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Although I've considered myself mostly a bottom, I've never enjoyed what some would call a "hard fuck". I've enjoyed taking dicks of all sizes, as long as he doesn't start vigorously pounding away. Unfortunately, there's the whole "yeah, fuck me harder.. deeper, faster" thing you sometimes see in porno. I suspect that's good in porno for some, but not so good in real life. Also, expecting a orgasm from anal penetration alone is not realistic.

I've been to Paris in September and in February. In September, it was awash with tourist which, for me, makes the city less appealing (still appealing, but less so). But the February trip was entirely different. Loved it (!) in spite of having to wear warm cloths and, on a couple days, some rain gear.

Can't think of specific examples of bad camera work in porn videos, but I know I've seen it! What I find distracting is dubbed vocalizations in lots of BelAmi videos. There's very exaggerated moaning and grunting that doesn't even sound like it's coming from the actors. I visualize a couple of video production guys in a post-filming editing room, grunting and moaning into a microphone, trying (unsuccessfully) to sync their noises to the action.

Thanks! I understand your assessment of Brazil. My couple of trips to Rio de Janeiro were great and I plan to return. Salvador is also on my Brazil bucket-list (but not Sao Paulo). Although I've vacationed in Italy (Florence, Tuscany, Rome, Bologna) it was primarily traditional tourist stuff. Maybe next time I'll investigate venues more gay (whatever that turns out to be). Greece and Buenos Aires have been on my list for quite a while. Maybe time to push them up on the list...

Thanks! I'm always on the look-out for new podcasts to try. There's a few on your list that I'll definitely investigate.

@Danny-Darko, As someone who's always updating his travel bucket list, I'm wondering about your reasons for Israel and Brazil being overrated as Gay Tourist Destinations. I'm also wonder why you think Italy, Greece and Argentina are underrated in this category. I'm not disagreeing with your assessment... just trying to be a smart traveler. Thanks!

I too am eager to return to Montreal but fear I'll be too old by the time Americans are allowed to return and the clubs are safe again. Is there an age when one becomes too old for the Campus and Stock Bar? ❓ ?‍♂️ Mentally and physically I'm primed to go but I do have lots of gray hair.

I agree that the tone of the DRC policies and procedures is somewhat off-putting, but I can understand the policy about letting the dog outside unattended. It's likely that a high energy dog will bark. It will bark at squirrels or neighbors or for any number of reasons. I once had neighbor who let their dog hang out, unattended in their back yard and it drove me berserk with its barking. I've also had friends that had a similar experience with a barking dog next door. Maybe the people at DRC have good reasons for this policy (??). ?‍♂️

I wish I had an interesting answer for this, but I don't. I sort of remember sitting at my computer signing up for the site (probably the HooBoy site). I needed to come up with something unique and easy to remember so I tacked two, easy to remember words together. Who knows? Maybe it was a Sunday and my zipper was open?!??

My dick is already way too big even after my second dick reduction surgery. ? ?

I haven't kept count but I just did a quick, back-of-the-envelope estimate: more than 50 and less than 100.

Buck. Close friends could call me Bucky or Bucker.

I don't recall any bullies in my high school although I was occasionally bullied by a mean, asshole kid in grade school. I didn't realize until years later that the belt marks on his back had something to do with his being a bully. This thread inspired to google him and I found his facebook page. It looks like he's now a grandfather with a wife that wears too much make-up and some cute grandchildren. They're sitting on the front porch of a house that used to be on my paper route. I wonder if he had some psychotherapy along the way.

You have a good point @bostonman. I could have found a better example than "going viral". Your comments are right on point (not to be confused with En Pointe).

Ha! I agree about "curate". I recently heard someone on a home improvement TV show say they we're going to curate their client's closet. Huh?!

County: small town in very rural area Birth decade: 1950s Best looking celebrity guy you've ever seen: Can't remember anyone both famous and good looking except on the stage Favorite Broadway musical: Rent, Book of Mormon and Hedwig & the Angry Inch Favorite sport: Men's figure skating Worst movie you've ever saw: so many, but recently watched Bombshell on Prime (pretty bad). Would you ever consider running for public office?: NO

Seems to me that a lot of commonly used words and phrases listed in this thread are truly useful. They accurately express the user's meaning and are immediately understood by the intended audience. That's a good thing, in my opinion. Example: Someone listed "going viral". This concise phrase is shorthand for a social media phenomenon for which we'd otherwise have to give a lengthy explanation. E.g., We could either say, "Bobbie's latest tweet is rapidly spreading throughout the twitter platform and the larger social media environment by being frequently shared or reposted by an extremely large number of individuals." Or we could say, "Bobbies' tweet is going viral." Please don't make me feel bad about using common, easily understood words and phrases.

How about solving the problem with the hem-like thing by just flipping the top sheet, not rotating it? Hmmm.... That way the hem stays at the top of the bed where it belongs. I'm not as fastidious as your mom (I don't think so anyway) so I don't mind if the top sheet is facing up or down. There's some controversy about what side of the top sheet goes up or down anyhow. One might think the bottom stitching on the hem faces down, but then when you turn down the bed like in a fancy hotel, the stitching would be facing up! God forbid!

If it's a hot summer night and I don't have the air conditioner, I might meander a bit. Otherwise I'm one of those people who occupy just one spot on the bed. I can pretty much tell because the sheets and blankets on the other half remain undisturbed. It might be habit from sharing a bed with my brother when we young. I graduated to my own bed at some point, but it was always a single until I was out of college.

Will the gay village ever return to this?

I was pulling the sheets from my bed this morning and it occurred to me that, rather than change sheets once a week, I could turn them around one week and then fully change them the next week. I sleep on only one side of my queen side bed and never venture over to the other side (and it's been a looooong time since I've had someone else sleeping over there). So the other side of the bed goes virtually untouched. Why not rotate (not flip) the bottom sheet so the left side become the right and the right becomes the left. That way I'm laying on the untouched half of the sheet. I probably just shake the sheet out before putting it back on the bed. I could do the same for the top sheet. Are there downsides to this approach?

Ha! :D

11. A bar with nude male strippers that all want to have wild sex with me as soon as I walk in the door.

You have a point. But my guess is that $$ was a big factor... little hands big money.

There really ARE guys who are primarily attracted to woman but like to mess around with guys from time to time. You don't have to rush to judgement and assume they are gay and in denial. Not everybody conforms to nice, neat sexual orientation classifications.