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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from musclestuduws in 411 on StudFR in NYC   
    I met him recently. The vibe I got via text was more so direct rather than rude. I thought ok it’s his business and he just wants to close the appointment. I paid the deposit he requested after seeing his very lengthy menu of services. I thought he would be different in person. 
     
    When I met him, he was so cold, stand-offish and rude. There was zero connection or chemistry. He’s not a nice guy. It felt like his mind was on a different planet, or perhaps back in France, he wasn’t present or engaging. 

    I knew the reviews were mixed, but I wanted to see for myself and now I know. With him, it’s 100% business. At a few points throughout the massage, it was actually a bit painful even though I opted for the erotic option. 
     
    Verdict: hire a different masseur. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from BriansBodywork in 411 on StudFR in NYC   
    I met him recently. The vibe I got via text was more so direct rather than rude. I thought ok it’s his business and he just wants to close the appointment. I paid the deposit he requested after seeing his very lengthy menu of services. I thought he would be different in person. 
     
    When I met him, he was so cold, stand-offish and rude. There was zero connection or chemistry. He’s not a nice guy. It felt like his mind was on a different planet, or perhaps back in France, he wasn’t present or engaging. 

    I knew the reviews were mixed, but I wanted to see for myself and now I know. With him, it’s 100% business. At a few points throughout the massage, it was actually a bit painful even though I opted for the erotic option. 
     
    Verdict: hire a different masseur. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Escort with nicest butt   
    I stopped reading after the third sentence. Bottom line, this industry isn’t for you. It’s a luxury service. If you can’t afford it, shop elsewhere. You’ve already mentioned your budget is $42/hour. So go to Walmart. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from BtmBearDad in Help verify Derik   
    He charges $400 per hour. That’s standard today for an upscale guy with good reviews. I feel like a lot of us guys on here get so hung up on the dollar amount.
     
    If we have enough to spend on $300 guys is $100 extra really that much more if you are getting quality service from a quality guy? If it  is, then why complain? Just don’t hire the guy if it’s above your budget. I’ve seen so many posts berating guys because so many entitled men on here feel they should tell a worker their worth which I find to be so wrong. If you can’t afford a guy, then look for someone you can afford. Plain and simple. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from BtmBearDad in Your Most Muscular Meet-Up?   
    I’ve met many muscular men but one that I’ve met recently and can’t get enough of is:
    https://rentmen.eu/GABRIELREIS
    He’s BIG everywhere. He is one of those guys that you meet in person and think how is the man real. 
     
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to CalTec in Overnighters... What do you do?   
    This guy clearly overnights, and gets it. Hotel, shows, workouts, etc (I rarely do in-home o/n's).  Not necessarily the best idea to jump into an overnight without having a prior session, or 2. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Luv2play in Overnighters... What do you do?   
    It would definitely be helpful to notify a provider or actually anyone in the world if you are planning to take them out to a 5 star dinner, so that they can dress appropriately. 
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to TruthBTold in 411 on Cade Maddox   
    I think he likes to have his ass eaten. I can live with that.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + Gar1eth in 411 on Cade Maddox   
    Too bad he isn't versatile.
     
    Gman
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + Topseed in 411 on Cade Maddox   
    Wish he bottomed. Sexy af.
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from GeoMitch in 411 on StudFR in NYC   
    I met him recently. The vibe I got via text was more so direct rather than rude. I thought ok it’s his business and he just wants to close the appointment. I paid the deposit he requested after seeing his very lengthy menu of services. I thought he would be different in person. 
     
    When I met him, he was so cold, stand-offish and rude. There was zero connection or chemistry. He’s not a nice guy. It felt like his mind was on a different planet, or perhaps back in France, he wasn’t present or engaging. 

    I knew the reviews were mixed, but I wanted to see for myself and now I know. With him, it’s 100% business. At a few points throughout the massage, it was actually a bit painful even though I opted for the erotic option. 
     
