BJNYC
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BJNYC got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Eddiemanhattan - NYC
He’s more of an escort than a masseur. Which explains his rates.
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BJNYC got a reaction from tennisjock in Luke in Austin
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44282/
Anybody have an experience with this new guy in Austin?
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BJNYC got a reaction from Wanderoz in Luke in Austin
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44282/
Anybody have an experience with this new guy in Austin?
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BJNYC reacted to BaronArtz in NYC's Finest in 2021 - Manhattan
Encouraged by the comments on this forum, I did visit alex.blessings this afternoon.
Blessings, Male Male Massage in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com)
A studio with breath taking views of midtown and the Hudson River from the 64th floor. From the moment he put his hands on my shoulders, I knew I came to the right place. The experience was a blend of solid massage technique, gentle stretching and true eroticism. It is rare to meet someone who truly understands the male body. Blessings DOES.
I felt transported to my very first gay experiences in Thailand, 30 years ago.
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BJNYC reacted to JckBNimble in Spas in NYC
I would strongly suggest Ivan or Norik at New Paradise. Both good looking white dudes with strong hands and attention to detail. Enjoy!
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BJNYC reacted to Sohomiami in New Paradise Spa NYC
I agree with you Aa11aa. Ivan massage was amazing...
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BJNYC got a reaction from Marc in Calif in HealingForestLMT
It was on one of the apps. Maybe grindr or scruff. He stated it clearly. He was advertising his massage business on there. It sounded like all of the vaccination questions from potential clients had gotten his pissed off so he started saying unvaccinated only.
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BJNYC got a reaction from Sixpack in New Paradise Spa NYC
I agree about Ivan. He is kind of quiet and on the reserved side but he is very professional and gives a great massage, which can be rare at a lot of these mens spas.
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BJNYC reacted to mcskill in New Paradise Spa NYC
If I don’t like masseurs to focus on my inner thigh, I will let them know. I don’t think I could claim I had been violated though. Based on what is being discussed, I think Ivan is doing things within his job descriptions (and legal boundaries). If client starts making an inappropriate move claiming Ivan led him on, and Ivan turned the client down. Then it’s a misunderstanding and that’s his right to say no.
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BJNYC reacted to Lohengrin1979 in New Paradise Spa NYC
The OP didn't feel weirded out. He felt misled because the provider was massaging on the inner thighs a lot then rejected his physical advance.
The provider is allowed to provide a sensual massage without wanting to be groped by a client. He wasn't giving a hand job to the client, He was providing sensual touch and establishing his boundaries. He'd allowed to do that. It's his business
If the OP doesn't like it, fine. But I'm not convinced it was deceptive on the part of the masseur.
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BJNYC reacted to Lohengrin1979 in New Paradise Spa NYC
It's the masseurs prerogative as to whether he wants to be touched. He can provide an HE without being touched by the client. What next? Will you suggest this provider Ivan shouldn't dress a certain way?
I've had masseurs "make a move" when all I wanted was a massage and I shut it down too, even though I was nude on the table. Boundaries, gentleman, boundaries.
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BJNYC reacted to JckBNimble in New Paradise Spa NYC
I've always been a fan of Ivan's. Hardly a "clown." He's a very good masseur and if he wants to offer someone any varying degree of extras, it should never be expected. He may not want certain clients to touch him or may have specific limits with what he's comfortable with depending on the client. It's totally up to him, and then it's totally up to you to decide how you want to react to that and you can reflect that interaction in your tip. On some occasions my masseur will tease me til I take things into my own hands. Others are more interactive, sure, but it is their place of business after all.
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BJNYC reacted to Aa11aa in New Paradise Spa NYC
Not trying to invalidate your experience at NP with Ivan, but I’ve found that he’s one of the better providers there now and he always delivers above and beyond for me. I should say the first time I saw him he was a bit quiet/aloof at the start (maybe that’s what you experienced?) but massage skills were pretty good. Every visit after has been excellent
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BJNYC got a reaction from Penn7 in HealingForestLMT
He advertises that he works with “unvaccinated only”.
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BJNYC got a reaction from EastbayMike in HealingForestLMT
He advertises that he works with “unvaccinated only”.
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BJNYC got a reaction from Redwine56 in HealingForestLMT
He advertises that he works with “unvaccinated only”.
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BJNYC got a reaction from Isik1476 in HealingForestLMT
He advertises that he works with “unvaccinated only”.
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BJNYC reacted to HornyLatinBi in 411 on MeltInMyHands NYC (Michael)
I am trying to be respectful and delicate here, but
Let's just say I was aggress hounded in a very unwelcomed way
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BJNYC reacted to Beef-a-roni in NYC's Finest in 2021 - Manhattan
I had a session with @Alex.Blessingsyesterday and can honestly say it was the best massage I’ve ever had.
He was so warm, inviting and incredibly kind (and also incredibly cute too, which was just a huge added bonus)
He checked in with me often asking if I needed additional attention anywhere and I felt completely at ease.
I caught myself drifting to sleep a few times with how comfortable and relaxed I was.
I can’t give enough praise for him for his skills and how he made me feel before, during and after.
And since he lives so close to me, I see myself splurging on a session more often than I care to admit 😝😝
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BJNYC reacted to MmM in NYC's Finest in 2021 - Manhattan
I remember him. Handsome and nice guy who gave a good massage. Had a good encounter with him. Sadly, he retired shortly after.
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BJNYC reacted to Marcjr69er in NYC's Finest in 2021 - Manhattan
In 2021 definitely by far, above and beyond I will have to say that blessings @Alex.Blessingsis the best not only in 2021 but of all time https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings
His overall aura and personality matched with his warm smile, excellent massage skills and techniques with an athletic sexy body and the immaculate view from his penthouse apartment is the total package and by far the best. I have tried many over the years but I have found my perfect masseur for life and I encourage anyone who hasn’t tried him to give him a try.. you can never be disappointed.