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Saw him a few months ago. Very very kind and sensual, but rushed through the massage to the HE and was finished in 45 mins when agreed to 90. 

Saw him a few months ago. Very very kind and sensual, but rushed through the massage to the HE and was finished in 45 mins when agreed to 90. 

Met w/ Troy today and could not recommend more. Gorgeous, skilled and gifted. And back to gorgeous. Will be repeating.

Met w/ Troy today and could not recommend more. Gorgeous, skilled and gifted. And back to gorgeous. Will be repeating.

Have been watching him for a while and had a feeling I needed to hear about him here before trusting the reviews. Thanks for the info!

So the main masseur, Ben is based in Toronto - absolutely amazing massage, extras available to those with membership. Was hooked before things got further locked down and felt riskier to meet anyone. He’s a smart guy, “retired” professional hence the great website etc. I vouch for the amazing massage on its own and the extras. Super hot and nice guy.
 
Haven’t tried the LA services.

Saw him about a year ago. Never repeated. Too much talking about himself and his greatness, along with his theories/conspiracy theories which didn’t really lend itself to a relaxing massage. 
 
mechanical ending, felt forced. 

Have met up with him twice and will hire every time I’m back in town. He’s quiet… almost has a shy quality, but yet his actions aren’t shy at all. Exceptionally sensual and passionate. Can’t wait to see him again. 

Have met up with him twice and will hire every time I’m back in town. He’s quiet… almost has a shy quality, but yet his actions aren’t shy at all. Exceptionally sensual and passionate. Can’t wait to see him again. 

Saw him a few months ago. Very very kind and sensual, but rushed through the massage to the HE and was finished in 45 mins when agreed to 90. 

Have met up with him twice and will hire every time I’m back in town. He’s quiet… almost has a shy quality, but yet his actions aren’t shy at all. Exceptionally sensual and passionate. Can’t wait to see him again. 

Tried to connect with him a couple months ago and had an odd experience. He was requesting I disclose what other providers I’d previously met with so he could prove I was legit. I felt weird about that but got permission from one of my previous regulars to give his name (to me discretion goes both ways), so I did. Marc seemed satisfied with that and we negotiated a time for the outcall. 
 
The next day he reached out to reschedule me to a different time to be able to fit in another client and I just felt the whole situation felt off and declined to move ahead. It seemed while travelling he was packing clients in pretty tightly. 

So the main masseur, Ben is based in Toronto - absolutely amazing massage, extras available to those with membership. Was hooked before things got further locked down and felt riskier to meet anyone. He’s a smart guy, “retired” professional hence the great website etc. I vouch for the amazing massage on its own and the extras. Super hot and nice guy.
 
Haven’t tried the LA services.

Here's a working link (the parenthesis and question mark invalidated your link): https://rentmen.eu/AaronLV

Especially not him...??‍♂️

I couldn’t be more a fan of Mac if I tried. It baffles me that he’s never been discussed here. Amazing massage, very hot and kind young man. I’ve repeated more times than I care to admit.

Between this and the recent thread on Matheus in Toronto... it seems Toronto has a fake review problem. Someone’s taking advantage of our trusting Canadian nature.

I’m married, generally happily, but definitely lacking in the intimacy department. I thought hiring was the fool proof, drama free method - pay a fee, know what to expect - no rejection or disappointment. Unfortunately as I’ve learned (and I’m sure countless others have as well), it’s not fool proof. When it works it’s great, but you can still experience disappointment and rejection.

I guess it depends on your opinion of “hot”. I’ve been 3 times in the past 6 months and have only encountered one dancer I found attractive (I go for the athletic jock look) and even he wasn’t very fit and was a hustler in the VIP area. All the others appear to be on substances and/or hustling to pay the rent. Definitely not a high quality crowd compared to a quality escort or masseur, or what you hear of in Montreal.
 
Just my opinion. YMMV.

My apologies if I've missed previous posts on the same subject... but is anyone familiar with Adonis Spa in Toronto: http://adonisspa.ca/
 
Any reviews would be appreciated!

I agree! Despite the “distress” that caused me to start this thread, hearing others’ experiences has been empowering. Especially hearing that I’m not the only one to have this happen, that sometimes ghosting isn’t forever, and that there’s so much else that could be at play in his world has helped me find some peace.
 