    Verdict: hire a different masseur. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Luv2play in Help verify Derik   
    He charges $400 per hour. That’s standard today for an upscale guy with good reviews. I feel like a lot of us guys on here get so hung up on the dollar amount.
     
    If we have enough to spend on $300 guys is $100 extra really that much more if you are getting quality service from a quality guy? If it  is, then why complain? Just don’t hire the guy if it’s above your budget. I’ve seen so many posts berating guys because so many entitled men on here feel they should tell a worker their worth which I find to be so wrong. If you can’t afford a guy, then look for someone you can afford. Plain and simple. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from stop in Help verify Derik   
    He charges $400 per hour. That’s standard today for an upscale guy with good reviews. I feel like a lot of us guys on here get so hung up on the dollar amount.
     
    If we have enough to spend on $300 guys is $100 extra really that much more if you are getting quality service from a quality guy? If it  is, then why complain? Just don’t hire the guy if it’s above your budget. I’ve seen so many posts berating guys because so many entitled men on here feel they should tell a worker their worth which I find to be so wrong. If you can’t afford a guy, then look for someone you can afford. Plain and simple. 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Lfeegrin in Best erotic massage in NYC   
    I had a much longer list previously and have tried many. A few to add that aren’t already here are:
    https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC
    https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan
     
    I love hairy guys but both of them are all-stars when it comes to give an erotic massage. I know Luis is a local and I’ve hired Leo everytime he visits NYC. He travels often. 
     
    I had an experience with two other hairy guys but I’ve removed them from the list. I’ve written on their personal threads about the experiences if interested to know why they were removed. 
     
    OmarCures and VicenteLorem 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from JQ915 in Best erotic massage in NYC   
    I had a much longer list previously and have tried many. A few to add that aren’t already here are:
    https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC
    https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan
     
    I love hairy guys but both of them are all-stars when it comes to give an erotic massage. I know Luis is a local and I’ve hired Leo everytime he visits NYC. He travels often. 
     
    I had an experience with two other hairy guys but I’ve removed them from the list. I’ve written on their personal threads about the experiences if interested to know why they were removed. 
     
    OmarCures and VicenteLorem 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from ontheroad in Best erotic massage in NYC   
    I had a much longer list previously and have tried many. A few to add that aren’t already here are:
    https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC
    https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan
     
    I love hairy guys but both of them are all-stars when it comes to give an erotic massage. I know Luis is a local and I’ve hired Leo everytime he visits NYC. He travels often. 
     
    I had an experience with two other hairy guys but I’ve removed them from the list. I’ve written on their personal threads about the experiences if interested to know why they were removed. 
     
    OmarCures and VicenteLorem 
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from Marc in Calif in You Favorite Masseurs in Chicago   
    This is where I will disagree with you. You didn’t want to move forward with booking an appointment with him because you have an issue with paying his rate, which is perfectly fine.
    But you haven’t met him and are assuming he thinks of himself as a model and that his massage isn’t even that sensual. If you contacted him you know he offers two options and both options are detailed with exactly what to expect. He’s actually one of the only guys I’ve come across that lays things out so clearly for us to understand and we know exactly what we’re paying for. And if you have more questions just go to his reviews.
    I have come across this model type you refer to where the massage is barely sensual and everything is an up charge and he doesn’t want to be touched and has a pretentious attitude. I posted about this in a different thread too. One guy that definitely comes to mind is Den Masseur in NYC. He’s only hot to look at but everything else lacks. But that’s not what Leo is. 
    Regarding cost in general, I mentioned this in another thread about someone who charges $400 per hour:
    “That’s standard today for an upscale guy with good reviews. I feel like a lot of us guys on here get so hung up on the dollar amount.
    If we have enough to spend on $300 guys, is $100 extra really that much more if you are getting quality service from a quality guy? If it is, then why complain? Just don’t hire the guy if it’s above your budget. I’ve seen so many posts berating guys because so many entitled men on here feel they should tell a worker their worth which I find to be so wrong. If you can’t afford a guy, then look for someone you can afford. Plain and simple.”
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to Astorplace in Paying for the Uber   
    Wow. some of you guys are very stingy.
     
