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So I see some hot gym instructors at my gym and I know they make so little and could use some extra cash but some of them wouldn't entertain the idea at all so not sure about how to approach them. Any experience?

On 10/19/2022 at 1:32 AM, Daniel84 said:

Playing devil's advocate here, but you had a decent time with him, he was on time, he even came and did the full two hours. You want to leave a 3 star review because you guys didn't mesh well?? With all due respect, it takes two to tango.. maybe both of you guys didn't vibe well but he fulfilled his duty and provided a service for you. Why leave a three-star review and try to damage his business??? 

I think it is more of the content of the two hours that left him unsatisfied. If someone shows no interest or will to entertain, I am sure someone would be unhappy with the session. I don't know the details in this case but I did have some experience with lacking performance. Professional service sometimes requires acting, and the lack of that can be sensed by customers easily. One doesn't have to be into the clients but they just have to pretend like they are and make sure the clients are happy. I mean in every customer service business, we try to satisfy the clients. Or at least live up to the standard expectations in the industry. We pay for the service not free sex. I would say this provider was less than the usual professional guys, so we would appreciate this fact and I think he is making his point that RM doesn't allow for that. Is there any alternative to Daddy's reviews?

they used to send pictures of who is available but they don't seem to be doing it anymore. I usually find the line-up quite boring for someone who likes muscular guys. How was the line up in terms of build?

18 hours ago, guy7777 said:

Hi I never been to the hiring saunas as of yet. Can you say from your recent visit if the majority of guys are from Spain & South America? Any good looking Eastern European guys working? I was in Barcelona once & I only went to the gay bars. Had a good time, but I enjoyed Madrid more

Usually it is 80% or more brazilians/latinos but this time I think it was 100% but there were around 6-8 guys available. Sauna hiring makes it worth a lot more if you hire multiple guys or find the right one because it is cheap and can try a few. But when it comes to barcelona, a lot of guys actually offer 30 min (media hora) in the range of 50-70e so it is not that bad when you hire them outside as well. Even the full hour can be 100e easily, though the famous guys would go for 150e firm on internet. I really don't know why they have such weird pricing, maybe the internet hiring is not as good as you would imagine or it has too much hassle. In Sauna, good escorts are almost guaranteed to have multiple hires a day, so it might work for them well as well. Anyway, I feel like you can have a lot of fun in Barcelona even without going to the sauna. I used to go to thermas almost always when i am in barcelona but during the summer, I was worried about the MP, so i decided to hire outside and things were equally fun. It requires a bit of preparing and doing the searches online beforehand. 

I have been there recently. It is less crowded than one year ago, so I am guessing it is due to the monkeypox. Now it is only worth visiting on the weekend, otherwise, not many boys available. 

Yeah spain has a high number of infected but some news sources say it's only in Madrid so far but without travel restrictions I am sure people can carry the virus from Madrid to barcelona. The worry is exactly the sauna environment that makes it substantially more risky but thermas is really fun and I don't wanna visit the city without going there. Ah.... 

So I am on Barcelona... Should I go to thermas or what 😂 

are you ethan himself lol

6 hours ago, Quincy_7 said:

We obviously know very little about how transmission works right now but the fact that transmission seems to be predominant amongst gay men should raise a few eyebrows since there are way more straight people than gay people. If it turns out that this is something condoms can mitigate then that would strengthen the argument that PrEP is not some sort of free pass to bareback. 

my guess is that someone infected went to sauna in Madrid and infected so many at one time and those infected probably had random sex here and there because you know people who frequent sauna probably have many random sex as well, so initially there was a spread among gays but i doubt anything has to do with sexuality. It just spreads through close contact so people who have sex regularly with many people are the ones who catch it. 

escorts rarely report their symptoms accurately, I find it silly to ask if anyone has a disease. I assume they would say no even if they suspect something. Anyway, the worrying part is that the spanish spread is linked to a sauna, i am guessing it was a gay sauna given most people who are infected are being reported as gay or bi....it would be sad if this disease outs someone just because a closeted guy visits a sauna secretly or had sex with a guy who was infected etc. makes thermas in Barcelona a lot less attractive...

I am in Europe now and I read the news today about men who have sex with other men...its really annoying to see how the media frames us... Anyway but I thought it is good to pause sex for a while because of the incubation period. Let them figure out what's causing it and I am on the road so I don't have to have any medical issues atm. I find escorts are in the high risk group if it is spreading fast among gay and bi men.... 

