Ratio of creeps to nice guys

[TantricMD]

Hello escorts,

 

I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.

 

I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.

 

I appreciate the feedback,

TantricMD

[TantricMD]

Interesting comments [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]. I always believed that the ratio must be more in favor of nice guys, otherwise why continue to work in a profession that doesn't satisfy? Or, are the pay and benefits (travel, flexible hours, adoring clients) worth putting up with the downsides? I know many government employees who may not love their jobs, but the benefits make it palatable enough to raise a family off of. I'm not trying to make a point or push my own opinion as I am sincerely curious to hear escorts perspective on their client pools. Thanks

Edited April 2, 2018 by TantricMD

[FTM Zachary Prince]

It all depends on how and where you advertise your services. I know, because I’ve worked many different environments in many different ways and price ranges over the years.

 

My current business model is designed to maximise my ratio of genuine/respectful clients to other inquiries and it works well.

[mike carey]

Interesting comments @Dominiking.

I note you have typed Dominiking's handle in but there is no link. Rather than type the whole thing, type the @ then start to type the name (no space), and a pick list will appear under it. You can then select them from the list and that will link to their profile and create an alert for them that they have been mentioned.

[TantricMD]

Thanks @mike carey , wasn't sure how that worked .

[MichBoyBlake]

I'm fairly new, but so far in my experience it's like... the guys that are creepy/impolite will chat with you all day but rarely end up booking anything.

[TantricMD]

Thank you for everyone's insightful opinion, I am very interested on a data level if anyone has a ratio of creeps to nice guys. What percentage of your clients are nice guys? There are several threads filled with the praises and pitfalls of client/pro relations, so I am curious to know what the numbers say and how that might reveal to both clients and pros how successful or complicated our interactions are at the moment. Maybe I should build a survey? Lol Any and all comments are great. If you could, even offer a "guesstimate", please leave a number to add some data to the discussion. Thanks

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Of the clients that actually schedule and show up, 99% are absolutely delightful, respectful and professional. As far as time wasters, for me that only occupies maybe 15-20% of the emails I recieved.

[+ VictorPowers]

Of the clients that actually schedule and show up, 99% are absolutely delightful, respectful and professional. As far as time wasters, for me that only occupies maybe 15-20% of the emails I recieved.

Those oe Percentages seem pretty spot on! I'd split the time waster percentage in half and say the other half are tire kicker type inquiries and their "time wasting tendencies" were not intentional.

[mike carey]

Those oe Percentages seem pretty spot on! I'd split the time waster percentage in half and say the other half are tire kicker type inquiries and their "time wasting tendencies" were not intentional.

I, on the other hand am a confirmed timewaster who just wants Victor to talk to me for free. I mean, it's obvious. I'm not in lust. At all.

[+ VictorPowers]

I, on the other hand am a confirmed timewaster who just wants Victor to talk to me for free. I mean, it's obvious. I'm not in lust. At all.

What's unfair is life happened and you cannot attend PS. I suppose I just have to fly to Australia now.

[mike carey]

What's unfair is life happened and you cannot attend PS. I suppose I just have to fly to Australia now.

Of course, all Americans should have to experience a 14 hour flight at some stage.

[mike carey]

... But I'll be in the US again soon enough. How long is the drive from LV to SLC?

[marylander1940]

Of course, all Americans should have to experience a 14 hour flight at some stage.

 

Chicago to Honolulu is enough for me.

 

Hello escorts,

 

I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.

 

I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.

 

I appreciate the feedback,

TantricMD

 

Back to subject:

 

Good question yet I think (escorting) is a very unpredictable activity. Is very hard to give a percentage of timewasters, teasers, freaks, etc. compared to the number of genuinely interested guys who eventually close the deal.

 

Should we talk again about the Dallas mafia...?

[TantricMD]

Is very hard to give a percentage of timewasters, teasers, freaks, etc. compared to the number of genuinely interested guys who eventually close the deal.

