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Hey there. So last night I had overnights with 2 guys, unrelated (didn’t know each other) we went to another place and at like 4am one of them disappeared. I found out later he took my keys, drove to my Airbnb and stole my wallet and 2 laptops
 
I have messaged and called and no answer yet. What should I do now ?  Help !

Hey there. So last night I had overnights with 2 guys, unrelated (didn’t know each other) we went to another place and at like 4am one of them disappeared. I found out later he took my keys, drove to my Airbnb and stole my wallet and 2 laptops
 
I have messaged and called and no answer yet. What should I do now ?  Help !

fuck yea! I love to just hold it in my mouth while he watches TV or falls asleep also

Lol….🤣🤣🤣
Probably this has something to do with sadomasochism…just like gay raceplay.
For some people the fantasy of submitting to a MAGA guy and being abused/dominated/defeated is very real.
And probably it goes both ways…
…..a MAGA gay guy submitting and being abused by a politically correct liberal snowflake????…..😈
I am sure some therapists would have an orgasm trying to understand their minds!!!!…..🤣🤣🤣
 

recently ive been really turned on by some twitter accounts ive found roleplaying alpha right-wing men; sometimes they get VERY taboo and offensive but it turns me on so much for some reason? (I'm a huge "liberal snowflake" in my real life lol)
anyone else into this? and know any providers who do it well?

I also dont understand this kinks but i guess same could be said to ppl who enjoy all inclusive ultra lux resorts (the likes of Aman properties). As long as you are happy, i say go for it! 😆

I second the leaving out filters ! idk how some of these guys decide if they're "muscular", "athletic" or "toned" and even the position filter doesn't help much as a lot are "ask me"
but yes, rentmen is the way to go! Unless you're outside the US, then also use hunqz or other local sites.
where can you get female escorts online? I've been thinking of doing an MMF thing

I've almost always paid the same or more actually for oral/worship only - adds to the cockiness/straight guy gay4pay fun lol

I am ahaha and I was a serial monogamist for years, boyfriends are nice but only if they turn into husbands and most other guys around my age aren't ready for that (Im not either tbh lol) so for now I prefer focusing on friends, career, and being a huge slut ahahaha
and yes its been hard for me as well. I've had 2/3 guys before who I would have loved to been a regular of, but they either are in way different time zones or they have anger management issues lol

ugh @Coolwave35 you are literally an icon you're so cool ahahaha I definitely never thought/never really cared if my guys "like me" (although I would hope they enjoy me as a client!" but yes I agree, income talks ! Thats actually one of the many reasons I like hiring; I'm super non-materialistic myself and so sometimes I find it hard to intrinsically motivate myself to hustle/go the extra mile at work. But if I know that my money is going to support a man I like then that changes everything and I'll work day in and day out if I must!

love this also! but here's a problem, my current obsession lives in the UK (or Spain? lol) and so an introductory shorter session isn't really possible in the immediate future (although I will be visiting Europe in fall!) 
So far I've been consistent in sending money to his cash app/onlyfans, and I've explained that I'm looking for a regular findom. I'm hoping with time he'll notice that I'm providing regularly and large enough that I'm serious, and we could do a video meet and then just start planning a weekend trip - I know its not great to start with that, but I'm a person who enjoys a fair amount of alone time/privacy regardless, and all I would 100% want to happen is to be able to wear my chastity cage all weekend and do his chores
he also has a lovely hot girlfriend, so I was thinking of paying for the both of them to do a trip together, with or without me present! I find the idea of using my money to treat who he actually cares about soooo hot, and hopefully I could cut some of the costs of his video content production (flights, hotels, actors even)

