I had forgotten about this masseur in Milan, Italy about 15 years ago. I found him on a gay website, very hot pics, so I was expecting a sensual massage.
He was very good looking, in his early 40s, great body, wearing just shorts, very muscular. I could feel he was not particularly friendly from the beginning, but I wasn't there to look for a friend. His massage started well, I saw he knew what he was doing in terms of quality. The weird thing started about 30 minutes into it, when he commented (I didn't ask him for any opinion or advice!) that I was definitely out of shape for my age, that I needed to cut carbs, exercise more, etc etc. I told him I was happy with my body but basically he shut me up saying that I could not know more than him what a good and hot body should look like.
I let him finish the massage, he then somehow initiated mechanically the sensual part (it was sooo obvious he was going to do it as a forced "favor") but I was so NOT turned on by his attitude that even if he really looked very hot I stopped him, got off the table, got dressed, paid him, told him that he shouldn't be condescending with clients, and left.