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  1. Hello! Sorry for the random post please forgive me.... I am a provider from NYC. I'm very very good at what I do but im an amateur when it comes to advertising my services. I see other providers traveling from city to city and I would assume they have clients in each one. My plan is to go to LA in about a month and I will be there for a few days. 3/30-4/3 to be exact. Im from NYC so business is great here and I've met a lot of nice people... im just starting to hit a ceiling I feel like if I were to just stay solely here... I figured Id ask if anyone knows or can walk me through how providers originally start out when looking to build up in a new city. what would be the best way to go about advertising? Any and all help is much appreciated. Ideally, I would like to have 2 cities that I travel between on a monthly basis. Nyc and LA and then expand from there. Thank you

    Bobby

  2. Hey!! I'm going to be at the Olympia attending as a fan. My friend will be speaking and I got comped a hotel room at the Venetian but will have a car. Is anyone else going to be there or even in Vegas for that matter? Just seeing if any fans of the sport/muscle worshippers will be in attendance. Hope to see you possibly !! All the best. 

    Bobby

  3. On 6/11/2022 at 9:28 PM, azdr0710 said:

    I think it was $5 yesterday.......I missed the special, but subscribed anyway today because, well, it's our own Bobby Biceps!.......and I'm not disappointed at all

    Thank u thank u thank u 🙏🏻 

  4. On 6/11/2022 at 10:44 AM, crushme99 said:

    Hello Bobby!  Thanks for the info, I checked it out and took you up on the discount subscription.  I have't kept in touch very much lately and certainly hope you are doing well. – Craig in Minnesota.

    Thank you craig for the support always 🙏🏻 We have to catch up!

  5. Hi !

    Long time no post but I hope everyone is doing well! I just wanted to come on here really fast and say that I just started an Onlyfans page https://onlyfans.com/bobbybicepsxxx WOOP WOOP! 

    I had received a lot of messages when I first began posting on the forums about my onlyfans page but didn't have one at the time. Decided to take the leap this past month and have really enjoyed the platform and will continue to post there multiple time per week.

    Anyways, I also wanted to just thank everyone for the support. I really do want to come out with the best content I can for my audience so please any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Custom videos/ meetups are also a possibility if you prefer. Currently running a 50% special on my Onlyfans page follow the link https://onlyfans.com/bobbybicepsxxx

    As always thank you

    Bobby 💪

  6. On 3/24/2022 at 6:35 PM, azdr0710 said:

    according to the latest Adonis NYC newsletter, the forum's own @Bobby Bicepswill be among the entertainers at Saturday's (March 26) nude party in Manhattan......if you aren't on the Adonis NYC mailing list, enter your email at upper right and hit "subscribe"...the larger form isn't necessary......

    https://adonislounge.com/nyc/contact/

    the party is $100 prepaid and registration with your email is required......follow the instructions!.......

     

    Thanks for the shoutout and yes i will be there !!

  7. 10 hours ago, MscleLovr said:

    I accept the arithmetic of @xyz48B but I find it irrelevant to the question posed in this thread’s title. Also I did just read some earlier posts by @HoseMaster and @xyz48B asking about rates in NYC 20 years ago and I can help there.
     

    As it happens, I first hired in NYC in 2000. At that time, rates were generally shown on Rentboy (the predecessor to Rentmen) and $200 was the common rate. Amateurs/newbies and guys with full-time jobs often asked for less, such as $100-120.  Handsome guys with muscled bodies asked for more, about $250-300. I recall meeting in 2000-2002 a handsome young actor with a very good physique. He NEVER advertised but he had what he termed “a select group of discreet regulars”. His rate then was $300. 

    Similarly in London,  the common rate was £100-120 ($200-220 then) in 2000. Amateurs et al charged £50-80 but gym-gods and porn-actors asked £150-200 (about $400). I met a guy in London who worked for BelAmi at that time and he asked for £150 (and was a very good date). 

