HuskyC

I was-am a solitary guy. I was a virgin until I was 41. My first time was with an escort (I am very grateful to him for being so patient with me. He even had to teach me how to kiss). After that for years my only outlet was with escorts. I can't remember my first non-escort sex. It's possible it didn't occur until was 47 or so. Prior to that I had  feelings that needed to be satisfied. And those 2 hour meetings were how I accomplished it. 

if you read my blogs and comments throughout this site, you may have figured out that I love to eat my cum and edge for hours, Perhaps I should have said that in the reverse order. Anyway, I am here in Buffalo NY for a visit and had no where to go until noon. So of course I used this opportunity to sit at the desk and get on line and edge for a few hours before going. I was well into a nice edge (about 2.5 hours worth) when housecleaning started knocking at the door. I ignored the knock not wanting to loose the edge I had. I thought that since I had turned the upper lock that whoever was there could not get in. Well, she kept knocking and I kept ignoring until she came in. So cool. I was at the desk and nude and obviously bating and she poked her head in and asked if I needed anything. I just looked over and responded that I was fine as is and she left. I knew that there was some exhibitionist in me, but this event sort of proves to myself that I liked it more that a little, I never stopped stroking thru the exchange with her and certainly was not embarrassed. My cock never lost it's edge, rather, got a little closer proving that my cock liked the "exposure". just a cool moment that helps me understand myself even more that a few moments before. 

I'm still in my late 30's so I can cum easily 4 or 5 times in a day especially if I haven't cum the day before. I also tend to shoot a big load every time as well.

I'm wired exactly the same way.
It's good to hear I'm not alone. I often feel like such an outlier. Sometimes I find it difficult to make providers and even Grindr hook ups understand that just because I've cum ONCE doesn't mean I'm done !  At 53 I'm still good for three loads, over two hours if I'm having a good time. I have that same unfortunate trigger as you...where if get too excited / too fast I can shoot my first load in the first ten minutes.  Fortunately I re-load pretty quickly. Even at my more mature age.  When I was younger and hitting the sex-party scene pretty frequently, I'd manage 6 or 7 ejaculations on a fun night. My record was 8 at a particularly hot gang bang years ago. 

Lol. #1 It was quite a few years ago before the gray hair...and I just let him suck me off...so i suppose the turn-on was the celebrity quality.

Exactly.
Point being that I know years ago...that Equinox used to be pretty active in the steam room. I've had more than one B.J. there.
( By the way....Alan likes to swallow ) 😋

Alan Cumming sucked me off at the Equinox on Greenwich Ave.  (But that was many years ago when I had a membership before today's ridiculous price structure.)

When I was in my mid to late 20s I was living in NYC on a shoe-string budget. I was often invited out by older (40s to 50s) wealthy gentlemen. Many of whom I learned a lot about navigating NYC financially, through investing & social connections. They were all very pleasant, charming fellows and very kind to me. But I had absolutely ZERO physical attraction to any of them.
After a few drinks I would sometimes let one of them suck my cock and pump a load down their throat. But they had to remain clothed and never attempt any other sexual contact. I didn't want them pulling out their own cock or trying to kiss me . They needed to get-off later while jerking off and remembering their special moment with me unloading in their mouth.
There was an inherent turn-on inside the desperation of a wealthy gentleman to pleasure me, worship my body, and swallow my load, all while denying themselves any simultaneous pleasure.
If they had gotten naked or pulled out their dick I would have immediately lost the moment and immediately lost my erection. I admire providers who can find the headspace to overlook the blobs of fat, shriveled balls and general disgust of some customer's bodies.
I would have never been able to do it.

Unfortunate that the nude pic is AI. Or if it isn’t, then that was an unnecessary enhancement of the image with the drops of precum…

I’ve been a long time fan of Cade’s - always loved him in sciences but especially when he put on size.  I met him in New Orleans and he took my breath away! thanks for the beautiful image of ALL of his muscles!

Wowsa Buffalo David Bitton pecs...
 

I don't understand why people can't keep their feelings out of basic cognitive realities.
Luigi Mangione is indeed a good looking young man.  *FACT*
You aren't condoning his assassination of an insurance executive by acknowledging that.
 

Just remember 'some body worship' in your massage session may be either off-limits (might be considered outside the parameters of 'mutual touching') or charged an extra fee. I've had guys tell me both of these 'reminders' in a very polite way. I confess, I should have asked before the appointment got started. 
Then again, there are those who encourage it and are somewhat disappointed if you don't take advantage of their bodies. I remember one provider who I met for the first time this summer told me at the start of the appointment that mutual touching is allowed, 'and by that I mean you can touch every part of my body with your hands or your mouth - whatever you prefer'.  It made an incredible session. 
So ask up front when you make the appointment. 

I know that "best body" is subjective - and sorry if I missed a thread on this - but just as we have a thread on the most hung guys, I wonder who people would nominate for best body?  I like to get into some body worship during my session, and wonder who I should add to my list for that.  I am not into the huge roid-y body builder types, but do like toned, muscular and cut guys who enjoy posing and showing off.
I've seen Bruno before, and he's one of the best bodies I've been with. And his pics are updated and accurate.
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Happy to hear your thoughts...  

Oh my god, NYCMan is a shit stirrer? Who knew??

I went to the Adonis NYC event on Wednesday.  There was a mix of body types, mostly muscular.  No twinks.  It is mostly Latin men.
I had 3 private dances.  My best and longest dance was with the dancer who also looked the hottest to me: light skin Brazilian, lean body, defined muscles, wore a very complimentary yet skimpy string thong.  Narrow waist, nice ass, perfect torso.  He was the perfect dancer and very polite.  Don't ask me his name because I don't remember names.

I have hired several guys together, i usually ask my regular provider to reach out to the other escort or masseur to see if they are interested in the type of appointment I’m looking for. But if i hired them before I’ll ask them both separately to see if they’d have interest in working me together. 
 
I find that when I have my regular provider ask, the other escort they don’t ask for a double fee for both me and the other escort/masseur…but sometimes when I message them on my own and I don’t know them already a few times they have given a higher rate because it’s two guys. Or is the escort identifies as  straight they have asked for double fee for two guys.  
so maybe try having your regular ask the other escort you’re interested in, if the new guy is attracted to your regular usually they won’t charge a higher price. 

I have done it a few times, I usually start by asking the provider if they offer it, and personally I like to choose the guys.. I don’t usually like going to couples cause I’m never interested in them both personally, I’ve done it once and was not the best..
 
recently I hired two guys both of which I’ve gone to separately and just thought it would be hot to get them together, they both massaged me and I got to watch them massage eachother. It was very hot maybe out of reach for some guys budget wise but was a fantasy of mine and would definitely do it again.. but the most important thing was having two guys that I was equally interested in.
 
DM if u want more details 

I remember the one of first times I hired an escort I was sucking his cock and he asked if I wanted to swallow his load, I had never done it before and normally turned off by the idea but this guy was so hot I said yes.. and he shot his milky load down my throat.. my first instinct was to spit it out but he forced me to swallow it and the whole interaction is what made it hot for me.. but now I’d say I’m not an avid swallower but I do enjoy seeing a guy cumming from his cock and sucking it as he’s cumming so tasting it a bit I guess. 

Oh, and YES he is awesome at the mix up of Tough to Tender, Rough to Romantic.   If you need him to tilt in a direction he'll go there.  But do consider letting him try to expand your limits even if just a little.  You will NOT forget the thrill... 
 
oh!  and here's the pic!  it worked!