The most important shift over the past couple days has been coming to terms that whether something about our interactions contributed to the disappearance or not, I didn’t actually do anything to cause this to happen. Clearly there is something else going on with him and it could have zero to do with me, or I could have been a trigger - but I’m def didn’t do anything wrong to him.
 
So over time I will get over it. I know I’ll miss him as a person, and our moments together a great deal. It won’t be easy to forget. And I’ll always have it nagging at me, wanting to ensure he’s doing okay and hoping that he doesn’t harbour any ill will. And I hope he knows he made a difference.
 
I don’t think I will hire again after this outcome. But it’s still fresh. We’ll see what time brings.
 
Thanks all.

I agree! Despite the “distress” that caused me to start this thread, hearing others’ experiences has been empowering. Especially hearing that I’m not the only one to have this happen, that sometimes ghosting isn’t forever, and that there’s so much else that could be at play in his world has helped me find some peace.
 
The most important shift over the past couple days has been coming to terms that whether something about our interactions contributed to the disappearance or not, I didn’t actually do anything to cause this to happen. Clearly there is something else going on with him and it could have zero to do with me, or I could have been a trigger - but I’m def didn’t do anything wrong to him.
 
So over time I will get over it. I know I’ll miss him as a person, and our moments together a great deal. It won’t be easy to forget. And I’ll always have it nagging at me, wanting to ensure he’s doing okay and hoping that he doesn’t harbour any ill will. And I hope he knows he made a difference.
 
I don’t think I will hire again after this outcome. But it’s still fresh. We’ll see what time brings.
 
Thanks all.

What the hell do you mean by calling us "harsh?" When the hell is this board harsh? Huh? When? Give us an example!!
 
Just kidding.
 

 
While I am not criticizing you for tipping/gifting and booking multi-hour appointments, you deserve to be treated nicely whether you book one-hour sessions and always pay the stated rate and not a penny more or you do as you have done. On the other hand, no need to feel bad about doing so.
 

 
I'm on the fence about hiring an escort to be a trainer as well as being a playmate. I also don't believe doing so caused the next set of behaviors to occur.
 

 
I also do not believe great "customer relationship management" and "being genuine when one does so" are mutually exclusive.
 

 
Well, that certainly sucks. While there is a decent probability that this behavior is a result of too many sessions within too short of a time, there is an equally decent probability that something else is going on. That "something else" might well be completely unrelated to you.
 

 
Nothing you said indicates you broke any cardinal rules of not becoming attached. It does not sound like to fell in love with him nor does it sound like you were trying to maintain an exclusive relationship with him. To me, it sounds like you are disappointed that someone you enjoy spending time with has abruptly ceased contact. As @nycman said, this shows you are human.
 

 
I have not been ghosted by an escort. Guys have explained why they would not be able to see me, but not just ceased contact. I also don't think this is "common," but not having studied a broad sample of escorts it is impossible to say whether it is or is not.
 

 
Not being or knowing the escort, it is impossible to give insight into his psyche. However, it is entirely possible one of the following has occurred:

Something is going on his life that makes it difficult or impossible to spend time with you and he doesn't know how/doesn't have the bandwidth to say so.
He is experiencing feelings of some kind that have caused him to decide he can't see you and at the same time he is not able to say this to you.
He is overwhelmed by something and isn't in a place where he can tell you for reasons completely unrelated to you


 
Stop beating yourself up!!
 
Whoops, was being harsh again.

My friend, I have a good feeling about you. I think you definitely have the right attitude. You made a mistake that I may make in the future despite all my experience and the fact that I have made it several times in the past. You will recover and will have a lot of fun. I hope so and I think so.

I have really enjoyed reading so many thoughtful and supportive replies to this thread by @cautious.
 
For me, I would say, you did nothing wrong. I wouldn't even think of it as a "mistake." You were authentically you. Yes, you may have "crossed a line" with an escort, but this experience has offered you an opportunity to learn something about yourself, this "hobby," and how you want to react and move forward.
 
You may never know why he stopped communicating and honestly, it does not matter. It's your reactions, emotions, thoughts, and actions that matter. Take care of yourself. Lick your wounds. Heal. Learn. Grow. You sound like a sensitive thoughtful guy. I'm sure you'll be fine and have plenty of fun interesting future experiences.