    And as regards an escort’s income, this may interest some. I had several dates in LA in 2005/2006 with a wannabe actor/model. He  was short but darkly handsome and beautifully muscled. He advertised with an asking rate of $350. Because we got on well together (and I’d take him out to dinner) he charged me $300. Interestingly he discussed his approach to escorting with me one night. He disclosed what his target income was each month. As soon as he hit that target, he took his advert offline and he didn’t answer his ‘work’ phone. The monthly income he wanted was $6000. Some months he achieved that within 10 days, generally it took him about 2-3 weeks, but he never ran his ad for the whole month.

     

     

    wow this is a great post. well done. really gives quite an insight over an extended period of time. really appreciate this

  8. 21 hours ago, tassojunior said:

    RM definitely is the $$ spot. But if you don't feel good advertising on an escort site (even as a "masseur"), Rentmasseur and Masseurfinder both work well for clients. I have friends who advertise on the masseur sites and make as much as those on RentMen with a lot less expectations. More clients at lower fee plus upsells and tips. 

    i like that idea alot. thank you for that that's 3 places I will definitely be advertising in the near future

  9. 17 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

    What these guys said, Bobby. I'd love to meet you, but there's a lot of bad people on The Best Flex - usually a lot of homophobic bodybuilders who aren't willing to do anything with another guy.

    You have to be extremely open on what you're willing to do to grab overnights. And RM is the place where you can list it.

     

    EDIT: Also, I wish it didn't, but the Omicron scare will probably hamper both hiring and travel until early-to-mid-February in the States.

    Thats really a shame the homophobia. I thought we were beyond the stone age where people could just live and be people but i guess not…

    ok so it looks like rentmen is definitely going to be the move. I will probably wait until you said the virus calms down a little bit around the middle/end of Feb because I know Omnicron definitely has an effect on the rate of meetups

     

  10. On 1/15/2022 at 8:01 PM, jtwalker said:

    I only hire off of rent.men and rentmasseur.com.  Other than the obvious type qualifiers, a few things I look at when I'm making a decision include:

    • Is the profile completely self-absorbed, or does the provider talk about how he takes care of others?
    • Did he invest some effort into his description.  I may be the only reader on Rent.Men, but I love a good, flirtatious description.
    • Is he into the same things I am? (Don't list everything, but check the things you enjoy)
    • Is he a good match in terms of position? (Don't say Ask Me)
    • Is there any discussion about him on this forum?
      • If you are friendly, have thick skin and are well-reviewed, I think participating here can be a plus.
    • Does he smile or at least look content? (I'm surprised by the number of middle fingers and angry looking people I find)
    • Does he have a face?  (It's OK if the face is only in the private photos, but providers should have a face)
    • Do the photos appear to be consistent?  (Some guys have 12 different looks spanning 8 years.  Don't do that)
      • Side Note, I would prefer 10-20 great photos over 100+ mediocre, dated photos.
    • Videos are also a plus, even if they are not erotic.  Somehow it is easier to get a feel for someone's image and personality from a video.
    • Does he have good reviews?
    • How long has he been listed?

    Providers rarely check all my boxes, so I am a realist, but this is how I look at a profile.

    On the one hand, the last two are the hardest.  On the other hand, I frequently see providers with 10+ reviews after only a couple of months.  If someone is listed for 5 years with 3 reviews, that is a red flag.  Likewise, if someone has 20 reviews in 6 months, that is a good sign.

    After I make contact, I am looking for more than a one word answer and a rate that makes sense in the current market.  Rates that are too high or too low are indicative or no experience or a huge ego which is a turnoff for me personally.

    Finally, I don't know why more providers don't create a simple website.  This is a great and inexpensive way to share a little more detail.  Here's an example of one I like:  https://www.meetmattanthony.com/

    Perhaps this is TMI, but I hope it helps.

