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In 30+ years, I've only run into providers twice in the wild. 1:  At Whole Foods. The man walked up to me and I stood frozen holding my cart. He picked up a jar of coconut oil, turned on his "let's fuck" grin, and said it was for my next visit. Instant boner for me and I made our next appointment before leaving the parking lot.  2: In a theater. A guy who had told me he was an actor turned out to be telling the truth. My seat was second row center. I was worried he would spot me and lose focus, so I ducked my head and snuck out during the first act.  
Discretion is good manners.

In 30+ years, I've only run into providers twice in the wild. 1:  At Whole Foods. The man walked up to me and I stood frozen holding my cart. He picked up a jar of coconut oil, turned on his "let's fuck" grin, and said it was for my next visit. Instant boner for me and I made our next appointment before leaving the parking lot.  2: In a theater. A guy who had told me he was an actor turned out to be telling the truth. My seat was second row center. I was worried he would spot me and lose focus, so I ducked my head and snuck out during the first act.  
Discretion is good manners.

In 30+ years, I've only run into providers twice in the wild. 1:  At Whole Foods. The man walked up to me and I stood frozen holding my cart. He picked up a jar of coconut oil, turned on his "let's fuck" grin, and said it was for my next visit. Instant boner for me and I made our next appointment before leaving the parking lot.  2: In a theater. A guy who had told me he was an actor turned out to be telling the truth. My seat was second row center. I was worried he would spot me and lose focus, so I ducked my head and snuck out during the first act.  
Discretion is good manners.

You should also gray out erotic and sensual and state in your ad text that the massage is purely therapeutic and that you'll be clothed.  And make sure your pics are consistent with your offering.  That should make it clear.

My impression is:
1. A minority of MF advertisers are therapeutic only.
2. A majority of MF advertisers are OK with MT and provide HE, occasionally more, possibly depending on attraction or on how many sessions you've had together.
3. A minority of MF advertisers, usually indicated by a higher price, are more of an escort than a masseur.
4. Some of #2 and most of #3 are on RM as well as MF.
5. Almost all RM advertisers go beyond therapeutic.
6. Many RM advertisers are more an escort than a masseur.

In 30+ years, I've only run into providers twice in the wild. 1:  At Whole Foods. The man walked up to me and I stood frozen holding my cart. He picked up a jar of coconut oil, turned on his "let's fuck" grin, and said it was for my next visit. Instant boner for me and I made our next appointment before leaving the parking lot.  2: In a theater. A guy who had told me he was an actor turned out to be telling the truth. My seat was second row center. I was worried he would spot me and lose focus, so I ducked my head and snuck out during the first act.  
Discretion is good manners.

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

Okay the truth is this guy has a great cock. But as far as I'm concerned there is more to a guy than just a great cock. If you look at his only fans page you will see that the rest of his body isn't all the great. In his best body shots he is just beefy. In his worst shot he has a gut that isn't all that appealing. I guess I just want the whole package and I don't see it here.

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

I remember suddenly losing half my friends to AIDS. I survived because I had been lucky before we understood how the virus spread and I completely stopped fucking for years... It was terrifying and a life-changing loss for all of us survivors. Remember body electric and those j/o parties the health department used to run in SF? A lot of us cultivated an appreciation for massage as a response to the HIV epidemic. Touch without penetration or exchange of fluids was safe sex. Monkey pox is replaying the trauma for me. I miss my weekly massages. I just had an appointment and couldn't stop worrying about who the therapist had touched before me...  I had to ask him to leave. This feels like 1987 all over again.  Hard stop for me until I'm fully vaccinated. 😢

https://rentmasseur.com/RubHunter 
https://rentmasseur.com/JustKary 

https://rentmasseur.com/RubHunter 
https://rentmasseur.com/JustKary 

I concur he is a waste of time and exact same thing happened to me and with a few min left he tells u to get yrself off i did ..off the table and blocked him and his cell

Don’t do it.  I hired him and now you don’t have to. 
We’ve seen this guy before.  He’s gone by Daniel, Dan, Dann, and even more monikers (Fit_Dan?) before.  There were numerous threads about him on the earlier iteration of this site, but I can’t find them, unfortunately. At least he was using his real pictures back then.  In reality, he’s a handsome guy and he has a similar look, but the pics in the John_LA profile are definitely not of him.
I hired him some years ago a couple of times and went to his place, where he was staying in the Hollywood Hills.  All I’ll say is he did not deliver on his promises.
Not knowing his true identity last week, I reached out and booked an outcall session with him.  When he arrived, I was almost certain it was “Dan,” but went along with the session. I asked him midway if we had met sometime ago, but he replied he had lived in Long Beach since moving from Poland a few years ago. (Previously, he claimed to be from Germany and as I noted, he was staying in the Hollywood Hills.)  Once again, it was a lackluster session and I would not recommend him at all.  
You’ve been warned, just say no.  
Thanks for all your insights on providers, guys.  Appreciate all the info, which is so helpful.

Has anyone met him?  Comments?
https://rentmasseur.com/MassagebyMarc

Normal and friendly guy. No red flags.
I had a massage from CJ a few months ago. Skilled, mostly swedish-style, thorough. I liked him. He seemed like a very open minded and friendly man, and I was aware that erotic was on the menu. But I was sore and needed TLC rather than excitement so I requested TLC without a HE. I wanted to fall asleep and I did. CJ is a cute guy and I'll probably ask for erotic next time.  

No it won't, and it is a lesson for us about what might be behind those odd negative reviews.

So he blows the energy into your butthole?

Normal and friendly guy. No red flags.
I had a massage from CJ a few months ago. Skilled, mostly swedish-style, thorough. I liked him. He seemed like a very open minded and friendly man, and I was aware that erotic was on the menu. But I was sore and needed TLC rather than excitement so I requested TLC without a HE. I wanted to fall asleep and I did. CJ is a cute guy and I'll probably ask for erotic next time.  

I talked to my doc yesterday. He said my smallpox vaccination may offer some protection, but I should get a monkeypox vaccination.  He's gay and sex positive and knows what I do and approximately how many people I do it with. He said, "continue with your current partners but avoid new contacts until you've been vaccinated".  He mentioned spas and massages as risks to avoid. 
 

I talked to my doc yesterday. He said my smallpox vaccination may offer some protection, but I should get a monkeypox vaccination.  He's gay and sex positive and knows what I do and approximately how many people I do it with. He said, "continue with your current partners but avoid new contacts until you've been vaccinated".  He mentioned spas and massages as risks to avoid.