be fine with them monitoring me.

The Pillage and Plunder cruise that is no more was such a venue. http://vincentlambert.blogspot.com/2002/12/event-pillage-plunder-cruise.html?m=1

Gold star gay here.

Am I the only one but he sure doesn’t look that hot to me. At all.

We have a lot of daddies but far fewer fathers.

I saw the title and knew who wrote it.

The guy sounds amazing. Feel free to give him my number.

Totally. He’s among the best.

No we live in a world of grammar and word definitions. Don’t put your own idiosyncratic spin on it.

Infamous doesn’t mean famous. Has a negative connotation. in·fa·mous /ˈinfəməs/ Learn to pronounce adjective well known for some bad quality or deed. "an infamous war criminal" synonyms:notorious, disreputable, ill-famed, of ill-repute; More wicked; abominable. "the medical council disqualified him for infamous misconduct" synonyms:abominable, outrageous, shocking, shameful, disgraceful, dishonorable, discreditable, unworthy, unprincipled, unscrupulous; More

They really are a gateway drug and so addictive.