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  1. Oh, just to be clear, pictures alone have to be hot to get me hard, but in real life, a man's hand rubbing my thigh or a stubbly face blowing hot breath on my neck and I am ready to grab the two man saw and start pulling.
  2. As far as I am concerned, these lumbersexuals just do not bring the wood. I am stumped as usually one of these threads usually leaves me with a log but this time, no timber.
  3. 16 and 62 Liked the way you alternated every other as furry and fur wearing.
  4. Quebec City is beautiful but it does not have the same level of gay nightlife as Toronto and Montreal. I would vote for Montreal for the nightlife.
  5. #5 Vin Marco has been a favorite. But 9 and 39 are intriguing.
  6. One will be on the east coast and the other the west but they will not be apart.
  7. In training.
  8. What was ground breaking then, will be dated and unfunny now unless they update and upgrade the comedy. The character of Jack needs a bit of depth, as the old caricature of the flighty, feminine,promiscuous gay may have worked as 20 something in the 90s and early 200os but will not work with a 40 something in the teens. His self involvement and unawareness of the needs of others around him has comedic potential but it has been done, so there needs to be a fresh point of view if it is going to work. The Karen character is a selfish, substance abuser and rich bitch played for laughs. Political contrast might work well with that character in the age of trump but again, a rich drunk and pill popper may have worked in the old show, but I do not think that it works for a character in her 40s. It seems desperate and sad. Will was desperately seeking love and was safely gay, in that he rarely had any sexual story lines and if he did, the action took place off screen. He was more of a sidekick to Jack and Grace than he was a funny and integral character in the show. He either needs to be funnier or sexier, preferably both. Grace was self involved and oblivious when played off of Will and in that way she resembled Jack. Played against Karen, she was the straight woman. This gave her some variation in her character and in the old show, they managed to make those two different aspects of her character work, to a reasonable degree. Now that she is older and presumably wiser, the character needs to be a bit smarter, yet maintain naivety. Rosario, the maid with a purse full of pills for Karen, who was married to Jack to stay in the country was always revealing surprising things about herself and for me she was the character that had the most laughs per minute of screen time. Shelley Morrison, the actress who plays Rosario is elderly and has had cancer. I would love to see her back, but if she does not return, they definitely need a similar character who can keep Karen in line. Clearly I have given much too much thought about this. My guess is, the characters are dated and the comedy is trite, they run out the 10 shows and are not heard from again.
  9. A very hot man and some great photos. It did raise the issue in my mind, why many of the nude photos posted by escorts are taken in the bathroom. Now I understand why selfies might be taken there, as the bathroom usually has the best mirror for such photos. Is it the lighting in the bathroom? Is it that the bathroom is a frequent place to be naked? Is there some other explanation?
  10. When my wife was alive, we tried to have children. Soon after we started, she was diagnosed with cancer. After an initial remission, we were given the go ahead from her doctor to try again. Unfortunately, the radiation and chemotherapy had put her into a very early menopause. After consulting many specialists, we found one who was able to reverse her menopause. However through all the injections and other hormones, she did not produce enough viable eggs for harvesting and then the cancer returned. After her death, I thought that it was lucky that we had not been able to have children, as it seemed to me a man alone, in his late 40's would have been stretched to the limit to raise a child alone. I have been comfortable in that thought, but in reading of you and your sons, I think that perhaps I could have done it. Well the road not taken is always an unknown and there is no point of what ifs. Though as a result, I have given a great deal of thought to the sacrifices I would have had to have made in order to be a single parent. I do not know if I would have had the energy, dedication and emotional strength to do such an all consuming job. I commend you for doing that very difficult job with great success. While you will never stop being father to your sons, you also have an obligation to live your most satisfying life. I wish you as great a success being a single gay man in his forties as you had being a single father of three sons. I have no doubts that will be the case.
  11. Skye Woods was an interesting hire. When I hired him he was very muscular and large. He said he was straight, but he bottomed with relish and enjoyed all aspects of sex. The next time I saw him, he had gained quite a bit of weight, was into wearing panties and fishnet stockings and seemed to just want to to get fucked as much as he could. I went to hire him one more time and he had found a sugar daddy but a few weeks later he was advertising again. This was several years ago and I have not contacted him since.
  12. Congratulations to your sons on their academic success and their love for each other and you. I expect that it will be a major transition for you and that it will be a difficult one. I hope you have some good friends or relatives to help fill the void that will be created with their absence. Depending on where you live and you expectations regarding being more open about your sexuality, it may be a great time to get involved with some gay organizations in your area. There are gay basketball and softball leagues which may be a way of meeting people in a non-sexually charged environment. But for now, enjoy the time you have left with the boys. They are still boys, smart, athletic and mature boys, but boys just the sam, but they will be men the first time they return on a college break. Of course, men need their Dads as much as boys do, because that never changes.
