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JD is back on R.Masseur and was on Masseurfinder.  I've hired JD twice.  Both times were just kind of oK and they totally emphasized more of an escort experience so i cannot say what his massage was like.  Once he arrived at my place he asked if it was ok that he didn't bring the table.  I agreed though it was a different approach to what he was advertising (massage)
Once inside, we started messing around (no massage).  He tried to upsell me both times and i told him "what are you upselling me, you don't eve  have a table"  I told him he was free to go if he wasn't comfortable doing what I wanted since due to him the situation had changed.  So we got through it.  I tried him twice because I wanted to see how far he would go in a second round.  I'll just say that he did what we agree to but there was no primal urges.  He was attractive back then
Fast forward to today and I'm looking at his photos,   He's older. His face has filled out and his hair is longer in a like a 1970s "Love Boat|" way.  He's had more professional photos taken, but they're not good.  I can tell he's not happy with his pics as well because he's editing them with without his face in some and he's showing older body pics. His looks now might be for some guys.  But he looks different from the 8 years ago when i first met him.  He's a nice enough guy, but I think there are better choices.  I'm cool with escorts, erotic massage and therapeutic massage guys depending on what I'm in the mood for.  But upselling during a session is just a turn off for me.  I find it to be the mark of someone that is truly not a Pro.

He messaged me 12/30 to say he is scheduling clients again.  The message contained specifics on a full range of services.  DM if you are interested to make an appointment and would like additional details.

I have alerted everyone who contacted me who requestied additional details about my communication with him.  I however thought it would be best to post here as well:
I discovered a discussion on The Deli concerning: news that last summer HottieOtter was charged with attempted rape of a minor in a sting operation.  Evidently in his porno past he has gone by Mitch Matthews.  On RentMen he is HottieOtterChi.
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If the charges are real they're quite terrible....at the same time, LGBT and especially sex workers have always been targets to exploit false charges against.
I believe in innocent until proven guilty and I haven't seen anything further come out publicly on this.
All that being said I would personally pause on hiring him until the dust settled too
From another member on the Deli regarding his profile:
He has only one pic with no face pic. So I asked for more pics of himself and it  really mitch matthews 
I reported the ad
 
   
 

his nipples would have my full attention/curiosity during any session.

It is a genius move… I had a masseur a few weeks ago guide my hand to his cock (fully erect and leaking precum} which was positioned right underneath the headrest. A chair suddenly appeared that allowed him to feed me his cock through the hole in the headrest. I did wonder why that hasn’t happened before… It was hot and very effective. 

For those in search of a real massage & more by handsome masculine guys in Bangkok - Arena is the place for you.
Upon entering, you will be greeted by the lineup from which to choose. It can feel pressured the first time, but doesn't need to be that way.  You can take a seat, chat with the manager who speaks English and weigh the options.
the guys are working out in a basic gym setup that looks a little like a prison yard.  Just the right amount of dirty & sexy.
The rooms are private & with showers.
After 5 visits - highly recommend. They deliver.  Walkable from most hotels near Silom.
 
 

I wondered about that too...
If the charges are real they're quite terrible....at the same time, LGBT and especially sex workers have always been targets to exploit false charges against.
I believe in innocent until proven guilty and I haven't seen anything further come out publicly on this.
All that being said I would personally pause on hiring him until the dust settled too

woah, didn't hear about this. were there any news articles about that?
edit: found these 
https://str8upgayporn.com/gay-porn-star-mitch-matthews-arrested/ http://www.gladstonedispatch.com/news/breaking_news/3-face-charges-from-operation-targeting-child-sexual-exploitation-during-nfl-draft/article_89530c51-4e05-54dc-91c1-cba8709a55cc.html

I try multiple times hiring him and he flake out on me. Finally got the chance to see him and he ask for upfront and he changed to 500. I left immediately and I didn't bother wasting my time with him. 

I’ve actually seen a guy who knelt down while massaging my neck and he pulled his dick out of the leg of his shorts so I could see it through the head rest. Nice move

It is always disappointing but helpful to know when one of us has a bad experience.  Yours in fact sounds like a bit of a nightmare.   I believe PP has a presence here.  Maybe he will take note of your report.  It surely is a cautionary tale.   Chicago has many good masseurs.   Hopefully you will find success on your next visit.  Thanks for your report.

It is always disappointing but helpful to know when one of us has a bad experience.  Yours in fact sounds like a bit of a nightmare.   I believe PP has a presence here.  Maybe he will take note of your report.  It surely is a cautionary tale.   Chicago has many good masseurs.   Hopefully you will find success on your next visit.  Thanks for your report.

I recommend Chicago Jake.  You get a great massage, pressure adjusted to your preference, relaxing, and all around good experience.  PM for details.
Chicago Jake

Had a great experience with him last month. Very skilled, warm and very masculine, MT, lots of tantric energy.
 

My first advice would be to get an experienced partner who can hit the right spots and let you know what you should be feeling and how much you want to feel it again.  
I have used that particular toy on others and while stimulating, it did not bring the kind of excitement I would have expected, so perhaps it is not the way you are using it that is the problem, rather the design itself.  
It is difficult to massage your own prostate.  The easiest way is probably using a thumb though you may not be able to get in deep enough that way.  Using any of the fingers requires a bit of practice and agility.  So I get back to trying to find a partner who can do the job for you.  
Anatomically the prostate is located anterior to the rectum and is usually about 1/2 to 2 inches in from the sphincter, so once you are in you should pretty much have your finger on the button if you are using fingers.  With the thumb it may be just at the tip of the thumb. 
Again, learning the anatomy on another person is probably the best way to familiarize yourself with where things are and what is what.   Pressure should be enough to tingle but not hurt and movement from side to side is pleasing and as you become accustomed to it, pressing down harder will make the sensations more intense.  

Have had mine lasered - totally smooth and no hair at all. The most painful experience but def worth it.

My main go to for years. He usually takes off in January and although I know he went through some living situation changes. Assume he’ll be back — hope so. 

Cesar (Chicago)  has moved out of Chicago (Jan 9th) and taken down his MasseurFinder ad. He told me he was going to be traveling, but did not indicate domestic or international. Prior to coming to Chicago years ago he worked at spas in Cancun area. He was a wonderful masseur and a beautiful person (and body). 

Mine was Vinny in LV:
AsianTouch on RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com And also Zayen in Denver:
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Lots of extras with both and love their energy! I can’t wait to try ManHandled next time I’m in Denver and Body and Spirit in Seattle! Thx for the suggestions guys

He’s had some positive reviews in the threads that mention him. I’ve reached out to see if he travels to Brooklyn and he was quick to respond. Will report back if I ever book.  

You know where to find him @claym  on MFinder. Vlad is reluctant to list on RMasseur.

Starting a new thread to put Volodymyr ("Vlad" on the other thread) on everyone's radar. At $160 for 60min...it is STEAL! https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44728/
HOT OF THE PRESS! V is about 5' 8", and 185 pounds...of Ukrainian bear-cub muscle! Who happens to deliver a vigorous, I mean INVIGORATING sports massage, in a massage style that must be Russian (I've has similar massage from other masseurs, notably the no-longer-available East-20s Anton). At the risk of being repetitive, at $160 for 60min, it's worth every ruble!
Snag him while he's still in NYC. Best enjoyed by those having their own massage tables...because he does only out calls. Even though my Russian is non-existent, and V's English in a work-in-progress, his energy is really pleasant (i.e.. uber-manly to me), and he puts noticeable effort into pleasing the client.  [end]

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