 

Let me clarify by saying that the original question only refers to clients. I would not add those who do not book or follow through in that category. I'm speaking only of those who pros have made appts with and actually met. I think it is important to take into account the timewasters, but this topic is not that one.

 

Keep in mind, my inquiry is of the clients pros have met, what percentage dont turn out turn be worth it.

[marylander1940]

Let me clarify by saying that the original question only refers to clients. I would not add those who do not book or follow through in that category. I'm speaking only of those who pros have made appts with and actually met. I think it is important to take into account the timewasters, but this topic is not that one.

 

I see that you meant "encounter" as in actually meeting and being hired by them. I consider escorting also involves answering the phone, emails, etc.

 

I'm sure it's 99% nice guys trying to have a good time, and 1% who have some baggage, do drugs, have a love-hate relationship because they have to pay, etc.

[TantricMD]

I'm sure it's 99% nice guys trying to have a good time, and 1% who have some baggage, do drugs, have a love-hate relationship because they have to pay, etc.

 

I guess I should respond in kind and say that 85% of my massage & escort interactions have been amazing, and 15% are ones that I wouldn't return to only due to chilly communication or attitude, lack of skill (though pretty ), or they were in some other way disengaged (too tired, too high, too worried about next appt).

 

So far, pretty positive outcomes. Love to get some more feedback from both sides.

Edited April 2, 2018 by TantricMD

[+ José Soplanucas]

Hello escorts,

 

I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.

 

I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.

 

I appreciate the feedback,

TantricMD

 

 

What is creepy and what is nice? What is creepy to you may be a sexual fantasy to me and viceversa, what is nice to you can be pretentious formality or rudeness or (fill the blank) to others. The OP questions sounds to me like pretty much asking to the escorts what is the percentage of clients they like vs those they don't.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

What is creepy and what is nice? What is creepy to you may be a sexual fantasy to me and viceversa, what is nice to you can be pretentious formality or rudeness or (fill the blank) to others. The OP questions sounds to me like pretty much asking to the escorts what is the percentage of clients they like vs those they don't.

Well, isn't there more to that, like being able to adapt to the present company, maybe based on some non-verbal clues that the way you are behaving is not enjoyed?

[TantricMD]

What is creepy and what is nice?

 

@latbear4blk There is no right answer. That's the purpose of such a discussion. I'm curious to hear all perspectives, taking them all into account, hopefully finding some similarities that might form a consensus, but this is not a one size fits all query. A simpler barometer might be: if you liked it, lean toward nice and if you didn't, vote creepy. Thanks for your comment.

[TantricMD]

What is creepy and what is nice? What is creepy to you may be a sexual fantasy to me and viceversa, what is nice to you can be pretentious formality or rudeness or (fill the blank) to others. The OP questions sounds to me like pretty much asking to the escorts what is the percentage of clients they like vs those they don't.

 

@latbear4blk With you being a respected and frequent flyer of the site, I'm quite curious to hear your score!

[+ José Soplanucas]

@latbear4blk With you being a respected and frequent flyer of the site, I'm quite curious to hear your score!

 

LOL. I am not an escort, I am one of the creepy clients.

[TantricMD]

LOL. I am not an escort, I am one of the creepy clients.

You're input is just as valuable. Somehow, I had a feeling about this... but I classified it under "fetish".

[+ José Soplanucas]

You're input is just as valuable. Somehow, I had a feeling about this... but I classified it under "fetish".

 

My friend, the point is I cannot have any input as I am not an escort and I do not have any clients.

[TantricMD]

My friend, the point is I cannot have any input as I am not an escort and I do not have any clients.

 

So this kinda works like algebra, in that you can switch the variables around.

 

85% of my massage & escort interactions have been amazing, and 15% are ones that I wouldn't return to only due to chilly communication or attitude, lack of skill (though pretty ), or they were in some other way disengaged.

 

Clients can give a ratio on their interactions with pros.

Edited April 2, 2018 by TantricMD