I kinda agree - I once was building something good with a guy and I bought him a new bicycle and told him when it would arrive - turns out there was a fraud alert (cuz I had recently moved back from Europe) and the payment didn't go through (although I had all the money and more for it) and when it didn't come the guy cursed me out and called me a time waster 😕 but to be fair, he deserves someone who would make sure he got his gifts on time - this guy is a real superstar. 
I looooove paying good money and I would like to think of myself as an unlimited resource for anyone who wants to take advantage, but maybe cuz of my age and general personality sometimes people don't take me seriously about that I think

it made me hard also ahahaha I just love the idea of spoiling my favs like he does  

omg no this was super helpful !!! I love your approach. I'm relocating to a bigger city with tons of guys next month, so that will hopefully get rid of my travel issues thank God. I am also DYING to go to Adonis. It would be so much nicer to meet someone in person first, to make sure the chemistry is there. 
I definitely don't have as much funds as you do (yet, ahahahaha) but I could definitely commit at LEAST around 30k a year on a regular - with that amount I have no illusions of being anyones "favorite client" or top of their priority list, but I think I'm a very easy/low maintenance client and on my current career track I'll have much more to be able to give to someone in a few years from now (and will have a LOT whenever inheritance comes in), and I would love a man to be loyal / subservient to. The joy and confidence and awe I get from some escorts is easily worth 150k or more so I would only gladly give them more and more (I'm a cash sub too, in my dream fantasy I have a man who completely controls all of my bank accounts at all times)
I don't even need to see a regular in person necessarily, in the past I've just paid their rent / gym memberships / etc monthly in exchange for texting/an occasional voice note or video call. For me its really more about the alpha/beta dynamic and I just enjoying being of use to alpha men!
One easy way to spoil someone on my budget could be to go all out (5 star hotels, nice gifts, etc etc) for THEM during a weekend/overnight, and then just stay in a hostel or something myself. Until now I've been planning on villas / rentals with multiple bedrooms but I would just be happy knowing someone was living in luxury on my dime, regardless of where I am.

yessss thats always a tricky part about being a sub. I like being used/disrespected a bit for sexual kicks, but I still want to be treated like a friend to my doms - thats actually IMO a tell-tale sign that someone isn't actually dom/"alpha" at all and just play it for sex - in my experience, the real alphas can use me up like a piece of trash during a session and then still be nice and friendly to me later on.
BUT, if I'm into a guy then even just the act of paying him I consider a "benefit"   some people are into fancy clothes or restaurants or buying boats or whatever, but I genuinely get a lot of meaning and pleasure out of gift giving/spoiling. 

You have already gotten a bunch of good advice.  Sounds like you're in mid-Suffolk, so that could be the biggest obstacle.  We both know that people in NYC'ers are not likely to have cars.  They see someone from Suffolk County and don't bother. 
To overcome this, you may want to consider changing your approach and in your original contact let them know you'd like to bring them out to Long Island for a visit/day/trip/weekend.  Or, let them know you're willing to meet them in NYC.  Or, let them know you're arranging for car service.  
As for finding the right one or filtering... I leave as many filters off as possible.  Many guys skip over certain settings.  If you filter in Body Type: Jock, and a nice jock-type doesn't check the "Jock" box, then you'll miss them.  Look for guys that have had longer term active profiles by looking at the Member Since or Joined On dates.  Also, the number of profile visits will give you an idea on how long they've been around.  New profiles tend to be chancy and if you want a serious professional, you want someone who knows the industry.
But as for the which app... RM is probably the best place.  Just don't limit the area or distance.  At least half of the guys are traveling around the country.  In the hetero market, there are lots of choices next door, no matter where you live.  In our market, the guys are willing to travel more, but they need to see you as serious and direct.
 
