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Thanks for the information David, I hope the effect of these donations ripple out and touch many other lives

David I know you will be offering to the family all you can in emotional support and no doubt support in other more tangible ways. Is there any way we here at the forum can help as well. Is there a charity to which a contribution would be a comfort to the family. I believe Ian lived in Rhode Island and having lived there myself, I know there are many worthy organizations, but if you could suggest one or two, I am sure there are many here who would like to tip the hat to Ian as he walks past us into his new being. This life may have ended but good works in his name will keep him alive in spirit.

If a senior is considering doing drag for the first time: Gerri Atric If you got a cure for what pains me: Anna Gelsia And of course the eternal virgin Cela Bate And the one that has had her ups and downs Ella Vator Skinny Willa DaWisp Fat Obeah City

I write checks all the time. Home repair guys, landscaper, gifts and even the occasional escort. It is easier when traveling not to have to carry enough cash to cover an overnight or two. Of course the only ones who will take a check are guys I know well and have seen multiple times. I would think for traveling escorts, checks from a reliable source would cut down on the amount of cash they have to carry. In any case, check me off in the check column. Check.

During an encounter the only bites you want are those from your partner. Wearing white clothing will make bed bugs easier to see. If you are really worried about it, you can try wearing old clothing to a meet and carry fresh clothing in a sealed bag. A shower and a change of clothing with the old clothes going into the plastic bag after the encounter will minimize risk. Don't forget shoes and socks. You can then either throw out the clothes or empty them immediately into a dryer and keep them in there for 30 to 60 minutes. I work with indigent people and some come to the recreation center with bed bugs and they need to be isolated and quarantined from the center. It takes at least three weeks to get rid of the critters and it may require getting rid of heavily infested furniture, rugs and mattresses.

Well admiration and recognition are not the same. I recognize your posts but as far as admiration of the ones on this thread....not so much. I find them short sighted and rather ignorant. Post away, I have dinner to prepare. Dismal.

History happens, arrogance dismisses entire civilizations. What you stated: "I don't know what kind of civilization it is where people practice human sacrifice and cannibalism." Avalon. By the way, some might say that a civilization that developed superior weaponry was not all that civilized.

While that is true, there is nothing particular heroic or admirable about it and certainly demeaning an entire civilization by some of its worst traits, such as human sacrifice, is rather narrow viewed.

Your arrogance is totally Eurocentric. Learn something about the cultures of the indigenous populations of the Americas and compare that to the fiefdoms and egalitarian civilization of Europe and perhaps you may not feel that Europe was so superior.

Columbus was only part of whole cavalcade of explorers and sailors who set off to explore the world. He brought back information about the new world, but he alone is not responsible for opening up the new world and most now believe that the thought of colonization is a symbol of suppression not of success. Surely the world would be different if it were not for colonization. I suggest it would be almost exactly the same without Columbus.

It does sound as though you may have had a manic episode with all the traveling and spending and the hypersexuality. All of that is symptomatic of a deeper issue which is best treated with therapy, which you are already seeking and medication, which is likely to be a recommendation of the therapist. If you have the wherewithal to get back home and start living you new life, you should do that. You do not need the perfect therapist, you just need a therapist to get you started while you look for the perfect therapist. Saying that you need the perfect therapist assumes that there is such a thing and anything less is not worthwhile. Start moving in the right direction rather than spinning out of control. That is the best next step.

To him or the world?

Rumor has it he was shooting for 300 pounds and that he weighed 317 at his death. That most certainly played a role in his passing, not the weight, the substances likely used to get there.

I knew a girl named Rita who seemed to make even the impossible seem quite easy.

He and I have a very close relationship because I have been losing things and Anthony has been finding them for decades now.

I just usually pray to St. Jude....patron saint of lost causes or St. Anthony....patron saint of lost things returned.

"Thanks, I will consider that"

I think I made two reservations at Canyon Club just as I was leaving. Just left the deposit. It was their usual rate. If I did, and if you are interested I will check, then you may have the second one if that helps.

