What Advice Would You Give To A Guy With A Small Dick?

[TruHart1]

It may be unusual in the case of escorts, who sometimes begin the whole escorting business because they are blest with large endowments, but one of my very favorite ongoing escort relationships is with a guy who could only be described as smaller than average. Maybe I was a bit surprised in our first appointment, especially since he had numerous glowing and excellent reviews on Daddy's. Once the lovemaking began, though, he left no doubt in my mind that I had hired one of the hottest, most talented men in the business.

 

Everything about our times with each other is just drenched in intense sensuous sexual energy. Once I spent my first three hours with him, (extended from my originally planned period of two hours because we were both just so into it!) I knew I'd found a truly special man who knew exactly how to make me enjoy our time together to the very last drop (and even after!!!) Not only that but I knew I would be seeing this man again and again, whenever I was in his area. In his case, size is totally and completely irrelevant!

 

I LOVE this hobby!

 

TruHart1

[Cure694u]

I don't know guys, I've just started experimenting with my sexuality (in my mid 40's) and I've only had 3 experiences and my most recent experience, he's gotta be around 8 or 9 inches while my second was a perfect 4 or 5 inches. That was more pleasurable to me than the current 9 inch cock that has yet to enter me all the way.

 

I'm kinda in love with team 4-5 inches!

[+ Gar1eth]

I don't know guys, I've just started experimenting with my sexuality (in my mid 40's) and I've only had 3 experiences and my most recent experience, he's gotta be around 8 or 9 inches while my second was a perfect 4 or 5 inches. That was more pleasurable to me than the current 9 inch cock that has yet to enter me all the way.

 

I'm kinda in love with team 4-5 inches!

 

G-d love you!! I wish there were more around like you as I’m only 5”. But unfortunately there aren’t.

 

I think people are being too cavalier about this guy’s misfortune. I’m not saying I think he should kill himself. But the majority of everyone out there saying -“Just accept it and go on” had probably never had to deal with having a small penis. I’m not saying those people might not have ‘crosses’ of their own to bear. But I came to the conclusion a long time ago that we all have different tolerance levels. This kind of thing strikes at the heart of what we feel we are as men. Should it-obviously not. But when it is such a fundamental part of being human. And to know you don’t measure up to even average ... I shudder to think how much rejection this guy has gone thru and will continue to go thru for the rest of his life.

 

Gman

[MikeBiDude]

G-d love you!! I wish there were more around like you

I’ve just reread the entire thread.....and “more around like you” seems to be very common - the majority of posters (2 vocal exceptions) seem to have NO problem with smaller penises.

 

So,at least from this thread statistics seem to show there are many who accept people “as is”.

 

.. I shudder to think how much rejection this guy has gone thru and will continue to go thru for the rest of his life.

Eh, he needs to find different friends....confidence is king!

[+ Gar1eth]

I’ve just reread the entire thread.....and “more around like you” seems to be very common - the majority of posters (2 vocal exceptions) seem to have NO problem with smaller penises.

 

So,at least from this thread statistics seem to show there are many who accept people “as is”.

 

 

Eh, he needs to find different friends....confidence is king!

 

 

That’s easy to say here in absentia. But we don’t really know how small he is. And we’d need to ask the confirmed bottoms on the Forum how they would feel about having sex or a relationship with the guy. I can tell you I was turned down by two guys last week because I wasn’t big enough-and they were some of the only few who initially showed interest. If the apps weren’t the only way I could meet people (and please no lectures on that-it would be very difficult due to my life to meet anyone any other way), I’d be deleting them right and left. 99% of the time I’m too old, too out of shape, too small of cock, .... I could go on and on.

 

Gman

[BSR]

On Tumblr I follow an account that posts pix of naked guys with small cocks - smallsmallerthesmallest if you want to do a search. The captions are even derogatory sometimes. But the guys are always naked (how else would you see their size?), and I find about 90% of them are smokin' hot. Most of the guys are probably a little smaller than average (porn probably distorts our notion of "average"), but I even find plenty of the teeny-tiny guys really sexy i guess I'm not much of a size queen.

