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Sounds like you need a written invitation! He was coming on strong….you should have followed him. Don’t worry about your accent, all you need to do is get down on your knees. You can’t speak when your mouth is full. 

your best imitation of a southern belle overcome by the vapors.

Is there anything you agree with or would add to this list?
 
Remember wanting to be a grown-up *so* badly when you were a kid? Well, not all of adulting is as glamorous as we once dreamed. Reddit user Known-Balance14 recently asked, "What’s an adult problem nobody prepared you for?" Here are the responses that are more relatable than you might like to admit:
1."Having to figure out what to eat every single day — forever."
2."How fast time goes by the older you get."
3."No one prepared me for my friends slowly becoming too busy for me when I wasn't yet too busy for them."
4."Chores, the never-ending chores."
5."You can love someone deeply and still have to walk away from them."
6."Your aging parents."
7."That random body parts hurt (and sometimes fail) for no apparent reason."
8."Menopause."
9."Tax and endless bills. Everyone wants a piece of you."
10."Constant decisions, thousands of them a day, all day, every day. If you make the wrong one, the consequences could be catastrophic. But no one knows what they're doing. We're all winging it and hoping we do the right thing."
11."Getting back pain from literally just sleeping."
12."Having fewer and fewer people in your life. People die, move away, marry, disappear, etc."
13."My gosh, once you buy a house, there is literally always something to fix. I had no idea how much constant repainting, power washing, HVAC guy calling, drain clearing, and carpet cleaning I'd have to do for the rest of my life."
14."Having to arrange your first funeral for someone else."
15."No summer breaks."
16."How much a mattress costs."
17."The level of tiredness you can achieve."
18."Everything in the house breaks at once before you get paid."
19."How very long it is until retirement. You start so energized and willing to work such an extreme schedule, and you give it all you have and beyond for the sake of the company, and your career. Day in and day out, for so very long."
20."Managing credit. I got into a whole lot of trouble because I was never taught about credit. Given the fact that they throw 19% credit cards at newly minted 18-year-olds is wild."
21.And finally, "Adults haven't figured it out. Nobody knows what they're doing."

Because I desire both an excellent quality massage and sex in the same session. Most escorts I've been with that offered massage were often just a rubdown.
I broach the subject in my first contact with a masseur. Masseurs I've had contact with have been open (and willing) to discuss these things upfront (but then sexwork is completely legal where I work). 

Sensual masseurs (or erotic masseurs) are sex workers - I prefer to use that description than prostitute because I think it carries less baggage - so anyone hiring a sensual masseur is doing the same thing as hiring an escort. You’re hiring to satisfy sexual needs. Ok so it will include massage, which if done correctly (sensual massage) will, and is intended to arouse. It’s a seduction. A masseur will have restrictions on what he or she may do sexually but then escorts will too. So it just comes down to a) what will he do sexually and b) what is his price. Clients should nail both those things down. But let’s be clear we’re not talking about sensual masseurs and escorts being different things, they’re the same thing (sex worker) which only differs by degree. I speak as someone who has done both jobs. 

Hire an escort, not a masseur, if you definitely want the guy to cum with you.  Even then you'll need to be clear in your communication as some escorts don't cum during every appointment.
Sure, you can take a gamble and hire a masseur.  I've definitely had a lot of masseurs cross over into escort territory, but even with "clues" in their ads such as explicit language or provocative photos you can never be sure just how "erotic" an erotic massage will be.

Just ASK and be specific..."I want you to cum in my mouth as I provide you with a happy ending.            What do you have to lose?
Enjoy! And be prepared to swallow .

"In exchange for my fee, I will be getting my junk massaged by whatever orifice of yours I choose, using melted butter for lube"

As Cristy Lane might've sung, one dick at a time, sweet Jesus...

I need oral sex!!  For me, a fuck is not finished until somebody swallows, (preferably me) so all things "cum"  are really critical to my full enjoyment of sex. (I really love CUM) I was too shy to ask a provider or lover to cum in my mouth for many years fearing he would judge me. When I did ask a few times, I did not get much encouragement so i just did without the taste, consistency  and  satisfaction that is basic to me getting off. (I really  love CUM). Now I specify that I expect his cum in my mouth at first contact, and if he says  no, which still happens, i try some where else.

I need oral sex!!  For me, a fuck is not finished until somebody swallows, (preferably me) so all things "cum"  are really critical to my full enjoyment of sex. (I really love CUM) I was too shy to ask a provider or lover to cum in my mouth for many years fearing he would judge me. When I did ask a few times, I did not get much encouragement so i just did without the taste, consistency  and  satisfaction that is basic to me getting off. (I really  love CUM). Now I specify that I expect his cum in my mouth at first contact, and if he says  no, which still happens, i try some where else.