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The guys in this video are quite cute, so I have to give them that. But I don't like that a single individual is answering these types of question for a highly diverse cohort of people. Maybe a better way to respond to the somewhat ignorant questions would be to flip it around and ask the same questions of straights and the straight community. I think that would show how silly it is to try to answer on behalf of millions of others that have very different life experiences of which you have no knowledge.

I don't know, Benjamin. Maybe escorts services should be considered a public utility and regulated as such. 😗🤔

Let's say you're allowed to approach only person to compliment their dog. Which would it be?

I would never use the expression "boyfriend experience" when setting up date with an escort. As this thread illustrates, there are too many different definitions. I also have no interest in pretending, even for a while, that we're something other than client and escort. When I've had extended dates with escorts in the past, I've called it what it is (for me): client and escort taking some to time to relate to each other on a non-physical level.

@KrisParr, I reread your posts and now, today, have a slightly different perspective. ( my perspective du jour 🙂 ) You initially volunteered that you hire escorts and, given HD's hotness, the age difference and what was probably your less then subtle infatuation, he understandably saw it as hint that you're open to compensating him for something physical. He later tells you that he has sex with men for money and gets you all turned on while relating stories about his services. He seals a mutual understanding that you're hot for him and that he's available to you for money when he tells you to think it over (and the discount comment). So there it is. The offer is not in writing but it's pretty unambiguous. He knew it. You knew it. Fast forward to the Braves-Dodgers game and hotel experience. In the world of professional escorts, the escort communicates his expectation regarding compensation up front. But he's not a professional per se and may not know the protocol -- or what you would be willing to pay -- so he fumbles. But you know how it works and when his inexperience caused him to fumble, you allowed it to become a freebie. So now what? He clearly likes you, is willing to put the f*ck-up behind you and wants to salvage the relationship (and his reputation). Have fun and go with it -- and maybe find the right time to tell him that you take partial ownership of the whole mindf-ck experience. Let him know that it's not all on him. Also, it seems like paying him for experiences that you've already had for free would be hard to swallow (ha ha, pun intended) so that's probably not an option any more. It's now a relationship that is potentially more emotionally risky and in which you have less power -- although potentially more rewarding. Keep your head on straight! I know that I'd be at risk of becoming too emotionally invested in your situation, but you may be more naturally grounded than me. 🙃

I somehow overlooked this thread until today. Wow @KrisParr, I want to be in your situation! Discovering that a major stud from the gym is available for sexy fun and games is a fantasy dream. It's unfortunate that your one date turned out to be a mindf—k, but for me, that would not be a reason to write him off altogether. Forgive me for using your situation to indulge my own wishful thinking, but here goes. If it were me in your situation, I'd consider two possible courses of action. 1) Don't try to avoid him at the gym. Treat him like a casual friend. Be friendly but not solicitous. If he wants to advance a friendship, whether it be platonic or sexual without pay, let him do so. From what you've told us, he won't be shy about it if that’s what he wants. The fact that he's already asked you to have dinner means he wants to advance something. Maybe he wants something that doesn't involve compensation. Or he may still view you as a potential client and dinner is another opportunity to tempt you with the merchandise. 2) Decide if you want to hire him. If you do, tell him you’re interested and would like to discuss the terms. If you can arrive at mutually agreeable terms, then go for it! Why not indulge yourself as long as it's on agreeable terms? Personally, I'd love for you to go with option #2 and then read about here!

I was able to search for a member by first clicking in the Search window. A set of options popped up. I clicked on "More options..." which is toward the top, then clicked on "Members" and entered the member name in the search window.

Some men are naturally quite skinny (me, for example): skinny with stringy muscles. For a certain body type, this picture shows being physically fit.

Yeah, my friend Richard was in LA on business and hired Jules to stay with him for the weekend. Jules was kind-of rough trade but Richard gave him his credit card to buy some new clothes and helped him blend into a more upscale crowd. They ended up falling in love and have been together every since.