    Got it will look into rentmasseur as well. Thank you for the input and thank you for explaining what a profile should look like in the eyes of a potential client. Really appreciate you taking the time to do that for me and will definitely make sure to include all the relevant information about my services in my profile. Love the idea of a website as well. Thats a smart move and definitely makes you stand out in a crowd for sure 

  11. On 1/15/2022 at 6:37 PM, azdr0710 said:

    @Bobby Biceps

    yes, rentmen is the best other option.....and periodic posting in this forum.....as @crushme99 says.....

    be clear ahead of time with any limits you have during a meet.....be honest and professional.....trust your first instincts.....there will be freaks, time-wasters, and bullshitters, unfortunately (you probably already realize that)......I'd also add a "signature" to your profile here in this forum that is your bestflex page link.....and add the rentmen one later if you set that up.....

    the readers of this forum are mostly very good people, but are a small, small amount compared to the number of rentmen readers.....if you get an inquiry from a member of this forum, it probably has a lot more validity than a rentmen inquiry

    as I said, continue posting here in the "Deli" forum and consider a rentmen profile....rentmen has a somewhat stiff monthly fee, but will result in many new inquiries compared to the relatively unknown bestflex site....be ready to wade thru dozens of contacts daily and learn how to tell who is serious and who isn't......lots to figure out

    https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Bobby-Biceps

    for forum members interested, an earlier thread....

    https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/129810-bobby-biceps-nynjct-muscle-worship-a/

     

    That makes rentment x2 !

    i am already starting to develop that spider sense you are talking about when it comes to flakes or time wasters. Luckily for me I would say 90% of inquiries I get are serious one’s with a majority of those being eventual meetups. This is really one Of those situations where everyone I meet raves and is really happy but it is just a matter of getting in front of more eyeballs. Ive heard horror stories on providers either being not as advertised, chronically late, or just complete wastes of time and I want to do my part in changing that as best I can.

  12. On 1/15/2022 at 5:35 PM, crushme99 said:

    Hello Bobby.  It has been a pleasure to correspond with you in a couple different ways.  I hope you are doing well.  I am no expert - having only done 5 muscle worship hires in my life.  But I would suggest RentMen and this message forum.  Those are the places I look, along with BestFlex.  This forum must be one of the biggest around for muscle service, but other folks may know of more options.  If you can post here from time to time and develop a following, that will be a major step.  RentMen is great, but it does not allow providers and clients to interact like this forum does.  Aside from the business connections which can be built, it's also a chance to have public and private conversations with some really fine and interesting people (like you) and I'm sure that can lead to bookings.  Sure, you will run into some flakes jerks, but they can be found at your local CVS or Safeway, right?  You already have some fans on this forum and I think you can "grow" that base.  Count me as someone who would love a muscle worship meet-up at some point.... and also the opportunity to get to know you.  (Unless, of course, you are secretly an axe murderer or something like that.  LOL.)  Again, I hope all is well and that 2022 will be a top-notch year for you.  Thanks for posting here.


    haha i am definitely not the neighborhood axe murderer 

    but thank you in all seriousness for the detailed response. From reading yours and everyone else’s it seems that rentmen is the next logical place to do so. And yes I will keep posting on the forums. Every time I do I always get a welcome response and l always learn something new which I really appreciate from members of the community. Thank you

    bobby

  13. hey all,

    so I will jump right into this slight issue I am having. long story short... business has been slowing. I still have my regulars (which I am very happy about!) but as far as new inquiries are concerned, things have really dried up. I'm sure Covid has alot to do with that but I was looking to begin advertising on more sites anyways so this may just be the push I need. My question is..... I am only advertising as of now on thebestflex. I am not super familiar with other websites at this point in time. If you were me looking to get new clients and the most eyeballs seeing your ad what would be your next place to start advertising? where do you look for guys yourself ? rentmen?

    P.S Everyone i've met with has really liked the service they have received so it's not me as cocky as that may sound ha. If I had to guess id say 50% have done at the minimum 1 repeat. I really do enjoy what I do, the people I meet, and do a good job for everyone I meet with. always discreet, on time, and hygienic of course. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

    Bobby

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