Other escorts

[+ JEC]

Should a client ever talk to an escort about experiences with other escorts - or is this equivalent of talking about former boyfriends/girlfriends? Not sure if this would be a topic of mutual interest or taboo. Not necessarily talking about gossip/trash talk (which seems off limits) just general experiences?

[big-n-tall]

As in a lot of things... it depends on the person. There are two escorts I've met who like to hear about my sexual exploits, be it with a man, woman, escort, or friend with benefits. I don't give names, but I will tell them about specific situations. It seems to turn them on. They both have asked particular questions about what I've done more so than with whom.

 

All the rest have never asked or don't seem to care.

 

I think the only problem you might run into is if you somehow compare the escort you are with, with another escort you've seen. Just because they may be exceptionally hot doesn't mean they don't have the same esteem issues you or anyone else has.

 

Ultimately, I say unless they directly ask... I personally wouldn't bring it up.

Edited February 19, 2018 by big-n-tall

[wklucas]

I always remember 1 specific time in a Dallas hotel on a biz trip -

I had seen escort #1 of the day (a true, tall, hunky, hairy, VVVGL, Texan top stud) in the afternoon....

I had escort #2 over much later that same night....(an almost just as great encounter)....

Anyway, I was asking if escort#2 might be interested in being part of a 3-way that I would arrange with #1....

Right away just knowing the fact that #1 had been with me in the same bed earlier that same day seemed to excite #2 so as to increase his intensity & enjoyment of our session all on its own.....

Anyway, I also related to #2 that #1 was open to a 3-way but #1 seemed to be pushing 1 other guy in particular who also ran an ad & was someone he enjoyed working with.....

#2 told me that the guy that #1 was "pushing" was actually #1's real-life boyfriend.....(a fact that #1 had withheld from me....& actually bothered me a bit, errrrr a lot)

I never did arrange a 3-way on that trip.....but I did have #1 back solo for a repeat of the great time that he had provided the 1st time.

[+ VictorPowers]

What do you mean "other"? I'm not your only hire?

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

What do you mean "other"? I'm not your only hire?

 

Sometimes it takes a while to find quality.

[gallahadesquire]

Just a random fantasy ... TB and VP together ...

 

[hypothetically]

I find it fascinating to hear about my client’s experiences with other escorts, good or bad. I have very transparent conversations with all my clients and I encourage them to share. I’m based in NYC, so you can imagine the stories make for a good laugh or “wow” moment. However, I wouldn’t encourage you the client to have these kind of candid convos with every escort you book as jealousy does exist among “colleagues” and some of the boys are very territorial about their regulars.

[BabyBoomer]

I find it fascinating to hear about my client’s experiences with other escorts, good or bad.

 

Since there's no link to your ad in your profile, I assume you prefer to remain anonymous.

 

~Boomer~

[hypothetically]

Since there's no link to your ad in your profile, I assume you prefer to remain anonymous.

 

~Boomer~

 

Quick on your feet.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I’m a big fan of sluts and like hearing stories about any/all of my sexual partners other escapades! When the line is crossed into negative gossip, I get very uncomfortable and I think it reflects badly on the client more than anything. Likewise with sharing intimate details that might best remain private. I love hearing that you fucked your last hire in the washroom of an Amtrak train on your way down to D.C.! I don’t need to know his real name, his medical conditions, or any other personal details that he might have shared with you in confidence. Likewise, I don’t need to hear if he asked you to bareback him and you were shocked and decided not to hire him again even though the hookup was awesome. You may be looking for someone to share the story with and expect a sympathetic ear from me, but pretty much any time the conversation crosses into negative-gossip it becomes over-sharing to me.

[+ JEC]

What do you mean "other"? I'm not your only hire?

If you were in Boston I'd probably make you a regular VP

[marylander1940]

Should a client ever talk to an escort about experiences with other escorts - or is this equivalent of talking about former boyfriends/girlfriends? Not sure if this would be a topic of mutual interest or taboo. Not necessarily talking about gossip/trash talk (which seems off limits) just general experiences?

 

Yes, good and bad. Why not?

 

Most clients will tell stories without saying names.