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Thanks for your feedback and for sharing your experience. Yeah. I agree. Having these feelings is great. I already won whatever happens. Because he is making me feel things I thought I would never feel again. 😌🥰

Sorry I was not clear enough. I’m just a regular guy who used to hire masseurs very often. And now that interest has gone down to zero… because I’m falling for this guy I met. And was just wondering if hiring and being in love are really compatible. Just wanted to hear experiences others might’ve had. 

Thanks for the feedback.  And an open relationship  wouldn’t work with this guy. And I don’t really want an open relationship. I wouldn’t feel right for me at this point. 

no doubt they're compatible! 
Many gay men are in open relationships, they share a life, home, pets, etc. with the man they love and want to have sex on the side. 

How do these dumb fucks think they can get away with type of behavior in today's world.

Is the guy you’re “falling for” a working guy that you’ve hired @7829V ?
If so, I bet it’s happened to many of us. If you hire a guy who’s very much your ideal physical type and you have great sex together, it’s easy to develop feelings. Our hormonal response is excited by good sex, and the endorphins released don’t distinguish between a guy you meet ordinarily and a guy you’ve hired to fulfil your desires. 

I’m seeing this guy. And I thing I’m falling for him. And have no desire of being with anyone else… I know that usually the “in love” phase does not last forever… just wondering if anyone can comment on this. Can you be in love and hire at the same time. I think I can’t. For better of for worse.
Also I don’t think I can cheat. The lies, the drama, the hiding is not for me. Too much stress…

a few years ago, Zeb Atlas took my order at the counter of his Las Vegas restaurant and rang up my bill......we looked each other in the eye and chatted for a few seconds!.......zowee, I just saved $500!

As someone who has been diagnosed with a mental illness and a fairly young person in my mid 30s, I’m kind of on the fence on this issue. I know medication does work for a lot of people. It’s all about being able to function. If you can’t function in society, complete activities of daily living, and refuse to be treated by a medical provider in an outpatient setting, you will most likely be committed to a mental hospital for treatment. Whether you want it or not. Of course it depends on the severity of the disorder. Mild anxiety or depression, you can probably get away with therapy only. But if you’re diagnosed with more severe disorders such as bipolar or schizophrenia, and refuse to take medication, and end up in a mental hospital repeatedly, you could be considered non compliant, and forced to take injections of medication. I’d rather play it safe, comply, and take the pill that was prescribed for me, and not have to worry about ending up in a guardianship like Britney Spears or Amanda Bynes.

I am amazed at how many ads there are on TV for prescription drugs, for medical conditions that I never thought were very widespread. Since the average viewer cannot get those meds without a doctor's prescription, I can only assume that they are intended to get the viewer to pressure the doctor for that particular drug, but I wonder how effective that advertising strategy is. I can't imagine telling my doctor what drug I think he should prescribe for a particular condition.

Many folks on here have been hiring escorts since college!

Many folks on here have been hiring escorts since college!

I hired him when he was visiting London, very sweet guy, highly recommended.
btw I'm not British! 

I'm in my late 30s and for me it is getting what I want, when I want. I have a busy schedule and I just don't have the time/effort/energy to waste on Grindr or some other app and result with my free time being wasted with flakes/Catfishes/or unresponsive people. 

Many folks on here have been hiring escorts since college!

Adult man with MP in Houston TX has died.  He did have other ailments as well.
https://www.cnbc.com/2022/08/30/texas-reports-what-may-be-the-first-us-death-from-monkeypox.html

I'm not petrified, but I wear a seatbelt every time I'm in the car, I lock my doors whether I'm in the house or out, I change the batteries in my smoke detector. Why wouldn't I get vaccinated to hopefully prevent a nasty illness? I get my flu shot, I've had tetanus shots, I plan to get the shingles vaccine soon, had my Covid vaccine & booster. I do these things as precautions. 
(Note: My father died from injuries in an apartment fire. I'm not petrified, but I do have smoke detectors and a fire extinguisher, because I want to be prepared.)