Asking for Stats?

[ChicagoGuy]

An escort I was trying to hire asked for my ‘stats — size, height, weight, ethnicity’. I felt quite a bit insulted. That was probably just his second text message.

[Pulgasari1991]

An escort I was trying to hire asked for my ‘stats — size, height, weight, ethnicity’. I felt quite a bit insulted. That was probably just his second text message.

You might want to consider being one step ahead and speaking out your stats before being asked. That way you'll never know.

[MikeyGMin]

An escort I was trying to hire asked for my ‘stats — size, height, weight, ethnicity’. I felt quite a bit insulted. That was probably just his second text message.

It's a hot-button issue for many people, but I would try not to take it personally to the point of being insulted. It's a sure sign the escort has limitations on the type of clients he can serve. It could be size. It could be age. It could be race. You will never really know, so unless you are really interested in that particular provider, it's best to just move on. Better to know up front than to show up and be someone the provider just can't work with.

[jawjateck]

Those questions are becoming more common. Young providers are bringing their grindr game(s) onto the RM platform.

[+ StLouisOct]

I usually describe myself up front to ensure the guy will be interested in an older client. In one case, the escort was a slim and versatile, and wanted to make sure I wasn’t a 300 pound guy with a 10 incher who wanted to pound the hell out of him (I’m not). I thought his concerns and questions were valid and reasonable.

Edited December 14, 2017 by StLouisOct

[+ freecahill1965]

Though I list my stats on my RM profile, I pass on escorts who ask for stats or have age limits on their profile. For me it sends a red flag, they could not be into you for some limit they did not mention. For the most part, the most popular and high performing and high quality providers discussed in this forum do not mention them.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

It goes both ways:

1. Men who advertise their limits are jerks. I'm not attracted to jerks. I don't want to fuck them.
   
2. I share my stats before meeting, to warn off men who won't want to fuck me.
   

[marylander1940]

An escort I was trying to hire asked for my ‘stats — size, height, weight, ethnicity’. I felt quite a bit insulted. That was probably just his second text message.

 

Some even ask for pictures.

 

Btw I've been told stories about clients who lie about their stats even if they're not asked for them.

[marylander1940]

You might want to consider being one step ahead and speaking out your stats before being asked. That way you'll never know.

 

Some folks on here like privacy and don't want to share that kind of information.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I offer the info up front and offer a picture too - Not interested in wasting time and $$$$ on someone who doesn't appreciate the opportunity to be with me!!!!

[coriolis888]

 

Some folks on here like privacy and don't want to share that kind of information.

 

 

Not only wanting privacy.

 

Many escorts ask clients for their stats. Some escorts even ask a client for a photo (as noted already in a prior post above).

 

Many clients have sensitive high profile jobs/occupations.

 

It is not difficult to foresee damage and embarrassment that could befall a client if proof got out that the client voluntarily released his photo and personal information while "fishing" via a gay sex site.

 

Refusal to furnish such data could be for job or occupation survival.

[marylander1940]

Not only wanting privacy.

 

Many escorts ask clients for their stats. Some escorts even ask a client for a photo (as noted already in a prior post above).

 

Many clients have sensitive high profile jobs/occupations.

 

It is not difficult to foresee damage and embarrassment that could befall a client if proof got out that the client voluntarily released his photo and personal information while "fishing" via a gay sex site.

 

Refusal to furnish such data could be for job or occupation survival.

 

I guess we agree.

[+ freecahill1965]

Some even ask for pictures.

 

Btw I've been told stories about clients who lie about their stats even if they're not asked for them.

@marylander1940 , 10 pounds is just a little white lie.

[marylander1940]

@marylander1940 , 10 pounds is just a little white lie.

 

Huh?

 

Who said 10 Lbs.?

[Pulgasari1991]

Some folks on here like privacy and don't want to share that kind of information.

Well, I just didn't have the impression that that was the OP's concern.

 

Thank you, nonetheless; I wouldn't have guessed there could be such worries. I understand the privacy issue in a general sense, but hiding stats seemed a bit far-fetched to me.

[+ freecahill1965]

Huh?

 

Who said 10 Lbs.?

I was being fatcious. Joking that my stats are only 10 pounds off.

[marylander1940]

I was being fatcious. Joking that my stats are only 10 pounds off.

 

Now that you added the smile is more clear. LOL

 

I've heard about guys who describe themselves as " a little bit chubby" but they're pushing 300 Lbs.

[marylander1940]

Well, I just didn't have the impression that that was the OP's concern.

 

Thank you, nonetheless; I wouldn't have guessed there could be such worries. I understand the privacy issue in a general sense, but hiding stats seemed a bit far-fetched to me.

 

Good point, you're right the OP wasn't talking about privacy, he just felt surprised about the request.

 

I remember ads saying "in shape" only. I would just tell the escort to take Viagra and do it.

[+ freecahill1965]

Now that you added the smile is more clear. LOL

 

I've heard about guys who describe themselves as " a little bit chubby" but they're pushing 300 Lbs.

Too funny, I actually add a bit to my stats so when they see me they think "wow. he's not so bad after all."

[+ Charlie]

Too funny, I actually add a bit to my stats so when they see me they think "wow. he's not so bad after all."

I used to do this sometimes, too.

[+ freecahill1965]

At work, I always told poeple I was 5 years older until they had a surprise 50th party when I was 45. lol

[Pulgasari1991]

I remember ads saying "in shape" only. I would just tell the escort to take Viagra and do it.

Aww, what about their answers?

[Gadfly22]

There was a similar thread a few months back

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/is-it-a-red-flag-if.128579/

 

The general consensus, in case you don't feel like sorting through all the posts, was that the only person stupider than a provider who asks a potential client for pics is a client who actually complies with the request.

[MikeyGMin]

There was a similar thread a few months back

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/is-it-a-red-flag-if.128579/

 

The general consensus, in case you don't feel like sorting through all the posts, was that the only person stupider than a provider who asks a potential client for pics is a client who actually complies with the request.

That's a complete mischaracterization of a very long thread. There is no "general consensus" on this topic. There are plenty of us who don't have security concerns or insecurities to deal with and have no problem providing stats and a picture. I've been doing this successfully for a long time and I'm far from stupid dude.

[Populist Fury]

That's a complete mischaracterization of a very long thread. There is no "general consensus" on this topic. There are plenty of us who don't have security concerns or insecurities to deal with and have no problem providing stats and a picture. I've been doing this successfully for a long time and I'm far from stupid dude.

 

Well said. <333