[+ Tygerscent]

On Tumblr I follow an account that posts pix of naked guys with small cocks - smallsmallerthesmallest if you want to do a search. The captions are even derogatory sometimes. But the guys are always naked (how else would you see their size?), and I find about 90% of them are smokin' hot. Most of the guys are probably a little smaller than average (porn probably distorts our notion of "average"), but I even find plenty of the teeny-tiny guys really sexy i guess I'm not much of a size queen.

I'm with you G...

Its awesome fun when I can put an entire dick and balls in my mouth... I love low hangers but also love ball sacks that get really tight like a peach pit... I like to lick on that and put my Dick there... So HHHOT~!

And taking a smaller dick up the ass is good for me too... hits my prostate in just the right way...

I've also found that guys with average to smaller dicks tend to shoot really far~ I'm ongoing fascinated by that~

 

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P.S. I don't live in Portland anymore but travel there frequently. I live south of Seattle now... my entire downstairs is a dedicated play space: sling, rim chair, toys all of that...

[Cure694u]

G-d love you!! I wish there were more around like you as I’m only 5”. But unfortunately there aren’t.

 

I think people are being too cavalier about this guy’s misfortune. I’m not saying I think he should kill himself. But the majority of everyone out there saying -“Just accept it and go on” had probably never had to deal with having a small penis. I’m not saying those people might not have ‘crosses’ of their own to bear. But I came to the conclusion a long time ago that we all have different tolerance levels. This kind of thing strikes at the heart of what we feel we are as men. Should it-obviously not. But when it is such a fundamental part of being human. And to know you don’t measure up to even average ... I shudder to think how much rejection this guy has gone thru and will continue to go thru for the rest of his life.

 

Gman

Yes, the "relationship" I'm in now is not actually much fun. Granted, it's nice told hold, stroke or fondle a 9" penis but, I'm not enjoying it at all. Whereas with the 5" partner, is entirely pleasurable and has me up at night thinking about him rather than the bigger toy.

[+ Pensant]

While a big dick is coveted in our sphere, I agree that being topped expertly by a small-dicked boy has worked well in the past, especially if they have a hot bod. I’m above average, but have a large head, which some boys can’t tolerate. Oh well.

[Drained Empty]

I think people are being too cavalier about this guy’s misfortune. I’m not saying I think he should kill himself. But the majority of everyone out there saying -“Just accept it and go on” had probably never had to deal with having a small penis. I’m not saying those people might not have ‘crosses’ of their own to bear. But I came to the conclusion a long time ago that we all have different tolerance levels. This kind of thing strikes at the heart of what we feel we are as men. Should it-obviously not. But when it is such a fundamental part of being human. And to know you don’t measure up to even average ... I shudder to think how much rejection this guy has gone thru and will continue to go thru for the rest of his life.

 

Gman

 

Thank you for this.

 

I think some people's reactions are cavalier because they realize there's nothing that can really be done to increase one's size (although losing weight actually can help one's dick look bigger and being fit often translates into stronger erections).

 

I would say I'm modestly endowed (unlucky in the gene pool). I would say 95% of dicks I've seen (and I've seen a lot) are bigger than mine.

 

I would also say the majority of people prefer a larger cock. I have been places where guys can be unattractive but very endowed and that's all that matters. Time after time.

 

My size bothers me. I'm self conscious at urinals, in the locker room, in the spa. If I allow it to preocuppy me, it can be debilitating. Like unable to get out of bed debilitating (although I admittedly have many image issues).

 

One of my earliest "relationships" was with a so-called "straight" guy (I use quotes because I was shamed in another thread for using the term). He was beautiful, above average endowed, and would compliment me on my "big cock." I think he was sincere and trying to be nice but it actually made me even more self-conscious. All I could think was this guy hasn't been with other guys so he has no idea how small I am.

