Since we're not talking about Michael Boston, perhaps a different unrelated question.
Is there an online edition of Strunk & White's Elements of Style? Asking for a friend.
5 reviews in 6 years, one negative and one "middling." The "middling" review:
"He sent a face pic by text before meeting. Not sure who is in the photo - maybe him 20 years ago. Is much heavier than in the pics in his profile. He didn't even take off his shirt for what I assume is his attempt to hide the fact that he is not correctly represented in the profile photos. After massaging a bit he tried to upcharge for more. I declined because that wasn't what was discussed, and I didn't want to do more with him given his appearance."
For curiosity's sake, when did you cancel the Sunday meeting? On Friday, when you got sick, or on Sunday? (48 hours? Seems sufficient to me. 1 hour? I'd think you were unserious.)
He didn't stand you up or ghost you; he asked to shift 30-40 minutes. Sounds like you two, temperamentally, aren't a good match. (And, reading between the lines, I'd guess that's why he was uninterested in "making up for it somehow.")
It's not "slander," it's hearsay, and presented as such. Other users can judge the truth of the story and of the teller with that in mind, and do. The moderators have enough to do managing threads, let alone every comment made.
So the question to the community is: "what is the chemistry between HunkStud_CA *and* SammStud in a threeway?"
You already have your thoughts on them individually.