Although I've considered myself mostly a bottom, I've never enjoyed what some would call a "hard fuck". I've enjoyed taking dicks of all sizes, as long as he doesn't start vigorously pounding away. Unfortunately, there's the whole "yeah, fuck me harder.. deeper, faster" thing you sometimes see in porno. I suspect that's good in porno for some, but not so good in real life. Also, expecting a orgasm from anal penetration alone is not realistic.

I've been to Paris in September and in February. In September, it was awash with tourist which, for me, makes the city less appealing (still appealing, but less so). But the February trip was entirely different. Loved it (!) in spite of having to wear warm cloths and, on a couple days, some rain gear.

Can't think of specific examples of bad camera work in porn videos, but I know I've seen it! What I find distracting is dubbed vocalizations in lots of BelAmi videos. There's very exaggerated moaning and grunting that doesn't even sound like it's coming from the actors. I visualize a couple of video production guys in a post-filming editing room, grunting and moaning into a microphone, trying (unsuccessfully) to sync their noises to the action.

Thanks! I understand your assessment of Brazil. My couple of trips to Rio de Janeiro were great and I plan to return. Salvador is also on my Brazil bucket-list (but not Sao Paulo). Although I've vacationed in Italy (Florence, Tuscany, Rome, Bologna) it was primarily traditional tourist stuff. Maybe next time I'll investigate venues more gay (whatever that turns out to be). Greece and Buenos Aires have been on my list for quite a while. Maybe time to push them up on the list...

Thanks! I'm always on the look-out for new podcasts to try. There's a few on your list that I'll definitely investigate.

@Danny-Darko, As someone who's always updating his travel bucket list, I'm wondering about your reasons for Israel and Brazil being overrated as Gay Tourist Destinations. I'm also wonder why you think Italy, Greece and Argentina are underrated in this category. I'm not disagreeing with your assessment... just trying to be a smart traveler. Thanks!

I too am eager to return to Montreal but fear I'll be too old by the time Americans are allowed to return and the clubs are safe again. Is there an age when one becomes too old for the Campus and Stock Bar? ❓ ?‍♂️ Mentally and physically I'm primed to go but I do have lots of gray hair.

I agree that the tone of the DRC policies and procedures is somewhat off-putting, but I can understand the policy about letting the dog outside unattended. It's likely that a high energy dog will bark. It will bark at squirrels or neighbors or for any number of reasons. I once had neighbor who let their dog hang out, unattended in their back yard and it drove me berserk with its barking. I've also had friends that had a similar experience with a barking dog next door. Maybe the people at DRC have good reasons for this policy (??). ?‍♂️

I wish I had an interesting answer for this, but I don't. I sort of remember sitting at my computer signing up for the site (probably the HooBoy site). I needed to come up with something unique and easy to remember so I tacked two, easy to remember words together. Who knows? Maybe it was a Sunday and my zipper was open?!??

My dick is already way too big even after my second dick reduction surgery. ? ?

I haven't kept count but I just did a quick, back-of-the-envelope estimate: more than 50 and less than 100.

Buck. Close friends could call me Bucky or Bucker.

I don't recall any bullies in my high school although I was occasionally bullied by a mean, asshole kid in grade school. I didn't realize until years later that the belt marks on his back had something to do with his being a bully. This thread inspired to google him and I found his facebook page. It looks like he's now a grandfather with a wife that wears too much make-up and some cute grandchildren. They're sitting on the front porch of a house that used to be on my paper route. I wonder if he had some psychotherapy along the way.

You have a good point @bostonman. I could have found a better example than "going viral". Your comments are right on point (not to be confused with En Pointe).

Ha! I agree about "curate". I recently heard someone on a home improvement TV show say they we're going to curate their client's closet. Huh?!

County: small town in very rural area Birth decade: 1950s Best looking celebrity guy you've ever seen: Can't remember anyone both famous and good looking except on the stage Favorite Broadway musical: Rent, Book of Mormon and Hedwig & the Angry Inch Favorite sport: Men's figure skating Worst movie you've ever saw: so many, but recently watched Bombshell on Prime (pretty bad). Would you ever consider running for public office?: NO