 

Ob the flip side I have a very well endowed guy I see somewhat regularly. He likes dirty talk. But one time, during sex, he said, "your small cock." That was an immediate mood killer and I didn't want to see him for awhile after that. Telling a guy they're small is like telling them they're losing their hair. They already know. You don't have to point it out.

 

I felt a little bit better a few weeks back. A chatty masseur I was with was telling me how he was turned off by small dicks. So I apologized for my size and he told me that I wasn't small at all. But then again, this guy also told me one of his clients has a 16" penis so I don't know what to believe lol.

 

Hung guys are like attractive guys. You're genetically #blessed, will never know the shame and depression associated with being small or unattractive, and of course are confident because of that and can say things like "just accept it." It's knowing we will never be you and feel that confidence that is sometimes the harshest of all realities.

[+ Gar1eth]

Thank you for this.

 

I think some people's reactions are cavalier because they realize there's nothing that can really be done to increase one's size (although losing weight actually can help one's dick look bigger and being fit often translates into stronger erections).

 

I would say I'm modestly endowed (unlucky in the gene pool). I would say 95% of dicks I've seen (and I've seen a lot) are bigger than mine.

 

I would also say the majority of people prefer a larger cock. I have been places where guys can be unattractive but very endowed and that's all that matters. Time after time.

 

My size bothers me. I'm self conscious at urinals, in the locker room, in the spa. If I allow it to preocuppy me, it can be debilitating. Like unable to get out of bed debilitating (although I admittedly have many image issues).

 

One of my earliest "relationships" was with a so-called "straight" guy (I use quotes because I was shamed in another thread for using the term). He was beautiful, above average endowed, and would compliment me on my "big cock." I think he was sincere and trying to be nice but it actually made me even more self-conscious. All I could think was this guy hasn't been with other guys so he has no idea how small I am.

 

Ob the flip side I have a very well endowed guy I see somewhat regularly. He likes dirty talk. But one time, during sex, he said, "your small cock." That was an immediate mood killer and I didn't want to see him for awhile after that. Telling a guy they're small is like telling them they're losing their hair. They already know. You don't have to point it out.

 

I felt a little bit better a few weeks back. A chatty masseur I was with was telling me how he was turned off by small dicks. So I apologized for my size and he told me that I wasn't small at all. But then again, this guy also told me one of his clients has a 16" penis so I don't know what to believe lol.

 

Hung guys are like attractive guys. You're genetically #blessed, will never know the shame and depression associated with being small or unattractive, and of course are confident because of that and can say things like "just accept it." It's knowing we will never be you and feel that confidence that is sometimes the harshest of all realities.

 

I hear you. I’m about 5” when I think the average range starts at 5.5”. I don’t obsess about it quite as much as you describe. But being gay obviously my glance happens to ‘occasionally’ strike a guy’s fly area. So many of the guys I see have very full fly areas. Mine wouldn’t look as full as most of these guys if I were sporting a semi hard erection. It’s depressing. And if I were a bit larger, topping would be so much easier. As it is I’m always wondering if I’ll be able to get past a guy’s buttocks.

 

Gman

[+ Axiom2001]

One escort in San Francisco and I have known and have been seeing each other for over five years. His endowment is quite small; he's accepted it and has developed stellar and quite excellent oral skills. He knows how to make a man "climb the wall" while receiving all of his mouth and teeth. He is also purported to be an excellent fister, something of which I have no interest. Lastly, he is supposedly a power bottom, too. I haven't gone there although, at times, I've definitely wanted to experience. He prefers "raw" to my always desiring to be covered. But, because he has been a great sex partner-- I still go to him when I want to receive "his hot mouth!"

[MassageDrew]

I don’t worry too much about sizes anymore. I go to a sauna/spa where I see varying sizes. Most often the tiny kind surprisingly. I can work with any size LOL

[Bargara Leatherboy]

If a small dicked man is well skilled who cares.

