Red flag signs on Masseurs a

[Hey_Jay]

Share your experience. I’d say a 30 min rate is one, too many reviews in within a month period (too sketchy) and sometimes a massage certification is never a guarantee. What’s your experience?

[BillyMan]

Advertises only on Craigslist (no web site with reviews).

 

You Google search the phone number and all you get are escort ads.

 

Keeps having to call to explain why he is late for the outcall.

 

Uses paper towels to wipe you off.

[+ tassojunior]

Ads on Rentmen and MassuerFinder both.

[BillyMan]

Does not have a table.

 

The only advertised style is "feather touch."

 

Prefers older clients. Prefers younger clients.

 

"Intuitive."

 

When you ask how long the massage lasts, the response is "You will leave satisfied."

 

States in ad "My room-rate knows my business."

[+ Travis69]

The 30 minute massage is geared to businessmen in a hurry and limited budget(married). I have seen a few who offer that and had a great time.

[JeffreyD]

I have also discovered that most guys who post selfie pics in their bathrooms do not offer the cleanest incall sessions. You know the ones, you can still see the toilet seat up, tons of stuff on the bathroom counter, towels on the floor etc. Their apartment and or studio reeks, not well maintained. Remember what your mom taught you. If you’re going to have company over at clean your place up a bit ! I avoid these types of ads that have photos like this. Big red flag for me .

[maninsoma]

I guess I have different "red flags" than a lot of you. My red flags:

 

1. I search the phone number and find an escort/massage ad for a woman or preop MTF transgender woman.

2. The price is as high as an escort rate and the ad text is entirely vague as to what service is being offered.

3. Image search leads to some other person online who is highly unlikely to be in my area offering massage.

4. I have seen the photos for a long time and they never change.

[Ajac]

Any photos with weapons in them. Guns, knives, pitchforks. I have seen them all. One photo a guy had a leather apron on that immediately made me think of chain saw massacre. Picture after picture scowling or angry looking.

[OCClient]

Just like hiring a new employee, one never knows until they start work. But the up front communication style (or lack of good communication) can offer clues how seriously they are treating their massage clients.

[buckshot1000]

Now that MFinder and MassageM4M requires a face picture, they now advertise their headless/faceless picture on Backpage.

[+ Travis69]

If they don't have a photo of the massage area with table I don't even consider.

[+ tassojunior]

I have also discovered that most guys who post selfie pics in their bathrooms do not offer the cleanest incall sessions. You know the ones, you can still see the toilet seat up, tons of stuff on the bathroom counter, towels on the floor etc. Their apartment and or studio reeks, not well maintained. Remember what your mom taught you. If you’re going to have company over at clean your place up a bit ! I avoid these types of ads that have photos like this. Big red flag for me .

 

I always notice the pics in hotel elevator mirrors and hotel bathroom mirrors. This is their normal "place of business" and pretty much what the guy looks like on arrival. They do have really messy bathrooms at home.

[Hey_Jay]

Just like hiring a new employee, one never knows until they start work. But the up front communication style (or lack of good communication) can offer clues how seriously they are treating their massage clients.

totally agree!!!

[Hey_Jay]

I always notice the pics in hotel elevator mirrors and hotel bathroom mirrors. This is their normal "place of business" and pretty much what the guy looks like on arrival. They do have really messy bathrooms at home.

ditto!!!

[Hey_Jay]

Any photos with weapons in them. Guns, knives, pitchforks. I have seen them all. One photo a guy had a leather apron on that immediately made me think of chain saw massacre. Picture after picture scowling or angry looking.

yeah!!! photos that not even related to business they are offering...I'm ok with pics taken from their travels. I've seen a few showing the middle finger like why? duh!!!

[+ bashful]

The 30 minute massage is geared to businessmen in a hurry and limited budget(married). I have seen a few who offer that and had a great time.

 

Several years ago, a provider once told me he made good money in NYC staying in the financial district. During the day, guys just wanted to get in, get off, get out.

 

(or, said another way, pop and go)

Edited April 5, 2018 by bashful

[Hey_Jay]

Several years ago, a provider once told me he made good money in NYC staying in the financial district. During the day, guys just wanted to get in, get off, get out.

 

(or, said another way, pop and go)

 

agree, you have a point. To each is own.

[Cruiser7]

I guess I have different "red flags" than a lot of you. My red flags:

 

1. I search the phone number and find an escort/massage ad for a woman or preop MTF transgender woman.

4. I have seen the photos for a long time and they never change.

 

Excellent ones, and my two biggest red flags also. I would add:

 

Reverse number search not only shows other ads, but ads, quite literally, all over the country at the same time. I often think, “there’s no way this guy is in my area.”