    Considering escort rates have not gone up with inflation over the past 10 years or so, Paying a bit more for an Uber is not too much to ask for.
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    Midtownguy99 got a reaction from kyleham in Your Most Muscular Meet-Up?   
    I’ve met many muscular men but one that I’ve met recently and can’t get enough of is:
    https://rentmen.eu/GABRIELREIS
    He’s BIG everywhere. He is one of those guys that you meet in person and think how is the man real. 
     
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to Jamie21 in Favorite Client?   
    A tip should be a thanks for absolutely fantastic service not to make up for lack of fair basic pay. It some industries and places it seems to have developed into compensation for poor pay and hasn’t much to do with whether the service went beyond all expectations.
    Also I think there’s a misconception that escorts make loads of money because their hourly rate is high. Take into consideration that it’s not practically possible to work 45 hours a week 50 weeks a year doing escort work and the hourly rate comes down. Yes some days you make a lot, but some days it’s zero. If you get sick or catch something you’re out of action for at least a week. You have to keep a place to work, keep fit, advertise etc so there’s overheads too. Don’t assume that because you paid £200 for an hour that that’s what he gets every hour every day. 
     
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Favorite Client?   
    The real goal here is to have a suitable rate to satisfy not ever needing a tip.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to + sam.fitzpatrick in Chicago Spa hotels?   
    It has been several years since I stayed at what is now the Waldorf, but it might meet your list.  Spa Services - Waldorf Astoria Spa Chicago (waldorfastoriachicagohotel.com)
    As I recall, the pool was public and the sauna and whirlpool were in the men's very nice locker room.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to advnturpup in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    I was taken aback when he asked me for it up front. I mean, in general, he's operating way above the typical pay grade of most escorts and asking for cash up front in general we all know is a huge warning sign to stay away.
     
    But i took the plunge because as a first re-entry back into sex after a long covid desert, everything that was said about him was precisely what i needed AND, of course, what he looked like.
     
    So i just bit the bullet.
     
    And i repeat: Worth. Every. Penny.
     
    And he really isn't a con artist. He really loves doing this and loves the people he meets. And we talked alot about drugs too - cuz i have nostalgia for the days when on nice occasions i might do shrooms or x or k - with FBs or at "circuit parties" in days of yore. So when he talks about PnP, for himself he's really talking about occasional recreational drug use and, probably, that its ok for his clients who do more. Though i bet if he has such a client he'll wind up getting invested in helping the guy steer away from destructive behavior towards sobriety.
     
    How did we wind up talking about all this stuff? He loves to talk but even more, he seems to love to listen. And we discovered we have complexly overlapping spiritual lives - we spent time exploring that. Escorts may be able to have such discussions, but hustlers rarely can. Really: this guy is the Real Deal. And he's also a good business man creating a business model that works for him and the people who can afford him.
     
    I wish i could be a monthly! It would be good for me! Alas, unlikely. But for this particular night in this particular year, he was medicine for my soul, not just my body.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to guru68 in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    We need another stimulus - $2000 checks that can only be spent on escorts. He-larious.
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    Midtownguy99 reacted to former lurker in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    A lot has been written about him. As I've said, everyone has his own tastes and own budget. But I found my time with him to be superlative. I've hired a lot of guys over a number of years. My time with him was among the most satisfying. He was warm, lovingly so, both in and out of bed. And he was incredible in bed. Not just a quick fuck. He made it feel like a total loving experience. I can be jaded. Making me feel as he did was a pretty fantastic thing. Hire him or don't. Not my call. But it's a bit odd for me to read all the commentary based on impressions from people who didn't see him. There are plenty of us who have. Part of my decision to hire him was @Hung_Cody having good things to say. I expect I'm less compelling than Cody as a partner, but ILHV made me feel great.
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