 

I met a men in the West Side Club in NYC way back in the early 90's who was tiny and statues tiny, but he was excellent in bed. Passionate ....

 

I met a reluctant partner one night at Kens a bathhouse in Sydney ( now closed) bak in the 90's , he was reluctant to remove his towel, eventually he did I went down on him very small. But he was a grower. Soon I was choking on him..

Most of the men in the bathhouse would have Been smaller when he was erect .

[MassageDrew]

I met a guy at a friend’s party couple of years back. We had the best conversation and pretty much hung out with each other all night during the party. I knew we liked each other but I kept wondering why he wasn’t asking me out or whether I had to initiate it. I asked him and he said he felt the same way, but he was upfront about his size. My response was “So?” Frankly I was almost disappointed that he assumed I only wanted sex. We had the best time in and out of bed. He lived out of stste though so that was pretty much it.

[jjkrkwood]

I met a guy at a friend’s party couple of years back. We had the best conversation and pretty much hung out with each other all night during the party. I knew we liked each other but I kept wondering why he wasn’t asking me out or whether I had to initiate it. I asked him and he said he felt the same way, but he was upfront about his size. My response was “So?” Frankly I was almost disappointed that he assumed I only wanted sex. We had the best time in and out of bed. He lived out of stste though so that was pretty much it.

 

Men often have a pre-occupation with the size of their dick..... I'm only pre-occupied with their BIG ones...

[MassageDrew]

Men often have a pre-occupation with the size of their dick..... I'm only pre-occupied with their BIG ones...

 

I know you would slut HAHAHA

[escortrod]

I hear you. I’m about 5” when I think the average range starts at 5.5”. I don’t obsess about it quite as much as you describe. But being gay obviously my glance happens to ‘occasionally’ strike a guy’s fly area. So many of the guys I see have very full fly areas. Mine wouldn’t look as full as most of these guys if I were sporting a semi hard erection. It’s depressing. And if I were a bit larger, topping would be so much easier. As it is I’m always wondering if I’ll be able to get past a guy’s buttocks.

 

Gman

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647.php

"In the Journal of Urology study, researchers found the following among the group of 80 men:

• An average penis size of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid
  
• An average penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect."
  

There are lots of studies on penis size, and they vary wildly in what is determined to be the average range. Those where measurements are taken by the researchers, rather than having men self report, tend to result in the average range starting at or just below 5". So you're pretty much average.

 

A full basket in the trousers is more about testicle size and underwear choice than penis size. Briefs are generally helpful, if it's something you care about particularly.

[jjkrkwood]

My advice to guys with small dicks : KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS !

[MikeBiDude]

My advice to guys with small dicks : KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS !

Thereby helping perpetuate a stereotype that gays only care about looks and big cocks....

[escortrod]

Thereby helping perpetuate a stereotype that gays only care about looks and big cocks....

Admittedly this is only based on my personal observations, but I think that stereotype has a very firm grounding in reality. Sadly.

[jjkrkwood]

Thereby helping perpetuate a stereotype that gays only care about looks and big cocks....

 

[beaudejour]

So I've gotten comfortable with my small cock to the point where I've thrown my hat in the ring professionally. I just put it out there. I'm not hung. If you want that, go get it. I spent too many years giving a shit. I personally like the look of a big cock but I'd rather take a smaller one up the ass. Ultimately, it's a question of taste but no one should be shamed over it. Guys with big dicks won the dick lotto. Be happy and shut your damn mouths.

[Guest]

I can’t be the only gay man who prefers small cocks. In fact, I think my ideal man would be FTM without the lower surgery. Are tops really such a rarity or oddity in the gay world ?

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[+ Tarte Gogo]

Perfectly happy with playing with any size, as long as you stand up to attention.

 

But only medium or small up my ass, on the few rare times I will want that.

Well, ok, ok, if you are big, you may still be invited in, if you are really skilled.