DapperGent

There are several different weekly parties that meet at Paddles, on 38th Street, and in Park Slope.  This is one of them. 
https://www.bearpartynyc.com/
 

Yes he is, and so so handsome.

Every time I go to Manhattan and stay by Penn station I go to Alpha Spa, is a short walk, is clean, smells very nice and from the masseurs I've tried, Bert is by far the best, he mixes relaxing with sensual in a way that's... well. Just thanks. 

We haven't been yet but I've heard Brooklyn parties are super-diverse and more easy-going then Manhattan. Also, we live here so it's 10 minutes away. 

We've been meaning to check out the Scum parties. There's one in Brooklyn this Friday. 

Who would you recommend at Hush? Thanks!

I don’t agree. They’re the client…they choose the time that works for them. If I’m free then fine..it gets booked. If I’m busy then sorry I can’t do it and we all move on. If they mess around a lot with scheduling it’s always my option to simply decline to engage or block them, which I do occasionally. 
This is a customer service business. I’m not expecting my customers to consider what else I’m doing or whether my plans get messed up etc. They want to see me at a certain time so it’s then over to me to decide yes or no. It’s as simple as that. What else is happening in my life / schedule is my issue not theirs.
I don’t travel to other cities, all my business is in London. That makes logistics simpler. I think if I travelled it would make things too complicated but still it would be my choice to operate like that and so my issue to deal with the complications. 

Twice I received a message like the following:
"Hi. I have to cancel our date for today because I just got asked to fly to XXXXXXX for the weekend and am leaving in an hour. I am sure you will understand."
I replied, "I understand completely, but you will also understand that I will never contact you again."

i find it really unprofessional unless there is a good reason. Most of the time, you can tell from the text messages. With someone I met before, I am a lot more understanding and patient if I know this provider is a good guy but there are many providers who do not care. I recently booked a session with a guy (first time for us) and I confirmed a day before. On the day of the session, I had a brief exchange of texts around noon and reconfirmed the appointment. he was all ok and I asked him to text me when he is on the way (i gave my address already). I was out in the afternoon but when I came back an hour before the appointment (he would need only 20-30 mins to come to me) i noticed he texted me a few hours ago while I was offline and asked me such a random question about condom: if I have a condom. Of course I have it and i also think that top providers always keep some with them, so it was weird. Anyway, I said, I have condoms and then he replied and he said I didn't respond in a timely manner, so he booked another client and can't come anymore. I was so pissed because I confirmed twice including the same day and gave my address. He had my number so if having a condom or not was so important he could have just called me because he knew I was offline (i show my last seen on whatsapp publicly  and he is the same). I emptied my night for him and was super horny, so it made things worse. Anyway, I think he just found another customer, maybe he offered him a longer session or over night, so there was more money there. Just really unprofessional but he said he can meet another day. Hell no. The most disappointing part was that he said on his profile he takes pride in his job, enjoys this job and values the client blah blah. Just a bs in my opinion, so I never even bothered to reschedule. As much as providers value their time and charge a rate for their hours, clients pay that amount, so their time is probably equally valuable. I hate providers who only think about their own time but not the clients' time as well. I don't think a good sex will be provided by selfish people like them.  

Bingo!!

I think it’s bad form to do that. Once a time and date is settled and agreed I try my best to stick to it and will very rarely ask to alter it. I cancelled a client a month ago because I’d double booked myself by mistake (caused by confusion over time zones) but would never cancel or reschedule because the time no longer suited me.
I think sometimes what happens is the escort has a better offer or is trying to squeeze in an additional client or activity, so he tries to reschedule to make it all work. 
It isn’t very professional to do that and I think would annoy clients so I don’t do it unless it’s essential. Once an agreement is made then it’s not going to change unless I’m sick.
Unfortunately on the other side you do get clients who book but then cancel last minute or even fail to show. Today I had a client booked for a certain time during the day but he asked to bring it forward by half hour. I was free so I agreed. No problem.
It works both ways…people get delayed or sick so I’m always willing to take these things into consideration. 
 

There's this tall and lean masseur at Alpha Spa I always get massages from but I want him to come to my place to do a session and upgrade from sensual to erotic. How much do I offer him? I know he doesn't work outside the parlor so I don't know rates, I've found masseurs outcall prices to vary greatly in NY. Any advice?

Be discreet but clear. Offer him a card with your number and ask him to reach out if he would consider meeting outside of the spa. Use the rates on Rentmasseur as a guide, but I would let him give you a rate once you have conveyed your interest and service needs. I've done this before and it worked out really well. 

Really smooth, thanks for the tips can't wait!

Excellently point, those spa masseurs only make money on tips and that’s why they typically avoid to be touched so if you want more you are forced to ask and then they tell you that’s not included in the price because of bad tippers. Makes all sense for Bert and any masseur for that matter to work independently and take 100% of the money 👌🏼

Ohh nooo why did I have to read this now, with my graphic imagination… 🍆💦 I’ll PM for his digits.

Just subscribe to his OF for a month and save yourself $150.  He actually doesn’t post anything anymore but his page is still open.  But you’ll see most of what you want to see there.  He’s definitely hot.  But I’m thankful to this board because I almost booked him a couple of years ago.  

Yeah, he is also known as Lukas. Sexy man with a conveniently located apartment in HK but, agreeing echoing @DapperGentand others he does not have skills and his touch is so bad I didn't even got an erection. Do not recommend.

If you're registered on RentMasseur, you'd likely have received a message from them about these scam phishing sites. I reported one such site to them awhile back because the details on it involved just pasting screengrabs of whole swathes of Rentmasseur graphics onto their 'layout'.

I had a similar experience on Grindr. The guy refers me to a profile at rentmasseur.info. The text and reviews of the profile were stolen from a real guy on rentmasseur.com, but the pictures were different. Clearly, rentmasseur.info is 100% scam.

Yes I was wondering about that site... there are about a dozen likely misappropriated profiles that require the booking fee. If someone knows Joknsport, they should alert him.

I was talking to this HOT guy on grinder.
 
He replied stating he does massage work but I have to pay a "booking fee" first
 
He gave me a web page: rentmasseur.info/johnsport
 
RED FLAG
 
On masseur finder there is a JohnsSport but based in NYC and GPS location says NYC
 
So this guy is clearly a fake. The pics are the same as on rentmasseur. But on his fake .info site he has a click here to book, which takes you to a sight to put in your credit card info
 
RED ALERT... DANGER WILL ROBINSON.. WHOOP WHOOP

Haven't read all the comments
But what about being up front and ask if he does mobile service and go from there.  Maybe suggest a way to get more clientele.  Also all the money would be his vs. splitting with spa
Just a thought

You can probably find that pretty easy. Most places aren’t littered with cameras. I’ve stayed at air b&bs before and never had trouble with cameras.

I rented a place in VT summer of '20.  Cameras all over the outside - some that could potentially see inside the windows.  Just made me self-conscious and ruined a FwB weekend for me.
A rural house to smoke outside would be ideal.