Rather than asking what the escort is willing to do, it seems more efficient is the client say something to the effect: I really love ass play, nip torture, cock and ball torture, restraints and food. Anything there you can't provide? Oh yes, I always ask about kissing because I love to kiss and even if the guy will let me strap him down and fuck his face with a cucumber, if he doesn't kiss we don't connect

How about Sexual Human.

Is that par for you?

I use Norco Chicken and Rice. One can for each dog and then one cup of the same product as a dry. I usually microwave a chicken breast and they each get 1/3 of a breast a night. Few treats. I have had large dogs and I have been lucky enough to have 7 or the 9 live into the teen years. Right now I have two labs that are 12 and a pit mix that is 3. They are all doing well. All rescues I might add. I hope your local pet store is not selling puppy mill puppies. If not, I agree that local pet stores are great fun especially if they have a large number of fish tanks.

Not really bald, just no hair grows on top of my head. It seems to grow everywhere else but my eyes and teeth.

Today was a pretty ordinary day. I got up went to work and went about my day to day activities. Then about 1:25 or so, a business associate I had met about 10 minutes earlier, stopped in the middle of the conversation we were having and said: "Do you mind if I tell you something and I hope you do not take it personally" At this point, I knew right where this was going and just sort of sighed and waited for the inevitable. The only question was how difficult was it going to be this time not to take something personally that was absolutely going to be personal. At least this time I was given warning that it was coming rather than a shot out of the blue. Before I could even say: "i would rather you didn't" or perhaps"Sure we've known each other for 10 minutes so it seems that this is the perfect time to get personal" he just said it. "You know, I really think you should think about losing some weight". Now I am a big man, but I do not consider myself ginormous or even huuuuge. I am fat, no doubt about it and I am reminded by my body on a regular basis that the case is that I am fat and that I should really lose some weight. I do not enjoy being fat. I am fat as a result of genetics, bad eating habits, lack of exercise, poor food choices and probably a cavalcade of other reasons. All told, I have probably lost 3 or 4 tons over my lifetime. I have had considerable weight loss and have gotten to the point where I have heard: I think you need to put back a little weight. Honestly, that seemed as inappropriate as the thousands of times people have mentioned my excess weight. I have kept that weight off for months even years at a time. I am as conscious of my weight when I am relatively thin as I am when I am at a peak because I was a fat preteen and once you are fat kid you are a fat kid all your life. I am just fat enough so that people are not ashamed of noticing that I am fat. I have never reached the level of fat that causes most people to be silent about it. Well silent about it to your face but snickering and cruel about it behind your ample back. No, I am the kind of fat that people assume has a thick skin to hold all that fat in. The kind of fat you cringe about when you see someone my size come in your direction on an airplane or movie theater. The kind of fat that people can bring up in casual conversation without ever considering if it is appropriate or not. I am the kind of fat that brings remarks at buffets. Suggestions to try to the diet menu at lunch. The kind of fat that has people bringing it up because they are "concerned about your health". The kind of fat that generates no empathy when you mention that you had to work through lunch for the fourth day in a row. I suppose the assumption is that I was probably troughing it up from my stash of high calorie snacks stuffed in the bottom desk drawer. (Just for clarity, I have a bottom desk drawer, it has files in it. Very 1970's. Now these sound bits of healthy advice may sound noble. Helpful hints from strangers and family alike that, if adhered to strictly. would change my life, life expectancy and reduce my life insurance payments. But honestly it gets old. I am a big fat old man and I am smart enough to know it. So "thanks I will consider that" is not longer my polite answer. My new polite answer is: " I am a big fat old man and smart enough to know it without you telling me. So any other news flashes before we continue. Oh by the way I am bald too in case you feel a need to discuss that." So, I know this is not the worst kind of daily insult people have to endure. I know the sneers, sidelong glances and pithy thoughtless remarks are nothing in comparison to the daily hate other have to fight. I would only suggest, the next time you start a sentence with: "Would you mind if I told you something... " the next line should be something like..."you have a great smile" or it should be silence.

The undisputed #1 answer to the question What makes a kiss passionate? ME.