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I’ve never fallen in love with an escort, but I have fallen in lust.

Thanks for the info. I haven’t seen much about him, but he looks like the type of guy I would like to hire for a session. And we all know you can’t trust the reviews on rentmasseur.

I definitely like to chat, if they’re not interested in a little small talk, I feel like it’s just a transaction. Having a little conversation to me is just being kind to one another. One provider that I really enjoyed, said that he likes to get to know his clients and likes to chat over a beer or two before getting into the main event. So when he came to my apartment, we had a couple beers and then got into the fun part. And after, he stayed a little while longer, had another beer and chatted with me naked before leaving. I paid for an hour, but he was there for an extra 20 minutes, and it felt more like a friend with benefits type situation than a business dealing. When I’ve hired massage therapists, I discuss with them my physical problems, aches and pains, so they can work on that before the massage. And we still talk about whatever comes to mind. I went to one message therapist who really didn’t want to talk much, was a terrible conversationalist and I would never hire him again.

Good idea, thanks!

Sexy guy, and a great personality to boot! He has some newer pictures in his profile.

It depends on the provider and what they can get. My next provider who I’d like to see asks around that much, but he has rave reviews and everyone on here says he’s worth every penny. I live in NYC and there are many who ask for less, in the $150-180 range. It’s probably the same where you are in California.

His attitude was definitely “You need me more than I need you,” in both his communication and his attitude during the session. Still, I thought he might be worth a try because we had fun anonymously before we actually met.

I had already put the cash in an envelope before I got there and then there was no discreet way to take it out, and I didn’t know what time it was until I walked out his door. I had read previous threads about this provider which are locked because they date from 2018, and the client wrote that he experienced the same thing. Lesson learned!

So glad it’s back! This site has been an invaluable source for information about providers and all the protocols involved!

I’ve hired 2 masseurs in the past 4 months. One charged $150 for one hour, plus tip, I tipped an extra $90 because he was really good with the sensual stuff, and a really nice guy. I actually had fooled around with him at my gym’s steam room and I asked him in advance of our meeting if he was okay with that, and it was cool with him. He’s not really much of a massage therapist, but the extras were amazing. The second guy I hired was also a guy that I had casually “met” at a Korean spa, and his rate was $180, and he made sure that “tipping is highly appreciated.” He was quite vague about what the session would entail, and his texts were on the cold side, not especially personal and more like he just sends you a form letter. Still, I went through with it because I think he’s hot. Upon meeting him, I mentioned the Korean spa encounter and he denied ever meeting me. The massage was okay, but he went into the extras very quickly and seemed like he was in a rush to get it over and done with. I tipped an extra $100, because I didn’t know what was appropriate in this situation, and when I left, it had been 35 minutes, not the hour I had paid for. Probably wouldn’t repeat.

I’ve only ever hired for non-penetrative services, with both escorts and for erotic massages, so there’s a market for it. When I’ve hired an escort, I pay the same rate as for escorting and not massage, and I’ve usually been very happy.

I’m surprised that no one answered, but they found a match for him, and so far, he’s doing well. He’s back on RM and has a couple good reviews. He has a picture on his profile of himself with his sexy silver beard and you can see a faint scar on his abdomen. Glad he’s okay!

I’m not so sure Argentina is still as cheap, the combination of inflation and the stronger peso have changed prices there in things like restaurants, hotels, groceries, etc., so I would assume escorts would be more as well.

I too have had difficulty processing this terrible news. It is those young skaters that touched me the most as well. Those kids ranged in age from like 8 or 9 to 16, and were so talented. It’s heartbreaking. I’ve shed a few tears reading about their too-short lives. I heard about it about 45 minutes after it happened and then had trouble sleeping because I was praying they’d find survivors.

Beer is cheap, I was happy to get it for him. Whatever he would have wanted, I would have bought.

It was having a drink and a conversation, really getting to know one another and his being very personable. Most of the providers I’ve met just want to get to business and have it over with.

He’s added some newer ones, he still looks the same.

I booked for an hour, it ended up being an hour and 20 minutes.

Really nice guy and a lot of fun! One of the more unusual meetings I’ve had. He only does outcalls and he came to my apartment. He texted in advance that he’d like to have a drink first with me to get to know me, and so I bought the beer he likes and we had a little conversation. Very personable and nice to talk to, besides his other attributes. Heavily endowed and natural bush, too.

I did too, cool guy with a hipster vibe. I asked him to keep his hair down during our meeting, and it was fun!

Pretty much any gym in NYC that has a steam room and a sauna. I’ve never been to Equinox because I refuse to go $200 a month for a gym membership, but I’m sure stuff is happening there, too.

Just got back from tonight’s event. I left an hour early. It was a lot less busy than usual, and I’d say about 1 in 5 were reasonably attractive. At the peak, there were maybe 50 guys there. When I’ve been there before, it was around 100. I ran into a guy I’ve seen working out at my gym, and he was not very friendly. I hooked up with a stocky white guy with a hairy chest, and a good sized tool, and then a buff Asian guy who was really hot. I like all different types. But the crowd was definitely on the mature side and a lot of them were terribly overweight. One was particularly persistent, and didn’t give up trying to get my attention by grabbing my arm. I’m not in any rush to go back, I didn’t really spend any considerable amount of time with anyone, I felt like I could get just as much action in the steam room or sauna at the gym.

That is correct, you can use a locker on the premises with your own lock. I just carry my phone, enough cash, and an ID in my socks.

I’ve been on Monday nights, and it’s definitely a better crowd at the Thursday meetings. It can be hit or miss, like anything else. Some nights are hot, others not. I think I’ll go tonight, will report back.

I generally look for providers without any tattoos, or who only have one or two that aren’t enormous. One provider I was with has just one on his shoulder, and another one had a small one on the inside of his calf. Facial tattoos, full sleeves, neck tattoos, and any tattoos on the chest and stomach, when I see that, I move on.