claym

It is always disappointing but helpful to know when one of us has a bad experience.  Yours in fact sounds like a bit of a nightmare.   I believe PP has a presence here.  Maybe he will take note of your report.  It surely is a cautionary tale.   Chicago has many good masseurs.   Hopefully you will find success on your next visit.  Thanks for your report.

I recommend Chicago Jake.  You get a great massage, pressure adjusted to your preference, relaxing, and all around good experience.  PM for details.
Chicago Jake

Had a great experience with him last month. Very skilled, warm and very masculine, MT, lots of tantric energy.
 

My first advice would be to get an experienced partner who can hit the right spots and let you know what you should be feeling and how much you want to feel it again.  
I have used that particular toy on others and while stimulating, it did not bring the kind of excitement I would have expected, so perhaps it is not the way you are using it that is the problem, rather the design itself.  
It is difficult to massage your own prostate.  The easiest way is probably using a thumb though you may not be able to get in deep enough that way.  Using any of the fingers requires a bit of practice and agility.  So I get back to trying to find a partner who can do the job for you.  
Anatomically the prostate is located anterior to the rectum and is usually about 1/2 to 2 inches in from the sphincter, so once you are in you should pretty much have your finger on the button if you are using fingers.  With the thumb it may be just at the tip of the thumb. 
Again, learning the anatomy on another person is probably the best way to familiarize yourself with where things are and what is what.   Pressure should be enough to tingle but not hurt and movement from side to side is pleasing and as you become accustomed to it, pressing down harder will make the sensations more intense.  

Have had mine lasered - totally smooth and no hair at all. The most painful experience but def worth it.

My main go to for years. He usually takes off in January and although I know he went through some living situation changes. Assume he’ll be back — hope so. 

Cesar (Chicago)  has moved out of Chicago (Jan 9th) and taken down his MasseurFinder ad. He told me he was going to be traveling, but did not indicate domestic or international. Prior to coming to Chicago years ago he worked at spas in Cancun area. He was a wonderful masseur and a beautiful person (and body). 

Mine was Vinny in LV:
AsianTouch on RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com And also Zayen in Denver:
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Lots of extras with both and love their energy! I can’t wait to try ManHandled next time I’m in Denver and Body and Spirit in Seattle! Thx for the suggestions guys

He’s had some positive reviews in the threads that mention him. I’ve reached out to see if he travels to Brooklyn and he was quick to respond. Will report back if I ever book.  

You know where to find him @claym  on MFinder. Vlad is reluctant to list on RMasseur.

Starting a new thread to put Volodymyr ("Vlad" on the other thread) on everyone's radar. At $160 for 60min...it is STEAL! https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44728/
HOT OF THE PRESS! V is about 5' 8", and 185 pounds...of Ukrainian bear-cub muscle! Who happens to deliver a vigorous, I mean INVIGORATING sports massage, in a massage style that must be Russian (I've has similar massage from other masseurs, notably the no-longer-available East-20s Anton). At the risk of being repetitive, at $160 for 60min, it's worth every ruble!
Snag him while he's still in NYC. Best enjoyed by those having their own massage tables...because he does only out calls. Even though my Russian is non-existent, and V's English in a work-in-progress, his energy is really pleasant (i.e.. uber-manly to me), and he puts noticeable effort into pleasing the client.  [end]

Or maybe it's a reminder to yourself that you've completed your thoughts...
I know that (inhale) I often need to (exhale) remind myself of (inhale) some of the most (exhale) basic functions (inhale) of life (exhale)....
 

May be…I AM journalist or wanna-be journalist  Or may be it’s just a habit, or flourish.

Recently had a 2nd massage with provider. Better than the first. Seems like he might lean lower bunk, or straddle the two bunks. [end]

YMMV but based on price my two faves....
Enrico
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43631/
Cesar - old info - hes on hiatus for a few weeks

 

I have notified a Moderator to ask if this posting should be removed.  If you scroll down to the bottom of a page of a site that features Cesar (who surely is beautiful and sexy) you will see a solicitation with a picture of third world children:
Give your Donation to help us Distribute food and clothing to Homeless Children in South America and India.

Love the slow sensuality of this one:
 
https://www.xvideos.com/video78737079/eddie_danger_gets_a_happy_ending_massage
 

I've been doing this a while and not all providers are available same day , they all kind of have their own preferences. Could understand frustration had I communicated with him back and forth for a while.  I simply asked him one question,  if he was Chicago based or if he was visiting.  RM says his profile is 6 hours old. Wasn't sure if he was traveling or new to town.  He followed by what you looking to get into, told him depends how long he will be in town.  He replied back " please go to hell, wasting my f*cking time , dumb ass".
Never have I received such a response from any provider,  especially since it was one simple and reasonable question.  Don't think he's mentally stable.  Just proceed with caution 

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Personally I would shy away from him. Just reached out asking how long he was visiting and rates etc. His demeanor sucks and has some major attitude.  Was trying to plan for a few days out and the guy flipped and started name calling etc. Don't think he's mentally stable.  Just warning everyone out there proceed with caution 

I second Ozne.  Incredibly sexy Frenchman.

If I was allowed to eat that peach, I wouldn’t complain. 😅

I'm with you.  Not into man scent.  Fresh out-of-the-shower pits are the best for me.  I'm mostly into the visual of hairy armpits. It's about the manliness of it all.  If a guy is shirtless, my eyes most often wander there after checking out his face. The rest of the sizing up then follows. And when I am swimming laps I get energized if the guys in lanes next to me have hairy pits. I sure am disappointed when a guy's pits are shaved.  It would be great to have somewhere here a list of guys with amazing hairy pits.  Sure would make my selection process much easier.

his first (and, as of today, only) review is so obviously chatgpt generated that it is pretty hilarious.  if you go to chatgpt and ask it 'write a positive review for a masseur'... this is pretty much exactly what you will get.