Just my tuppence.

love this also! but here's a problem, my current obsession lives in the UK (or Spain? lol) and so an introductory shorter session isn't really possible in the immediate future (although I will be visiting Europe in fall!) 
So far I've been consistent in sending money to his cash app/onlyfans, and I've explained that I'm looking for a regular findom. I'm hoping with time he'll notice that I'm providing regularly and large enough that I'm serious, and we could do a video meet and then just start planning a weekend trip - I know its not great to start with that, but I'm a person who enjoys a fair amount of alone time/privacy regardless, and all I would 100% want to happen is to be able to wear my chastity cage all weekend and do his chores
he also has a lovely hot girlfriend, so I was thinking of paying for the both of them to do a trip together, with or without me present! I find the idea of using my money to treat who he actually cares about soooo hot, and hopefully I could cut some of the costs of his video content production (flights, hotels, actors even)

I kinda agree - I once was building something good with a guy and I bought him a new bicycle and told him when it would arrive - turns out there was a fraud alert (cuz I had recently moved back from Europe) and the payment didn't go through (although I had all the money and more for it) and when it didn't come the guy cursed me out and called me a time waster 😕 but to be fair, he deserves someone who would make sure he got his gifts on time - this guy is a real superstar. 
I looooove paying good money and I would like to think of myself as an unlimited resource for anyone who wants to take advantage, but maybe cuz of my age and general personality sometimes people don't take me seriously about that I think

ahahaha yea ive always enjoyed psychological aspects of sex over physical aspects so for ME worship is a lot more valuable than sex. A lot of guys are very uncomfortable with it or dont understand what i get out of it /// how to play with me during a session like that, so when I find a guy who's n naturally dominant and confident and enjoys/expects to be worshipped, ill jump at the opportunity to hand him all my money ahahahha even in my actual relationships i always ended up sugar daddy to a slightly older, definitely more in shape narcissist lol 

I’d be happy to bring you to the Adonis nude party next month in nyc. Since we live 15 minutes from each other, I’ll drive you and then give you the low down on who would fit your bill. Surely there is someone you’ll like and I’ll tell you if they’re a hustler or legit. 

hey! so i’m in a facebook group with female escorts in australia. and though some things are the same, the biggest difference does indeed seem to be the initial point of contact. that being said the initial point of contact practices should translate well between male and female escorts. you don’t need the references or to fill out the forms!
as was said above most of us (though not all) prefer communication via text. phone calls are intrusive (and some people are not as good at the phone as they think they are), and the RM app is buggy. a good initial text (no “hey”) stating what you’re looking for and potential time to meet will work wonders. 
you’re also looking in the best place. at this point, i’d cut a4a out - it’s about as good as grindr. RM will be your best bet. that being said, getting a feel for a guy through his profile can be hit or miss; communication (and actually stating what you want) are the best ways to go about it. and sometimes it really is just trying until you find a (few) good guy(s) and sticking to them.  
i can’t speak for everyone, but the less texts to set up a meeting are usually better. trying to build up a rapport (if you haven’t hired yet) can make you seem like you’re looking for a texting buddy vs trying to set an appointment. so get it all out initially. 
oh and also, GFE or BFE means something different to everyone. every client and every provider has a different idea of what that is - is it an actual date to an event, is it talking, is it passionate sex? i wouldn’t even go about describing your experience as that and just communicating what you want, asking if they can provide it, and go from there.  
this was a lot, and some don’t like to read. but you’re on the right track!

I never engage such guys personally, but I don't recall ever seing the guys promoting themselves for muscle-worship ever charging less than the "full service" guys.  If anything, the worship-only guys seem to be ego driven to charge a premium for their time.

I know some people are very into this, but I'm not paying anyone so I can "worship" or blow them. Though I would think it should be cheaper than the full shebang. 

yessss thats always a tricky part about being a sub. I like being used/disrespected a bit for sexual kicks, but I still want to be treated like a friend to my doms - thats actually IMO a tell-tale sign that someone isn't actually dom/"alpha" at all and just play it for sex - in my experience, the real alphas can use me up like a piece of trash during a session and then still be nice and friendly to me later on.
BUT, if I'm into a guy then even just the act of paying him I consider a "benefit"   some people are into fancy clothes or restaurants or buying boats or whatever, but I genuinely get a lot of meaning and pleasure out of gift giving/spoiling.