  13. As I said previously, I have not seen him in quite awhile, but those pictures resemble the old him enough for me to state that they are indeed him. Only one that is a surprise is the veiny forearms. He definitely has been working on the body, but some things like the shape of the pecs and nips are definitely his,
  14. I have no difficulty with Shkreli being stopped from speaking. To my mind, there is nothing redeeming about his handling of drug pricing and I would afford him no courtesy. . As to the Breitbart commentator, Milo Yiannopoulos, I believe he should have been allowed to speak and then questioned firmly about his organization. This is still a free country and differences of opinion should be given the opportunity to be heard and then thoroughly questioned. I am sure he came to speak with the expectation that he would be speaking to a mostly hostile audience. Stopping him from speaking gave him an easy way out and also gave the protestors an easy way of silencing him when what they should have been able to do is refute him.
  15. Beautiful but lost soul and a sharp mind.
  16. No his does not. He has been out of porn and out of escorting for years. Just a regular Joe in Florida somewhere, last I heard.
  17. I do not watch very much porn so I have hired men not knowing they were porn "stars". In fact, I have found names among the many here names who I have hired, who have done porin and I did not realize it. One name which was not mentioned at all and a man who I found extremely handsome is Parker Williams. The first time I met Parker, he wanted to know if I wanted an autograph and I asked why I would and he told me many of his clients wanted different items signed. I did go back and look at some of his work and while he was great on film, he was much better looking in person. He has a magnetic look and a wonderful presence. So besides Parker Williams The ones with an asterisk I had no idea they did porn until later *Rod Roddick *Talvin DeMacchio *Davidsf more an internet video man *Andrew Miller Andrew Justice *Rick Hammersmith *Nick German *Vin Marco *Tristan Baldwin *Vince Ferrelli *Matt Majors *Aaron Mark *Mike Gaite Jeremy Walker Well those are the 15 who comes to mind. That there are others that do not come to mind reflects on my memory of the encounters being faulty or the encounters themselves being faulty.
  18. Year of the Curmudgeon, it transcends all threads
  19. Though his Range Rover was destroyed in a three car accident. David Spade is doing well in a Las Angeles Hospital. His career, however, is still dead.
  20. So what are you baron? As a tennisjock, perhaps you will be baron some muscular legs.
  21. Can I do some sort of time warp threeway with the old and the new?
  22. There are some tops out there, who, when the moon is right and the angle is tempting, have room for dick in the ass. Clearly, it depends on the angle of the dangle and the shape of the moon. There are also some who will just go with the flow
  23. There are some thing in life they we share with only one other person. That your sons maintain that special bond, yet do not flaunt it in from of others they love is a beautiful tribute to their relationship with each other and with the other family members.
  24. In reading the first post, it is not clear to me that there was definitely an invasion of privacy. Privacy standards differ in different relationships and even differ from partner to partner in the same relationship. It is not clear that the mail was inappropriately opened, The description of the tour through the luggage did not say whether the bags were inspected surreptitiously or with both partners present. When my wife was alive, I never opened her mail as I was not that curious but she frequently opened my mail and either took care of what needed to be done or told me that something needed to be handled. Her opening of my mail would not have been an invasion of privacy, just the standard for our relationships. I do not recall having a discussion which set those ground rules but after many years together, the rules kind of make themselves.
  25. Put me in the group supporting professional assistance. I think trying to see this from your husband's point of view may be helpful. The two of you have stopped having physical contact for years. From your statement, he seems to have told you that the two of you were "too old". Perhaps he was looking for reassurance that this was not the case. Perhaps he wanted you to convince him that you were not too old. Perhaps he needed to hear that the fire of your love still burned and that you wanted and needed physical contact with him. Perhaps he was feeling insecure and unattractive. And then years past. You both fell into a rut. Perhaps he started to truly believe that you both were "too old". The lack of sexual contact made him feel as though you two while no longer sexual beings were still partners who would grow old together, loving each other chastely but loving each other. Now he discovers that you have opted to have sex with someone else. That may have confirmed to him that you did not find him attractive. It may have confirmed to him that indeed he was too old for you. He may have needed reassurance and seduction and what he got was a husband who slipped away one weekend and fucked who knows who for who knows how long. He may be humiliated and depressed and forsaken and unloved and certainly angry. Angry with you for confirming his worst fears about himself and angry at himself for not being the man he needed to be for you. Clearly this is all speculation on my part, but you know him. Think of him. What is it he wants from you. An apology? A reassurance? A seduction? A long hug and some time of intimacy? He may not know, but after 36 years, you should know what he needs. Give it to him. Show him that you understand and that you are sorry it had to come to such a dramatic point before you realized that you both needed to give more. Forgive him for his anger and his threats. He will then be able to forgive you for confirming his worst fears about himself and his marriage. Then perhaps you both can move forward with a better understanding and a clearer idea of the kind of relationship you both need. Be prepared, it may not be a marriage. Do all this but you both will need to do more and you both need a guide to help steer you through this.
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