I can check the providers from the web for those you suggested but in some small cities there is literally no one or not many selections on any of those websites. So I am looking for an app similar to grindr where normal guys come and have a quantity there and I can put my intention to hire upfront without being reported. Grindr is just notorious for banning accounts but it does have the most users in any city you visit

I have android 

I am looking for an app that is friendly to providers and clients. In a city where listing is not great, finding a guy to hire from an app is great and I used grindr time to time but there are just many haters who keep reporting, so i get banned pretty quickly. And grindr became a lot more difficult to open with phone number requirement so I am struggling to find an alternative. The app has to have a good amount of guys, otherwise it is pointless but also does not ban and make our life harder... 

On 4/21/2022 at 6:20 PM, Wolfer said:

Any recent reports? I'm thinking of visiting 

It's open from 3pm to midnight I think. The fee increased to 20e except wed. The guys there are more or less, maybe slightly less than prepandemic level but still a good selection. The charge is the same, 50e per session. No mask is required or worn, no vaccine record is checked at the entrance. If you have anything else to ask, feel fee to message privately

i have been curious about cuba a lot and i am hoping to visit. I have a few questions:

1. Does anyone know a gay guide there? I feel like i need one if i hire

2. What is the hiring like? mostly street hiring?

3. hotel booking and possibility of bringing someone in?

hunqz is not bad but a bit more expensive. local sites have more options but you need to speak spanish. Check my post on barcelona thread for the site links

there are many, telechapero is a good one for escorts. https://www.mileroticos.com/chaperos/barcelona/ is also good. If you are willing to go lower, pasion.com is good too, mostly less known escorts and masseurs

responding to an ad without face but had a nice body, "can you send me your face?" him: "you first, my body my rules". i was very tempted to say my money my rule but left it off lol

not really interested in massage only deals, looking for someone muscular who can kiss with tongue. If you have any leads, let me know

anywhere between 100-300. The mode is probably around 150 or 200, Used to be solid 200 but i feel like it is going back to 150. But i hire there on and off so my estimate could be off. It is so annoying that most escorts would not put their rates on the ad or profile, so I just don't have much energy to look around in London, tend to just go to guys I met before. 

i find it really unprofessional unless there is a good reason. Most of the time, you can tell from the text messages. With someone I met before, I am a lot more understanding and patient if I know this provider is a good guy but there are many providers who do not care. I recently booked a session with a guy (first time for us) and I confirmed a day before. On the day of the session, I had a brief exchange of texts around noon and reconfirmed the appointment. he was all ok and I asked him to text me when he is on the way (i gave my address already). I was out in the afternoon but when I came back an hour before the appointment (he would need only 20-30 mins to come to me) i noticed he texted me a few hours ago while I was offline and asked me such a random question about condom: if I have a condom. Of course I have it and i also think that top providers always keep some with them, so it was weird. Anyway, I said, I have condoms and then he replied and he said I didn't respond in a timely manner, so he booked another client and can't come anymore. I was so pissed because I confirmed twice including the same day and gave my address. He had my number so if having a condom or not was so important he could have just called me because he knew I was offline (i show my last seen on whatsapp publicly  and he is the same). I emptied my night for him and was super horny, so it made things worse. Anyway, I think he just found another customer, maybe he offered him a longer session or over night, so there was more money there. Just really unprofessional but he said he can meet another day. Hell no. The most disappointing part was that he said on his profile he takes pride in his job, enjoys this job and values the client blah blah. Just a bs in my opinion, so I never even bothered to reschedule. As much as providers value their time and charge a rate for their hours, clients pay that amount, so their time is probably equally valuable. I hate providers who only think about their own time but not the clients' time as well. I don't think a good sex will be provided by selfish people like them.  

thanks, i didnt know that function on hunqz and I found some. you opened a new world for me, i wanna try some of them 

44 minutes ago, wiltshirede said:

Photoshop is strongly indicated in a large number of his recent photos. Nevertheless, this is nothing severe - he is using the tool to make himself look less stocky.

you mean he is bulkier than the pictures? It seems like he is more bottom as he doesn't indicate his role on profile. Is that correct? also his profile is quite obnoxious with self reviews like

"‘Let me breed you’
Left by - Blank profile on grindr

‘You’re just too good to be true’
Left by - Frankie Vallie"

On 2/24/2022 at 10:50 AM, JulianLondon said:

https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/london/central/escort/DannyMichaels

does he really live in NYC? I was in touch with him recently, I didn't meet because he was just full of drama when I texted him but he did advertise in London area and talked about meeting in London....